Some people say that a woman’s heart is an endless book, full of whys. Just say the following 3 whys. Do you want to know the answers hidden behind the question marks? When you inadvertently have the following reactions and actions, be careful to be misunderstood by the opposite sex! Jealousy

Women are "jealous", especially when it comes to love and marriage. Almost all of them are jealous. Wang Xifeng in "A Dream of Red Mansions" is the pinnacle of jealousy, and is called a jealous jar or even a jealous jar. To this day, if you look at the women around you, there are still many "descendants" of "Sister Feng" - it is true that "jealous people" appear in every generation."

Psychological analysis: Women are "jealous" from generation to generation, and the secret has been revealed by Canadian researchers. Researchers found that women's "jealousy" is not groundless, but has scientific basis, mainly related to menstrual period. During the peak fertilization period of each month, a woman's jealousy can reach its peak, such as deliberately belittling the attractiveness of other women in order to win over the man she likes.

Traditional concepts have always regarded women as the embodiment of "gentleness" and "kindness". In fact, women are quite "competitive". Researchers believe it is related to courtship, because women seek mates to continue the family line, and men have different abilities to protect their offspring and provide living resources. Women must compete for men with stronger abilities. Therefore, when a woman competes with other women for a man, she is likely to use "derogatory" methods to the opponent, such as vilifying the opponent as "unfaithful", "sexually disordered", "infertile", etc., and her jealousy is fully exposed. . No wonder that when Jia Baoyu in "A Dream of Red Mansions" sought a prescription to cure jealousy, even Dr. Hu was helpless.

Always smile

You are walking on the street and bump into a beautiful woman inadvertently. As long as it is nothing serious, the other person has already left with a slight smile before you say "I'm sorry"; as for you in public When you meet a strange woman, she will smile at you first, and then perform other courtesy such as shaking hands or greeting you.

Psychological analysis: Women are always the first to smile, which can easily make you "have wild imaginations" like Tang Bohu: Could it be that she fell in love with me at first sight? If you really think so, you are absolutely wrong.

Psychologists have found that the humor response area in the brain of women is more easily activated than men, and they can respond quickly and strongly to vivid and interesting plots and pictures. In other words, compared to men, women are born to laugh, and almost all of them are "laughing stars." In addition, women also smile faster than men and are always the first to smile when interacting with strangers. Experiments by British scientists show that when women first come into contact with men, they laugh 0.6 seconds faster and last 5 seconds longer than men.

When women meet men, they are the first to smile, even though they think the other person is very ugly or disgusting. The more important meaning is that it is an instinctive survival strategy, or for self-protection, they use laughter. The simplest and most effective tool to communicate with strange men and set up defenses. Think about it, women are far inferior to men in terms of physical strength and power. In such unfavorable circumstances, the only way to protect themselves in a potentially dangerous situation is to prevent the other party from having hostile thoughts and behaviors. , laughter has become a way for women to please each other and create a safe environment when they do not know their intentions and do not understand each other. This is enough to explain that no matter where women are, as long as they are not in a special and obvious state of hostility, they have the same principles for getting along with strangers of the opposite sex, and their behavior patterns are almost exactly the same. In this sense, a woman's first smile has nothing to do with her impression or even her feelings for you, let alone "interesting".

Hand in hand

In shopping malls, on the streets, and in parks, you can always see three or two girls walking hand in hand and laughing. Even if they get married one day, the habit of holding hands will continue as before.

Psychological analysis: Women's physiological structure and social positioning make their roles more inclined to be supple, delicate, and dependent. From childhood, they believe that there will always be a "god" to protect them. When I was a child, I held my father's hand, and when I grew up, I held the hands of my friends and lovers. This is actually a reflection of dependence and security.

In addition, from the perspective of "psychological space distance", everyone has "alertness" in their hearts. No matter what happens, they will first be self-centered and consider whether they are safe, whether others pose harm to themselves, and whether others around them are harmful. The pros and cons of the environment, etc., continuously expand the scope of consideration, forming an egg-shaped psychological defense space. The larger the circle of communication is, the larger the space will be and the stronger the vigilance will be. Relatively speaking, men's social circles are much larger than women's, and their psychological distance is greater. This determines that men's body language can at best nod, shake hands, and pat shoulders. Women's social circle is relatively small, and they have a strong desire for emotional care, so they are more willing to have physical contact.

However, it is not a bad thing for women to hold hands, and it can also harmonize the atmosphere and enhance friendship. Psychologists have conducted experiments: equal numbers of men and women were sent into two rooms respectively. After a period of time, men began to become restless, lose their temper, and even engage in impulsive aggressive behavior; women were different. Bursts of laughter could be heard from time to time in the room, and some people were holding other people's arms, appearing very intimate. Psychologists concluded from this that women are better at expressing emotions through physical contact, thus bringing them closer to each other.

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