​​ 999 out of 1,000 women are too soft in the center of love. They can neither cry nor laugh to the man they have loved. They are in a dilemma of life and death.

You are too soft-hearted, maybe you are kind, but you have forgotten that you are cruel to yourself. You spend a lot of time walking a muddy and endless road, letting him hurt you over and over again, never considering your true feelings, and squandering your indulgence on him. The reason why we are too soft-hearted is because we have been expected to be kind-hearted since childhood, and we also like to emphasize that we are kind-hearted. In love, we actually think that if we continue to suffer losses and endure humiliation, it is still worth exchanging it for a memorial arch! But no one appreciates you.

Moreover, he will forget that he is an adult and should not cheat.

How many people have been too soft-hearted, so that a matter that should be resolved in three months has been delayed for three years, and the protracted war of attrition has been fought, and everyone is overwhelmed. It is our own laziness that makes us lose hope for a better start. As long as it comes to feelings, love and friendship, no one has a soft heart.

I was also too soft-hearted. I knew intuitively that we couldn’t get along, but I couldn’t bear to show my concern and apology to the other person, and let his love turn into venom and corrode my patience with life. He makes mistakes again and again, and uses various ways to exert his desire for control. You will help him rationalize it with various reasons. He is used to taking pleasure in abusing you, or simply mistakenly thinks that you are also happy, just because you have never told him that he is still bathed in your magnanimity.

Real feelings are not forced. No one can be forced, otherwise they will not be able to protect themselves and the existence of love.

In order to let him grow up, you sometimes have to be confident and ask him to see that you also have joys and sorrows, and you also have unwillingness to give in.

There is no point in running away. Being soft-hearted is an unfair kindness and has no antidote. But it will take time for you to understand that those who can have true love have to temper themselves in a life with limited tenacity.

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