The first hurdle is to let things go

Chen Jiaqi, 25 years old, is a white-collar worker in the company. She lives and eats at her parents’ house. Her monthly salary and bonus combined are at least 7,000 yuan. However, Just because I am addicted to shopping, I have worked for 3 years, have no savings, and am still heavily in debt on my credit cards.

Jia Qi wants to buy everything she sees. She doesn’t necessarily wear or use it, but she feels happy just looking at it. As the saying goes, a little impatience messes up a big plan. Take Jiaqi as an example. If you can save 3,000 yuan a month, 36,000 yuan a year, and 108,000 yuan in three years, you can buy a car even without making any investment!

The second hurdle is to have weak ears

To live a good life, don’t have soft ears. You can’t stand the persuasion of the saleswoman in the mall, you can’t stand the deception of your colleagues in the workplace, and you can’t stand the deception of colleagues in the insurance company. The company can't stand the insurance officer's petty reasoning. Anyway, it's just what others say is good, and you think it's good. This doesn't work.

To live a good life, the economy is the foundation. Laying the economic foundation is basically divided into three steps: making money, saving money and investing. If you have soft ears, you won't be able to save money, and if you have soft ears, you won't be able to invest correctly. Where does a good life come from?

The third hurdle is over-dependence

Good wives and loving mothers are out of date!

Xiao Min is a top student at a serious university. There were many high-paying jobs for her to choose from after graduation. It was because her boyfriend of seven years, A Jian, came to Beijing to look for a job. She feels that she should be his solid backing, because in her opinion, women should be domestic and men should be domestic, and her main job now is to support Ah Jian to start his own business in Beijing.

As a result, Xiao Min turned down invitations from all companies and concentrated on being a housewife at home, dreaming of a wife who was valued by her husband all day long. At first, Ah Jian was moved by Xiao Min's choice. He would go for a walk and chat with Xiao Min every day when he came back from get off work. Later, as Ah Jian's job got higher and higher, he came home later and later, and he and Xiao Min had less to say. Finally, Ah Jian left Xiao Min...

Xiao Min still didn't understand. It was A Jian who had obviously changed his heart. Why did he say that on the day they broke up, it was because Xiao Min was no longer the Xiao Min he used to be. In fact, Ah Jian was right. Excessive dependence made Xiao Min lose her wisdom and passion. It is impossible for such a woman to capture a man's heart, and it is also impossible for a woman to have a happy and good life.

The fourth hurdle is short-sightedness

Men always like to say that women have long hair and short-sightedness. The last thing women like to hear is this sentence. The terrible thing is that although women nowadays have long hair, they are short-sighted. You can cut it shorter and shorter, save it for a year and turn it into a fixed term, and you will not easily choose to invest in stocks and funds. Of course, if the choice is between buying clothes and buying funds, it is estimated that more women will choose to buy clothes to look beautiful!

The fifth hurdle: Taking advantage

The discount behavior of merchants has a fatal attraction for lesbians, because it is a woman's nature to take advantage.

Not to mention the principle that the poor buy the poor, just say that these discounted products themselves, in fact, rarely achieve the function of being cheap and high-quality.

Just think, how can we be smarter than businesses? How can people do business at a loss? The things we buy for cheap are rarely seasonal and fashionable. Wearing them cannot enhance our temperament, and putting them in the wardrobe is absolutely a waste.

The sixth hurdle: One mountain looks higher than the other.

Jealousy is also a fatal habit that women are born with.

Always looking at others' lives that are better than yours will not be a happy life, let alone happiness.

Ordinarily, Zhao Qian’s life is worthy of the envy of many her peers. She has a car, a house, healthy parents, and a motivated boyfriend. However, she feels that her life is a mess because she always takes it for granted. Competing her own shortcomings with the strengths of others. When she sees a classmate going to graduate school, she will wonder why she works harder than that girl, but she fails to continue studying; when she sees someone is about to have a baby, she will complain that her boyfriend does not love her enough. , why not marry her and let her become a mother... Such a life has no quality at all.

On the contrary, Rongrong is just the opposite. She is happy when she has something that others don’t have. When others have something that she doesn’t have, she doesn’t look at it or compare it. She lives her own life and does her own thing, and others have the same thing as us. What's the relationship?

The seventh hurdle: Pretending to be a "big woman"

Since Wu Zetian, he has set a bad example for women! If you haven't acquired the habit of "loving someone like a little bird" since childhood, and if you are called "strong woman" by some unscrupulous guys when you grow up, you will immediately be confused. No matter who you eat with, she has to pay the bill, what a big woman! No matter who you do things with, you can't accept help, you're a big woman! No matter what gift your boyfriend gives you, you have to get something of the same value or more expensive, for a grown-up woman!

This is actually a taboo for a good life. A woman is a woman, accept it when you should accept it, and divide it equally when you should share it. The "big woman" mentality will make women exhausted physically and mentally, both materially and spiritually. It is difficult to achieve the standard of high-quality life in the world.

The eighth hurdle is stingy

Friends are the source of happiness and the regenerator of wealth. If you don’t know how to keep friends, you are stingy with time and money. All you want to do is hang around them all day long. A woman whose boyfriend changes her life will not be able to make a big impact and will not be able to live a good life. Because, she made herself a bucket invisibly, tied a rope to the bucket, tied the rope to the pulley, sat in the bucket, then let go, and threw the bucket and herself into the well. The frog's cry is just a croak, croak, croak... How much more rich can it be?

The Ninth Road Kanyin Eats Maoliang

Credit cards are a good thing. They were originally intended to make reasonable use of banks to enhance their purchasing power when necessary. However, for some lesbians, it is A trap and a hurdle made them start living a life of eating and drinking every day. It's just like what people sing in the song, it's "hi", "hi", "hi" - just do it if you like it!

But, can you imagine a happy life where you have to worry about bills at the end of the month?