Five major risks of men and women living together before marriage
The development of modern society is accelerating, and people's living conditions are getting better and better. As a result, people's minds have become more open. Living together before marriage is also a normal thing. We usually regard living together before marriage as a trial marriage. Many people in life believe that living together before marriage is an emotional exchange between men and women. However, everything in life is relative. Living together before marriage also has certain risks. For women, there are more risks. So, here are the five major risks of men and women living together before marriage. Which ones are they?
Cost 1: Waste of youth
Women age earlier than men, and their physical functions begin to decline at the age of 25. After living together for several years, the woman has grown old, the man is still young, his sexual life is still very powerful, and his career is on the rise, but the two parties may not be able to get married.
Cost 2: Waste of money
When in love, most men will take the initiative to pay the bill. Of course, the AA system is also a very reasonable and fashionable way. Once they live together, the two parties transform into an awkward relationship that is neither a love nor a marriage. It lacks the romance of love but adds more financial burdens.
Cost Three: If you don’t get married, you will suffer serious psychological damage
After living together, men become more psychologically confident, because they know better how to please and deal with women, and are more experienced with women. However, if love fails after living together, women usually leave a psychological shadow and become less and less confident. The next relationship is more inclined to get married than to enjoy love.
Cost 4: Facing everyone’s strange eyes
Currently, society may be tolerant of cohabitation, but tolerance does not mean affirmation. From ancient times to the present, if men fall in love and live together and break up again and again, they will be called "romantic talents" and "romantic and suave". Such experiences in men's mouths have also become their capital to show off.
The same situation is disgraceful for women. Women are often considered to be "watery" and "a dead flower."
Cost 5: Increased risk of infection
The physical characteristics of men and women determine that women are susceptible to gynecological diseases and other diseases after living together. If you become pregnant accidentally, it will cause great damage to a woman's health, and if it is not handled properly, it can easily leave sequelae. The risks of pregnancy are almost entirely borne by women.
Some people regard cohabitation before marriage as a trial marriage, while others regard premarital sex as emotional communication. No matter what your thoughts are on trying to have sex, as a woman, you must know that compared to men, the "cost" women pay is much higher than men.