“I am a Chineseman!” As the slogan of Mr. Gary Locke, a Chinese-American politician, sounded in the United States, Chinese men have actually become a specific group in the world. They are located in every corner of the world, engaged in various professions, and are already an important part of men in the world. They do not have the stoicism of Japanese men, nor the tenacity of Middle Eastern men, nor do they behave like gentlemen and have romantic personalities like European men...

They are destined to be a special case in terms of personality - although they are different in various fields. Achievements that attract the world's attention in these positions, whether in politics, business, study, or work. Some people say they are traditional, while others say they are avant-garde. In short, I personally feel that Chinese men lack or have something in themselves. This is not only their innate shortcoming, but also their most fatal weakness in their careers.

Congenital deficiency 1——No!

We often see foreign men in Hollywood blockbusters standing up and shouting ‘No! ’ But when it comes to us Chinese men, very few of us would say this. The most we can do is complain at home or vent online. The ‘skill’ of Chinese men is patience. As the saying goes, a hundred patience turns into gold. This kind of ability is not suitable for foreign countries. The reason why Chinese men have many mental illnesses and even criminal behaviors abroad is because Chinese men lack communication on the one hand, and lack normal venting on the other. They don’t know how to say no, and they just If you know how to be patient, you often end up becoming everyone’s punching bag.

Congenital deficiency 2 - I was right!

This is a sentence that all Chinese men lack. Not daring to stick to their own opinions is a common problem among almost all Chinese men. When we were in elementary school, we had to understand that "parents" and "teachers" are always right. This weak character can be said to be the main culprit that destroys the remaining masculinity of Chinese men. Silence is golden, speak with the heart and be dissatisfied... These slogans with negative thoughts are basically regarded as mottos by Chinese men. This cannot but be said to be the tragedy of Chinese men.

Congenital disadvantage 3 - good men don’t fight with women!

I still can’t understand why this is the case - women’s achievements in mental work are now on par with men’s. It is correct for men not to fight with women. If in principle they are tolerant to women without limit, and even unwilling to expose the surliness or unreasonableness of some female managers in order to maintain 'gentleman face', this often leads to their own consequences. You may even lose your job.

Congenital deficiency 4 - brothers are number one!

Chinese men’s gang mentality, small farmer mentality, and small groupism can be clearly seen in this sentence. Foreign managers are most disgusted by the phrase "Chinese men", because "brothers" can put affection first and make unconditional accommodation and tolerance. In today's open environment, on the one hand, independent thinking is required, and on the other hand, group collaboration is required. This slogan completely obliterates these two key elements. There is no doubt that this sentence is also one of the factors that generate various gang crimes.

Congenital deficiency 5 - Men bleed but don’t shed tears!

Liu Tianwang both sang "It's not a sin for a man to cry", and both Pan An and Oscar Wilde love to cry. Psychologists also say that crying helps release psychological stress - but Chinese men don't understand this truth. In the end, Chinese men still want to save face. Chinese men have strong self-esteem on the one hand and strong inferiority complex on the other. They are not as good as German men. The atmosphere is not as delicate as that of French men, but there is no reason for self-esteem - almost no country in the world regards men's tears as a shame, except China.

Congenital deficiency 6 - it is rare to be confused!

There is no evidence to prove whether this sentence was said by Zheng Banqiao, but there is no doubt that this sentence has poisoned Chinese men for more than three hundred years. Chinese men believe in turning a blind eye to everything. Mr. Hu Shih has criticized the Chinese people's almost-ism. However, Chinese men just don't know how to reflect. They blindly believe in chaos theory, do not seek a deep understanding of anything, and rely on subjectivity and will. Muddling along causes talented people to lose opportunities, and those who have opportunities have no talent. Therefore, quite a few men play the role of "lucky but not destined" abroad.

Congenital deficiency 7 - I am old!

There is a strange phenomenon currently occurring in China. On the one hand, men in their forties and fifties often lament that they are old and pour Huiren Shenbao and Melatonin into their stomachs like a revolving door; on the other hand, society also Men in their fifties and sixties are called 'young talents'. Chinese men are used to saying that they are old, but society does not recognize it. This is not true in foreign countries. There will be many welfare policies for retirement, but the prerequisite for receiving welfare is that you must always serve the public welfare undertakings after retirement, instead of passively shouting "I am old" like Chinese men! ’ and then ran away.

Congenital deficiency 8 - I am your father!

It seems that Chinese fathers are now actively engaging in dialogue with their children - because parents who play the role of ruler are doomed to fail. Because the current China is different from the previous China. The relationship between parents and children has become equal, rather than the traditional relationship between leadership and being led. On the contrary, we see that the kind of father who wields a big stick against his children at home must be a marginalized and frustrated figure in society.

Congenital deficiency 9 - Alas...

Chinese men like to sigh the most - probably derived from the Qi theory of Lao-Zhuang philosophy. Sighing can dredge the meridians. This has been proven in the theory of traditional Chinese medicine. repeatedly. But sighing as a way to vent is obviously a drop in the bucket.

Cry when you should cry, laugh when you should laugh. The most successful men in the world are French men, because French men have the most expressive expressions, unlike Chinese men who are so rigid and inflexible. For those who only know how to sigh, For men, any setback is a fatal blow.

Congenital less than 10 - I have said it before...

Hindsight is a characteristic of Chinese men. An American magazine once conducted a evaluation and found that Chinese men's sense of responsibility ranks last in the world. In any formal occasion, once something goes wrong, most Chinese men will not take the initiative to take responsibility. Instead, they will shift the blame and defend themselves. Because of this phenomenon, quite a few foreign companies are unwilling to let Chinese men take the lead in certain major projects. Chinese men have a lot of words on their lips, such as 'filling holes', 'backpacking', 'taking advantage of others', etc., which do not show anything - except for the bad qualities of Chinese men: selfishness, irresponsibility, and narrow-minded individuals. outside of doctrine.

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