It seems that many people will say that drinking makes them more "powerful" than usual. is this real? Does drinking alcohol help or destroy sex?

1. A small amount of drinking can make men last longer

There is some truth in the folk saying that a drink is better than a wedding. Zhu Guoxin, chief physician of the Men's Department of Zhengzhou Central Hospital, said that when the amount of alcohol consumed reaches a certain level and the human body is in an anesthetic state, sexual excitement can be suppressed, but this suppression has not yet reached the level of causing sexual dysfunction. At this time, it will make men The ejaculation latency period is prolonged, which plays a role in improving the symptoms of premature ejaculation.

2. Excessive drinking makes actions in vain

However, if you drink too much, alcohol will suppress the central nervous system, interfere with the neural reflex pathways stimulated by sexual impulses, inhibit male penile erection, and inhibit female sexual arousal.

Of course, if you're drunk there's no such thing as sex. Excessive drunkenness or even acute alcohol poisoning can also cause respiratory depression, which is not only sexual depression, but also life-threatening.

3. Long-term alcohol abuse can cause sexual dysfunction

As for long-term alcohol abuse, it is more likely to lead to sexual dysfunction. There are three reasons: First, long-term alcohol stimulation reduces the sensitivity of the central nervous system, resulting in decreased sensitivity to sex, lowered sexual desire, and difficulty in erection and ejaculation after erection; second, alcohol can damage the function of the liver, causing The metabolism and conversion of male hormones by the liver will, if things go on like this, reduce the level of androgens in the blood; the third is damage to testicular tissue, which also leads to the decline of androgens; the fourth is direct damage to penile blood vessels and erectile tissue, reducing erectile function.

Never do these things during sex!

1. Too passive. Many women believe that men should take the initiative during sex. In fact, women who are more proactive in their sexual life can greatly improve sexual satisfaction and sexual ability. Always putting yourself in a passive state will increase men's sexual pressure and the frequency of sexual intercourse will also be affected. It is recommended that women try to take the initiative in married life and learn to "seduce" him.

2. Not confident about your body. Confidence is the "motor" of sexual desire, but many women worry about their figure during sex, and are even reluctant to take off their clothes or even refuse sex because of this. The survey shows that men do not pay much attention to the fat on women's bodies during sex, and plump women are more likely to arouse men's desire. It is recommended that women exercise more and take care of their body and skin after bathing to increase their self-confidence.

3. Be silent. Silence is the enemy of sex. A French survey found that during sex, if the partner remains silent, silence is the most unacceptable behavior for men. The subtext to the other party is "I'm not interested in your behavior at all." It is recommended that you must make sounds during sex, whether it is a low moan or a simple compliment, it is a "catalyst" for a perfect sex life and a great compliment to your partner. Great encouragement.

4. Pretend to have an orgasm. Many women will pretend to orgasm during sex, thinking that this is a "white lie" to their lover. In fact, it is easy for men to tell whether their partner has really climaxed through their movements, expressions, and breathing sounds. Pretending to have an orgasm will cause both parties to feel psychologically frustrated, and the orgasm rate will be even lower in the future. It is recommended that women actively communicate when they are unable to climax.

5. Rarely caress men. Modern sexual science research believes that the most important thing in sexual feelings is touch. Caressing and kissing sensitive parts can fully open the door to sexual pleasure. Enjoying caress is not just for women. Men also need to use caress to arouse their emotions and feel loved. It is recommended that women caress men more and develop their sexual sensitive points.

6. "Too selfish" in sex. Sex is a process of satisfaction for both parties. If a woman pays too much attention to her own happiness, and even criticizes men because of it, her partner will be disappointed. It is recommended that women ask the man how he feels while she is satisfied.

How to have harmonious sex?

1. Give priority to sex life

Happy couples regard sex life as an important part of a harmonious relationship. As long as possible, they will do everything possible to protect their sexual life and satisfy their sexual needs.

2. Book a room date

Agreeing on a date for sexual intercourse in advance will deepen the relationship between husband and wife, and will also attract and yearn for each other's passion. If a quarrel happens to happen on the agreed night, you should know how to put your worries aside and concentrate on having a happy sex life. This often eliminates your worries unconsciously and resolves the conflicts caused by the quarrel.

3. Diversity of sexual intercourse

Loving each other and caring for each other are of course an important factor in strengthening the relationship between husband and wife. For a harmonious and happy couple, the tenderness and sweetness between them can be seen in their words, actions and even every look in their eyes. Only such a couple can be called a pair of mandarin ducks. It goes without saying that their sex life is wonderful.

4. The mystery of touch

Happy couples are more sensitive than the average person. They understand the knowledge of touch. Hand touching, hugging, and kissing can not only transmit sexual stimulation, but also stew the "heat" of sexual desire. Some psychologists tell people that touching and kissing are often more sexually satisfying than intercourse. Couples who are ignorant of the secrets of sexual intercourse should pay attention to cultivating their knowledge of touch.

5. Make "life" full of humor

Humor will also help increase your sexual interest. One day, a husband received an anonymous letter, which read: "Beautiful man, if you agree to spend a passionate night, please come to the Fairy Mountain Hotel to find me at 8 o'clock tomorrow night." The husband recognized his wife's handwriting and went to the appointment on time. Indeed, he had a rich, interesting and unique evening.