The wedding night must be a night that many women look forward to. People always say that the day when a bride becomes a bride is the most beautiful moment in a woman's life. This day must be very important to women, so of course the wedding night goes without saying. So, do you know what to pay attention to on your wedding night? On such an important day, everyone must prepare in advance!

Precautions for sex on the wedding night

1. Learn some sexual knowledge together before marriage

Reading some books about sexual knowledge can help newlyweds understand sexual anatomy, sexual physiology, sexual psychology, sexual behavior and other related knowledge, so that they can be well aware of it and avoid "hasty battles".

Follow the local designated hospitals to receive premarital examinations. The doctors responsible for premarital examinations will patiently provide guidance on sexual life, newlywed health care, and family planning knowledge. If you don’t understand something after reading a book about sex, you can also ask the doctor for advice during the premarital examination.

2. Combine the sexual response cycle and control sexual behavior reasonably

The sexual response cycle can be divided into the excitement period, duration period, climax period and extinction period. Sexual excitement is the preparation stage of sexual life, the duration and climax stages are the stages of sexual intercourse; the sexual desire subsidence period is the end stage of sexual life. The hallmarks of the excitement phase are the erection of a man's penis, an increase in secretions from the Bartholin glands in a woman's vagina, and vaginal lubrication.

In the preparation stage, both parties should use sweet words, gentle touch, passionate stimulation and arouse each other's sexual excitement, and can also stimulate the man's genitals or the woman's clitoris and breasts and other sensitive areas to promote the early arrival of sexual excitement. Get into arousal and start having sex.

It begins to enter the climax period, and sexual pleasure gradually appears. The sign of climax is the man's ejaculation, the woman's vagina experiencing paroxysmal contractions, a significant increase in secretions, and a high level of mental excitement. At this time, both parties are in a state of "ecstasy." During this period, both parties should not discuss matters that have nothing to do with sex, so as not to affect the mood in the bridal chamber and cause the sexual excitement to fade prematurely. The climax period is very short, disappearing in a few seconds, and immediately enters the sexual hyporesponsiveness period. During this period, the man's penis gradually softens, and the spirits of both parties slowly turn to calm. Because the man's sexual desire fades faster, and the woman's sexual desire fades more slowly. At this time, The groom should continue to caress the bride, and wait until the bride's sexual desire has completely subsided and she feels tired and sleepy, before he can end the sexual life and rest together. The groom must pay attention to the physiological characteristics of the woman, and do not throw her aside as soon as she ejaculates and leave her alone as soon as possible. Falling asleep, this will affect the satisfaction of the woman's sexual desire.

3. Pay attention to external genital hygiene

On your wedding night, you and your husband should wash your vulva with warm water and mild soap. Newlyweds are busy and tired due to wedding shopping and entertaining relatives and friends. Men's smegma and women's vaginal secretions increase. If not cleaned, it is very unhygienic and will affect the sexual desire and health of both men and women.

4. Take good contraceptive measures

If both men and women do not want to have a child immediately and do not take birth control pills, both couples will have concerns, and the woman will be more afraid of getting pregnant, so she will not be able to concentrate highly and her sex life will be affected. If the woman takes birth control pills in time, or the man wears a condom, both parties will have no worries, concentrate, and achieve satisfactory results in their sexual life.

5. Close cooperation

When starting sexual life, both parties will feel shy, especially the woman, who has a complicated psychological state and is a little nervous. You need to ask your husband to move gently, and if it doesn't work once, try a few more times. The woman must also take the initiative to cooperate, overcome tension and fear, take the initiative to relax mentally, and be sexually aroused quickly. The vaginal secretions are abundant and have good lubrication effect, which can reduce the pain during sexual intercourse and relieve the pain caused by the abrasion of the hymen.

6. Don’t go straight to the topic right away

Going straight to a woman's breasts, neck, or other highly erotic areas is not a good way to kick off foreplay. Gently stroking her arms, belly, legs, back, and hair is a better way to warm her up for sex. Men who go straight to women... can only make women feel hopeless and feel the slightest selfishness of men. Use some feather brushes to caress her sensitive areas.

7. Take your time before removing her clothes

Arousing a woman's desire and curiosity is the best partner for foreplay. What if you start making her guess every time your wandering hands end up on her skirt or the bottom button of her blouse. When will you start taking off her clothes? By the time she starts to show more expectations, she will definitely be feeling on pins and needles and excited. This move will heighten her sensory stimulation, making subsequent contact more sensitive.

8. Prevent inflammation of damaged hymen

After the hymen ruptures, there will be some slight pain and a small amount of bleeding. You should wipe it with sterilized gauze or cotton wool. It is best to wait 2-3 days before having sex to prevent wound inflammation. If your hymen is ruptured, bleeding a lot, and the pain is unbearable, you should seek medical attention.

9. Treat premature ejaculation correctly

When having sex for the first time, the man may fail due to premature ejaculation due to lack of sexual knowledge or excessive excitement. You should forgive this situation. This is not premature ejaculation. With the growth of sexual knowledge and accumulation of sexual experience after marriage, both parties will cooperate tacitly and will soon return to normal.