On the seventh day of the seventh lunar month, the Chinese Valentine's Day, it is said that the Cowherd and the Weaver Girl meet each other on the Milky Way through the Magpie Bridge every year to relieve their lovesickness. Gradually, "Chinese Valentine's Day" has become my country's traditional Valentine's Day. Reporters found on the "Dating" section of a large forum in Foshan that many people hope to find the opposite sex to spend the Chinese Valentine's Day with them. After investigation, the reporter found that most of the people looking for friends online to spend the Chinese Valentine's Day are college students or young people who have just graduated from college, and they are all single. They hope to find a suitable partner during the summer vacation. If they get along well, they will be a long-term couple. If they don't get along, they will break up after returning to school after the summer vacation. The reporter found that among young people in Foshan, there are many such short-term "summer lovers".

Experts said that "Qixi Festival" dating is actually a form of fast food love, which is very harmful to both men and women. Young people should participate in more group activities and have a healthy and happy summer vacation. important.

Phenomena: Students are looking for Chinese Valentine's Day "couples" online

Recently, a reporter found on the "Dating" section of a large forum in Foshan that there were posts about looking for opposite-sex boyfriends and girlfriends during the summer vacation. The number of netizens has increased, and some young netizens have said straight to the point that they want to find friends of the opposite sex to spend Chinese Valentine’s Day, the Chinese Valentine’s Day. Many of them are women.

Female netizen Ahua said in a post about finding a boyfriend on Qixi Festival that she is currently studying in a university in another province and has never been able to find a suitable boyfriend. She also has no time or opportunity to meet the person she likes in Foshan. "Chinese Valentine's Day" is coming soon, and I really want to find a boyfriend to spend Chinese Valentine's Day with, so I hope to find my love in this "ocean" of the Internet. Ahua also published his QQ contact information to everyone. After posting, it attracted the attention of many netizens, who all commented and left their contact information.

Subsequently, the reporter continued to search on the forum and found that in the past month, "Qixi Festival Lovers" posts were quite common, and many young men and women confessed online that they had always been single and lonely. In a friend-seeking post, netizen Agui wrote: "The Chinese Valentine's Day is coming soon, and it will be my birthday soon. I really want to find a girlfriend to spend it with me."

Investigation: Netizens looking for friends are looking forward to romantic love

Following the contact information of some netizens in the post, the reporter tried to dial the phone numbers of some netizens seeking friends to learn about their specific plans for asking for friends to celebrate the Chinese Valentine's Day. idea.

Netizen Agui told reporters that he is 23 years old and currently unemployed at home. He broke up with his first girlfriend half a year ago. After half a year of being single, he felt it was time to find a partner, so he decided to post online to find friends. "Celebrating Chinese Valentine's Day is actually just a gimmick, because everyone knows that Chinese Valentine's Day is Chinese Valentine's Day. If you are willing to spend Chinese Valentine's Day with me, it will prove that you can be a couple! Using this holiday to find friends is both subtle and It's natural." Agui said that there are currently three netizens who have contacted him for the holidays, all of whom are students, and he is in the process of selecting them. "Unfortunately, they were all contacted by phone and I haven't met in person yet, so it's hard to choose. I can only rely on my feelings."

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Agui revealed that he had already conceived a romantic date for Chinese Valentine's Day, with the restaurant and flowers already booked. He said he was looking forward to his first romantic encounter with the other person. As for how to deal with their relationship after the "Chinese Valentine's Day" date, Agui seemed very casual. "It's best if we all get on well with each other and we can be a good couple. I still hope to find true love through this date. If it's really not suitable, there's nothing I can do. Just let it happen!"

Discovered: "Summer Love" "Very common

The reporter discovered an interesting phenomenon during the interview. Many of these netizens seeking friends are local college students studying outside the province or fresh graduates who have just arrived to work in Foshan. Among them, college students studying outside the province often feel that classmates from outside the province are not suitable for them and want to find a couple in their hometown during the summer vacation; and fresh graduates who have just come to Foshan to work because they are unfamiliar with life, hope to find a couple. The "Chinese Valentine's Day" in the middle of the summer is a good opportunity to express love to friends.

The reporter found that many people’s summer relationships often lasted less than two months and ended hastily due to various reasons.

Asi, a girl from Foshan who is studying at a university outside the province and is preparing to enter her junior year this year, told reporters that last summer she found a boyfriend who had just started working through a friend’s introduction, and the two had a sweet and sweet time during the summer vacation. It was a romantic "Qixi Festival", but when she returned to college to attend classes, her boyfriend suddenly seemed to be a different person and ignored her. Their relationship ended within a month after the semester started.

“There are quite a few like me among my classmates. When a class of high school classmates get together during the summer vacation, there are often two or three couples of men and women who develop into lovers. But if they are not studying in the same university, , I can’t even last a few months. I’m no longer interested in this kind of summer romance.”

"Fast food love" is a two-way harm

Dr. Guan Shujun, director of the National International Marriage and Family Association and marriage and family instructor, believes that the "Chinese Valentine's Day" friend seeking and the "summer love" phenomenon reflected behind it are actually love. "Flash love" and "flash marriage" are a manifestation of fast food culture and are not worth promoting.

“Summer is coming. For some people whose after-school life is simple and lacks group activities, they hope to spend this lonely summer vacation through dating. Moreover, today’s young people are more affected by romantic dramas. Many people hope to have a dramatic and passionate love, so they find it very exciting to find friends on Chinese Valentine's Day. "Guan Shujun said that the biggest drawback of this type of fast food love culture is the lack of responsibility and the long-term relationship between the sexes. The harm to both parties in love is greater. She advises young people not to interpret simple affection and admiration for the opposite sex as love. They need to look at their own feelings clearly and not to fall in love casually. The most important thing is to participate in more group activities and have a healthy and happy summer vacation.

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