There is no doubt that sharing the same bed for the first night is of great significance to newlyweds. Although sexual knowledge has become very popular now, and many newlyweds already know what to do when they have sex for the first time, not all people go smoothly on this night, and problems of one kind or another always arise. So as a newlywed, you must read the following carefully!

1. Is bleeding and pain a virgin?

The first thing that newlyweds come into contact with during their first sexual life is the "hymen" issue. The hymen has always played a more important role in social and moral concepts than other sexual organs. This is because its integrity has always been considered a reliable indicator of a woman’s virginity.

Even the only indicator. In fact, from the perspective of medical practice, it is not scientific to judge whether a virgin is a virgin based on bleeding and pain. Because not every virgin bleeds or has pain during sexual intercourse for the first time, and the characteristics of the hymen vary from person to person. It can be thin, thick, loose, tight, large, or small, and the shape is also different. Some are caused by strenuous exercise, riding, etc. It ruptures due to reasons such as car accidents, falls, trauma, menstrual suppositories, masturbation, etc.; some hymens have shrunk on their own as they get older; some hymens are not obvious at birth but remain intact despite repeated sexual intercourse. Therefore, it is obviously extremely unfair to judge a wife's chastity based solely on her hymen.

2. What should I do if sexual intercourse fails for the first time?

It is also very common for sexual intercourse to fail on the wedding night. According to analysis, the main reasons for failure of first-time sexual intercourse are (due to excessive tension), accounting for 10%; ejaculation before sexual intercourse or ejaculation just after touching the female vagina (caused by over-excitement and impatience), accounting for 8%; pain on the woman's part, accounting for 35% ; 15% did not know the location of sexual intercourse; 20% did not know the reason. On the other hand, the failure of first-time sexual intercourse is related to the experience of caressing. Inexperienced people account for 2/3 of the people who fail. After the first-time sexual intercourse fails, 1/3 of them can understand the reasons. Most of them fail after 2 ~You can successfully couple after 5 trial intercourses, so even if you fail, you don’t have to be impatient or have any worries. You can try again after taking a short break, or wait for a day or two after both parties have stabilized their emotions and the fatigue of the newlyweds has been relieved before trying again. try. If the man fails, the woman's accusations such as "really useless" and "too bad" will often make the man who feels deeply ashamed and uneasy suffer greater psychological setbacks and get into trouble. At this time, if the woman can be reasonable and murmur love words as if nothing has happened, to encourage and comfort the man, the man will regain his courage and seek a harmonious and happy sexual life.

3. Does semen leakage after sexual intercourse affect pregnancy?

Semen discharge from the vagina after intercourse is a common phenomenon. In fact, although each ejaculation can discharge about 2 to 5 ml of semen, which contains hundreds of millions of sperm, only a very small number of sperm can finally pass through the cervix and uterine cavity and reach the fallopian tube waiting for fertilization, generally only 15 to 50. No more than 200 at most. Among them, only the first and high-quality sperm is selected by the egg and combined with it to complete the great cause of life continuation. Most of the remaining sperm are rejected from the palace and are discharged from the vagina along with their semen. In order to prevent the leakage of semen and increase the chance of conception, the woman's buttocks can be elevated during sexual intercourse and she can lie on her back for two hours after sexual intercourse to ensure that the semen floods the cervix and reduces its outflow. As for excess semen being discharged from the vagina after sexual intercourse, it is a natural phenomenon and generally has no impact on pregnancy.