In sexual life, the emotions between men and women can be divided into four periods (honeymoon period or early marriage), conflict period (mutual adaptation period), transfer period (parenting period) and deep period (returning to the world of two people). If normal sex hormones are the cornerstone of a harmonious relationship, then good emotions are the fusion agent, and appropriate sexual fantasies are the catalyst.

Typically, young people have normal sex hormones and rich sexual fantasies, but physical and imaginative urges often dilute the emotional component. In real life, it is not uncommon for college students to break up as soon as they graduate and young couples to divorce as soon as their honeymoon is over. This is the reason. If the emotional relationship is not handled well, then pure physical impulse is not enough to maintain good sex.

Therefore, young people should respect, understand, tolerate, and adapt to each other. In particular, they should learn to accept all the advantages and disadvantages of each other, and use emotional fusion agents to make the newly established relationship between the sexes more stable.

Emotional transfer makes sex less exciting

The situation of middle-aged people is different from that of young people. They spend most of their thoughts on raising their children and working on their careers, and their emotions are in a transition period, stable but lacking in excitement. At the same time, the approach to menopause will cause sex hormone levels to gradually decrease. The body and mind are gradually moving away from sweetness, and it is dangerous if this situation is not changed.

For middle-aged people, the best way is to increase sexual fantasies appropriately. That is, self-stimulation through thinking activities in an awake state or a sleep-like state, which is a self-performed sexual behavior.

The content of sexual fantasies is undoubtedly full of erotic color. It can occur on its own or during masturbation or during sexual intercourse. An American consulting expert gave the example of a middle-aged man who had always been satisfied with his sex life. For many years, he had fantasized about his wife being plump and delicate when she was young, and the two of them constantly changed the time and place of sex, including the bedroom, kitchen, The memories of their sex were left in the bathroom, and the boredom between the couple was eliminated little by little.

Low sex hormones

Sex is a lifelong behavior. Whether it is sexual ability or sexual needs, they are not lost after entering old age. However, as sex hormone levels further decrease, middle-aged and elderly people after the age of 50 will develop a series of sexual performance problems such as low sexual desire and sexual arousal disorders. Fortunately, with the help of modern medicine, professional doctors can use hormone replacement therapy and drug treatment to improve the sexual status of the elderly. Of course, increasing sexual fantasies also has a certain effect on them.

It should be noted that in real life, many young people do not believe that their parents will "do such things", and often ruthlessly separate old parents and let one of them take care of their children for many years; many elderly people themselves are also ashamed. Continuing a sexual life and maintaining the so-called dignity of the elderly amidst depression and pain will cause great harm to the elderly physically and mentally.

5 tips for women to stimulate sexual impulse

1. Appropriate nudity

If a woman exposes too much of her key parts, she will be mistaken for being an "exhibitionist" and immoral. Therefore, how to expose yourself appropriately is a great science. Women who are confident about their necks can wear V-neck clothes, paired with gold necklaces, to set off their beautiful necklines; women who are confident about their shoulders may wish to wear straight-shouldered clothes; if you are worried about exposing your shoulders If there are too many, you might as well sew some lace or match the shoulder circumference; those who are confident about their breasts can unbutton one more shirt and wear a transparent shirt with a lace bra of the same color. People who are confident about their thighs should wear mini skirts. If you wear a long skirt, you should expose your ankles.

2. Awkwardness is lubricant

Make awkwardness look cute

If a man is late for a date, if he says: "Ah! I'm late." You should hold back your complaint and reply: "I was worried that you couldn't find a place!" This is the response to him being late for the first time. demeanor. But if he is late again next time, the quarrel will come in handy: "Huh! I'm late again. I'll punish you by inviting me to dinner!" This level of anger will make him like him quite a bit.

3. Sexy high heels

A suitable pair of high-heeled shoes paired with thin silk high-cut pants will make your legs slim and graceful, adding a lot of indescribable charm in the eyes of men.

4. Too shy

Shyness is a woman's secret weapon to attract men and increase her emotional appeal. When it appears at the right time and at the right time, it becomes flattering. It is a kind of female beauty. Like a girl with an innocent face who suddenly blushes, no young man will not be tempted. But be careful not to "overuse" this state, otherwise it will go the other way.

5. A sigh made him nervous

A gentle sigh can penetrate his heart

Lure him to go to a bar with a little atmosphere, sit side by side, and then chat happily as usual for the first 30 minutes and drink an appropriate amount of wine. After 30 minutes, you began to play with the wine glass in your hand, and stared at his fingertips, sighing quietly: "Alas!" He noticed sensitively, and looked at you with worried eyes. You quickly avoid his sight, give him a fatal blow, and say "Alas" softly. His sighs towards you will definitely give rise to many suspicions, worrying that you no longer like to be with him. At this time, he will try every means to check his faults and be eager to tell you how much he likes you. The romantic comedy will be further staged, playing into your heart.