Women’s Flirting Techniques

Flirting is the power of women in control

Regardless of the age of marriage, moderate flirting is an indispensable part. According to reports, a new study shows that although men often occupy the dominant position in relationships, the power of flirting is in the hands of women. Because when facing a man she likes, a woman will send signals through small actions to encourage him to "take action." Among them, gazing affectionately is the best "flirting method" that women are good at.

A woman who is "good" at flirting will be more confident, brave, lively, comfortable in the interaction between the sexes, more proactive in life, and brave enough to overcome setbacks and difficulties. Lai Yuzhi, a registered marriage and family counselor in Taiwan, said that sometimes, flirting and acting are similar in that they can make people temporarily forget their reserved self, and their personality will change greatly over time.

Tender women are very charming

When a woman faces her sweetheart, at the moment when her eyes meet, her heart will rush like a deer, and her cheeks will suddenly become flushed. Inadvertently, he lowered his head and smiled affectionately. Not many men can resist such temptation. For Chinese men, what they love most is a woman who "walks away shyly, leans against the door and looks back, sniffing the green plums", as gentle as water, and unable to speak.

Lai Yuzhi pointed out that if you want to use flirting to revive a tired relationship but have no idea where to start, you should also use some body language skillfully. In the movie "Basic Instinct", the heroine Sharon Stone keeps crossing her legs from left to right while sitting, which is also a way to arouse men's desire. When you are alone, you might as well make some small gestures to increase the contact between the two of you. During communication, the wife can pat the back of her husband's hand at appropriate times to express her agreement with him; stroke her husband's hair and whisper in his ear; let your knees touch from time to time. Or approach him from the side, your chest gently touches his upper arm, and your fingers slide across the back of his neck. These actions can help women firmly capture the heart of their husbands.

Women must learn advanced flirting techniques

1. Advanced Flirting

If you are not satisfied with "long-term" flirting and want to have a more long-term communication, you can consider the following flirting techniques:

The role of praise : The compliment should be directly directed to the other person, rather than just praising a certain object. If you say, "I like your tie," the man will be confused, not knowing whether it is the tie you like, or him as a person, so you should say: "You look very cool in that tie. Make your eyes look extra clear."

2. Long-term flirting

If you have a timid personality and cannot maintain confidence in social situations, then "long-term" flirting is more suitable for you. It is appropriate, that is, to express a distant and fleeting exclamation to some "romantic stranger". Sometimes you'll experience this kind of "long-term" flirting yourself. The most basic form is that someone shouts to you: "Oh, what a beauty." The person is at a distance from you so that you are not offended, just amused, and truckers love this practice.

"Long-term" flirting is common because it requires little courage and carries little risk. Don't be rude when flirting. Your goal is to make the other person smile, not flinch. Don't think that this practice is just for men. Today's women are no more capable of taking this lightning step than they used to be.

When one day, he was jogging in the park, and a woman drove by on a motorcycle or convertible, and shouted to him: "Hey, boy!" Will he be annoyed by the loud laughter? No, he felt very happy that whole day.

Recent research shows that men think women who flirt are more attractive than women who don't, so be bold and make sure you don't leave a bad impression on others. In addition, the time for "long-term" flirting must also be chosen appropriately (for example, at two o'clock in the middle of the night, it is not appropriate to walk in a certain place in the city)

3. Help the other party

If she mentions that her car is parked 8 blocks away and she leaves late that night, you can offer to walk with her to pick up the car. If he's carrying a few large and small bags, you can offer to get him a grocery bag, and if she mentions that she's going to paint her room, you can suggest where she can buy cheap paint (or suggest that you also Bring a brush to help). You need to show that you are willing to help the other person and make his or her life easier, and in this way deepen the relationship and improve understanding.

4. Ask questions with clear goals

Don’t make shallow remarks, get to the bottom of things, or inquire about other people’s privacy. Questions such as "Where did you grow up?" or "Do you like watching horror movies?" are light-hearted and appropriate. They show that you are willing to get to know the other person. Please don’t ask heavy questions with “too big a topic”, such as “What is your goal in life?”. Be cheerful and easy-going. You can mention that you saw him at that boring party. You can bring up a topic she talked about last week. You can tell him that you like his new haircut. You can tell her how ecstatic you were when you first heard her laugh.

5. Show that you are all ears

Nod your head in praise from time to time. After the other person has finished speaking, think about it for a second before answering quickly. Because you may have noticed that in a one-on-one situation, the more you think about what to say, the more flustered and tongue-tied you become. If there is such a cold spot in the conversation, try to bring the topic to what you have already talked about. , instead of starting a new topic in a hurry. Repetition of old words shows that you are paying attention to the conversation just now and are very interested, thereby ensuring that the conversation can continue. You don't have to always search for wonderful topics to drive the conversation.

6. Eye contact

Look into the other person's eyes for more than 1 second, but don't stare hard. Then look away, giving the other person time to figure out that it is him or her you are looking at (and not someone else around them). Then look at each other again, this time with a smile. There may be several paths to the women's locker room that you pass by. You can choose the one where you can meet him halfway. Walk in front of him and let him appreciate your beautiful figure. If the road is crowded, you can pretend to pass him by accident. Don't be conspicuous and smile when you pass by.

7. Touch the other person lightly

During the conversation, put your hand on his arm casually (note: casually, this is the most important). The best time to do this is It's after the other person says something extremely clever or particularly funny. You naturally understand the meaning of touching; you are feeling emotional, but be careful not to overdo it.

8. Close the distance

If you are sitting side by side, don't just let him see your shoulders. Face him when you speak. This will make the other person feel respected.

You don’t need to breathe on his tie knot, but don’t stay 3 feet away from him. Take a step forward and let him disarm you without holding back.

Of course, the above are just suggestions. In specific circumstances and for specific people, some may be particularly effective, and sometimes they may not be applicable. Find the way that feels most comfortable and successful for you and cultivate your unique mood. Once your style is formed, don't be conservative, don't hide it, spread your charm everywhere.