Love and marriage have always been a headache for people. Many people have unknown troubles. In life, there are many behaviors that can be explained by psychological knowledge. The same is true for love. Although the relationship between the sexes cannot be completely scientific treatment, but there are always many benefits in knowing more about psychosexual treatment.

So what is the psychological knowledge about gender?

1. Hawthorne effect

The so-called Hawthorne effect refers to the effect that when we realize that we are being observed or observed, we often deliberately change some behaviors or language expressions. In the process of communication between the sexes, if both men and women use it properly, the feelings of each other will often heat up quickly. For example, they can often praise each other, pay attention to each other's needs, and give them some encouragement and support when appropriate.

2. Murphy’s Law

Murphy's Law means that if there are two or more ways to do something, and one of them will lead to disaster, then someone will make that choice. From a gender perspective, this means that the more you care about someone, the worse your behavior is, and the more you worry about gains and losses, the more likely you are to lose. When it comes to relationships, only by treating them with a normal heart will your personal charm be revealed vividly and the other person will be attracted to you unconsciously.

3. Primary effect

The so-called primary effect refers to the impact of the first impression formed by men and women on future relationships, that is, the impact of preconceptions. A well-groomed you will often give the other person the first impression of "you are a particularly delicate girl" and will involuntarily leave a good impression on you. Even if you don't dress appropriately afterwards, the other person will naturally think of you as you were back then.

4. Blank effect

The blank effect means that if two people stay together, they are likely to gradually become tired. At this time, they often need to learn to give each other some time and space alone. Indeed, love sometimes needs a certain space for each other to breathe, that is, a state of interdependence but independence, so that the love between each other can last longer.

5. Homogeneity effect

The homophily effect means that we always like people who are similar to us because they are more likely to attract us. Therefore, when you meet someone you like, you might as well show the similarities between you and let the other person feel that you know him well and how well you get along with him. This will make the other person want to get closer to you.

6. Enhancement effect

The so-called promotion effect is that if you love the right person, you will become better for him. On the contrary, if you love the wrong person, you will become decadent because of him. If you see yourself in the mirror getting better and better, congratulations, you have found the right person.

7. Projection effect

The so-called projection effect refers to the tendency to attribute one's own characteristics to others. For example, in love, you always think that the other person knows what you are thinking and that the other person feels the same as you. In fact, there is nothing that should be taken for granted emotionally. If you want the other person to understand you, you might as well express your thoughts directly and don't let the other person always guess about you.

Many people think that the knowledge about gender is really unfathomable. Even if they know it, they will always be in a hurry when facing the opposite sex. In fact, in the final analysis, the most important thing about all knowledge about gender is sincerity. Without What can impress others more than a sincere heart.