She is not a normal woman. She is hot and cold to you; she seems distant; she is crazy and makes you upset; she is too reserved and treats you like transparent air... She is torturing you, pleasing you, hurting you, and comforting you. She makes you fall, she makes you intoxicated, she makes you taste all the guilt, and makes you want to stop. You need to be smarter about offense and defense. This is an irrational love.

1. The perfect woman

Love expression: excessive self-denial, self-demanding, correct all the time.

Examples of weird women: Women with perfect behavior and morals are natural killers of men. Excessive self-denial, self-demanding, and being right all the time are still narcissistic at heart, because they love themselves and do not allow themselves to make mistakes.

The Manly Way: Share the joy of making mistakes with her.

Just like the myth, you can fall in love with a fairy-like person, but you can only marry an ordinary woman. Your problem is whether you can turn a fairy into a mortal. In fact, life requires the most vulgar and arbitrary things. Share the joy of making mistakes with her, share the laziness and casual pleasure, and limit what she pays for you to the level that you can repay.

2. The face of suspicion

Love expression: Likes to catch wind and shadow, but deliberately pretends to be generous.

Examples of strange women: General suspicion is just a way for women to flirt. Excessive suspicion may be a mixture of defectiveness and aggression. The women in "Cell Phone" are all a combination of paranoia and hysteria. They are sensitive to deception and think that men are bullying them if they don't tell the truth.

The way to be a man: The most effective strategy is to play dumb, belittle yourself from time to time, and never be self-righteous.

Suspicion is often a means of relationship control. You must learn to "unconditionally obey". Of course, for a guilty man, if you want to gain enough freedom from a suspicious woman, you should keep two principles in mind:

Principle 1: Establish necessary rules at the beginning of the relationship, such as not having anything in common Friends, do not interfere in their respective spaces.

Principle 2: Don’t make the love relationship too close. Keeping an appropriate distance can protect both her and you. Suspicious women are very sensitive to relationship intimacy. Once a certain love pattern is formed, you must stick to it for decades.

3. Indifferent face

Love expression: often obsessed with fantasy, not taking the initiative to care about others, and normal messages in interactive relationships are often ineffective.

Example of a weird woman: Indifference stemming from hostility is acceptable. Hostility can be resolved sooner or later, and indifference will be converted into warmth. The most worrying form of indifference comes from extreme narcissism, which is a personality defect, lack of sexual drive, and inability to love. The narcissistic personality is an undifferentiated mud ball with no internal structure. It is not angry when it should be angry, and it is not happy when it should be happy. Holding such a woman in your arms, you may even feel lonely and cold.

You have to create some unique communication methods to achieve communication between two people. Of course, some very independent women also have a hidden indifference deep in their personality. You cannot blend into her heart, you cannot move her, and you cannot conquer her.

A man’s way: Develop simple rules for communicating information and emotions to help her gain a sufficient sense of security.

If anger cannot be expressed normally, indifference becomes a technique. If you don't want to admit your mistake, pretending not to know is the only solution. Men who can only tolerate warmth but cannot bear indifference are not considered strong men, because they have too much need for relationships, which is a kind of dependence.

Being needed by a woman is often the secret self-esteem and happiness of many men. Anyone who faces a woman who has no desires or desires will be terrified. Desirelessness is strong, and lack of desire in the family will make the family lifeless. If she treats you with a cold face, it's important to establish simple rules for communicating information and emotions to help her feel secure enough.

4. Passionate face

Love expression: sensitive and hysterical, love and hate go hand in hand.

Examples of weird women: Women with dramatic personalities abound, and every woman has hysterical emotions to varying degrees. They are highly suggestive, emotionally sensitive and exaggerated, pursue sensory stimulation, and like to be the center of attention.

Man’s way: always praise her.

Exaggeration, emotional outbursts, and masochistic tendencies are some of the major characteristics of a dramatic personality. It is difficult for you to communicate with her in a normal way because she has many distorted experiences of reality. If she lies, it is not because she wants to. Lie because you can't tell which is reality and which is imagination.

What you have to do is to accept her emotions unconditionally and don't think that she is messing around. It is very important to give her a sense of security and constant praise. Your constant praise for her is equivalent to giving her diamonds and jewelry. Her feedback to you will always surprise you.

5. The Face of Conflict

Love expression: I don’t know if I love you or not, I have an affair randomly, and then confess it all like a confession.

Examples of strange women: Borderline disorder is a psychological problem unique to women. It originates from an overly introverted or indifferent mother. No matter how hard the child tries, he or she cannot form a deep attachment relationship with her, causing frustration in intimate relationships. It causes girls to distrust their sense of self, become emotionally unstable, irritable, and unconsciously self-defeat or self-harm.

She can't tell whether she wants to attach to you or leave you. She lacks control and foresight over her emotions and cannot bear anxiety. She doesn't know whether she loves you or not, she has an affair randomly, and then confesses it all like a confession, which makes the people who love her miserable.

A man’s way: help her find a good psychiatrist who will accompany her throughout her life.

The lack of self-boundaries is the core of the problem. How to rebuild boundaries with others and how to identify and manage her emotions are the goals you want to help her achieve. Usually such a woman needs to stay with a psychiatrist for life, and finding a good psychiatrist for her is also one of the alternatives. However, most psychiatrists are afraid of accepting clients with borderline disorders. "They are like children who always need to be suckled. If you don't satisfy them, you will never have peace."

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6. Excessive cleanliness

Love expression: pay attention to the rules in love, and do everything step by step.

Examples of weird women: Women with mysophobia are always overly cautious and live a rigid and stubborn life. This is a kind of love in a box. Everything is done step by step. It pays attention to the rules in love and ignores the joy of creation.

The way to be a man: Set a clean limit from the beginning and indulge occasionally.

You must set the rules of the game from the beginning. She wants mysophobia to be her own business, but the family cannot suffer from mysophobia. Of course, sometimes you can allow her to turn the bedroom into a clean paradise, like a child playing house. After everything is clean and flawless, she can experience the sense of dustlessness in body and mind naked.

6. Excessive cleanliness

Love expression: Pay attention to the rules in love, and everything should be done step by step.

Examples of weird women: Women with mysophobia are always overly cautious and live a rigid and stubborn life. This is a kind of love in a box. Everything is done step by step. It pays attention to the rules in love and ignores the joy of creation.

The way to be a man: Set a clean limit from the beginning and indulge occasionally.

You must set the rules of the game from the beginning. She is willing to have mysophobia as her own business, but the family must not suffer from mysophobia. Of course, sometimes you can allow her to turn the bedroom into a clean paradise, like a child playing house. After everything is clean and flawless, she can experience the sense of dustlessness in body and mind naked.

7. Over-reliance

Love expression: Insatiable for love and care, and does not hesitate to play the poor person.

Example of strange women: Women’s dependence on men has always been praised by old morality, thinking that this will bring peace to the world. But dependence is actually a kind of incomplete personality, excessive submission to the will of others, long-term experience of helplessness, fear of not being able to take care of oneself, inability to fulfill promises, and easy to fall into the fear of loneliness or abandonment. Severe dependence manifests itself as a hunger for attachment, an insatiable desire for care, and the tendency to play the poor person and use weak control to entangle the loved one.

The way to be a man: Separate periodically.

Periodic separation can cultivate her independence, encourage her to contact society, and gain a good social identity. Some women are also very independent in their careers, but they are very dependent emotionally. When they are with the person they love, their IQ immediately drops to zero. careful! This kind of dependence is just a tactic to control you, and the necessary pretending to be stupid can respond to her emotional exploitation of you.

8. Lace complex

Love expression: simple and persistent, not afraid of male power.

Examples of weird women: Lesbian tendencies in women are becoming more and more common in our society. It is easier for women than men to maintain a bisexual role. They get married, have children, fully realize female physiological functions, and at the same time maintain secret emotions with the same sex.

The Way of a Man: Tolerance, waiting, and not letting same-sex love interfere with family life.

The first principle: tolerance. If you can't stand it, it's best to leave. Trying to change the outcome of a homosexual is bad. Same-sex love is her right, and choosing to leave is your right;

The second principle: moderate your behavior and don’t let same-sex love interfere with your family life;< /p>

The third principle: wait. When hormones fade with age and family affairs increase as children grow, most women will voluntarily give up their same-sex love life.

9. Sadomasochism complex

Love expression: anti-social tendencies, disregard of rules, and low tolerance for frustration.

Examples of weird women: People with potential abusive behavior often have antisocial tendencies. Their thoughts and emotions are somewhat different, such as indifference to other people’s feelings, lack of social responsibility, disregard for rules, and aversion to setbacks. Has little patience and cannot learn from experience.

The way of a man: learn the stop technique, or be the first to admit defeat.

Women make a lot of little flirting moves. Don’t regard slight biting, pinching, pinching, scratching, and hitting as abuse. As long as there is no

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