Relationship is a very complicated matter, and it cannot be maintained by relying on love. It requires the joint efforts of two people. Although the emotional balance is not always balanced, one party must give more and the other party less. But if one party is particularly humble and the other party is particularly proud, then the relationship will not last long. Next, let us learn together what minefields we should not touch in our love life.

What minefields should you not touch in your love life?

1. Put yourself in too humble a position

I understand the feeling of panic when pursuing someone you like, but if you continue to carry this feeling into your future life, this relationship will step on a minefield. Although feelings are not completely balanced, they should be as balanced as possible. If one party blindly gives and the other party blindly demands, this unequal relationship will be wrong from the beginning. I hope everyone can realize this. If this relationship makes you lose yourself, there is no need to continue this relationship.

2. Always interfering in the other person’s life

Everyone is an independent individual, first an independent individual, and then together as lovers. Some people are very controlling in relationships. They always want to control the other person, want to know what the other person is doing, want to know all the other person's relationships, and want to know the other person's life. Although they are under the banner of caring and love, this is not the case. It is essentially a kind of possession. Interfering too much in the other person's life will make the other person feel restricted and lose confidence in the relationship, making it difficult for the relationship to survive.

3. Always compare each other with others

People always have a comparison mentality, which is normal, but if you still have this comparison mentality in a relationship, you will unconsciously hurt the other person's feelings and easily make the other person feel discouraged. Many people have almost no IQ in relationships and always compare the other person with their ex-girlfriend or ex-boyfriend. This is simply a minefield within a minefield. It will make the other person feel that they have no self-esteem, and it will also hurt the other person's feelings. After all, this relationship is about to come to an end.

4. Always require material

It is understandable to want material conditions, which are very important in the relationship between the sexes. If there is no material foundation, no matter how strong the relationship is, it may damage the foundation. But if you attach special importance to material foundation, you must consider this matter before two people start a relationship. If the other person has no money, but wants to be with the other person, since you have decided to be together, you must live well. One person has no money. , you scold him to death, he has no money, and it is very hurtful to often mention money in a relationship.

5. Always imagine that the other party has done something sorry for you

Some people have delusions of being persecuted in relationships. Of course, if this relationship makes them feel insecure, it is normal for them to often have such thoughts. Some people always imagine that the other party has betrayed them, and thus transfer this anger to the other party. This will make the other party particularly confused and make the other party feel that they are not trusted. This feeling of not being trusted is particularly hurtful. emotion.

The above are some minefields that cannot be touched in relationships. I hope everyone can treat relationships with care and manage relationships with care, so that relationships can last long. Small works are fine, but big works are harmful to the fundamentals. It is not easy to be together, so we should cherish them.