Zhang Feng: A "sexual official" who seeks "sexual happiness" for the people

During the holidays, Zhang Feng, on behalf of the Family Planning Commission, sends condoms as gifts to provincial governors. He believes that this is not news or a show. "The leaders are all in their 50s and 60s, and they are old couples. They have no interest in sex life and have developed a kind of aesthetic fatigue. But now wearing condoms is different. Some are fluorescent and some are pitted. , spiral, barbed, using different condoms, the wife and husband have different reactions..."

59-year-old Zhang Feng sat in his office in the Provincial Government Building and talked about sex: condoms , lubricant, sex... similar words kept popping up. A banner with the words "Honored Virtue" hung above the sofa, and behind him, a huge mahogany penis stood erect. A kind of fusion of tradition and avant-garde is strangely intertwined in this department-level cadre. "It's not my job as a grown man to care about women having children." In 1987, when Zhang Feng first arrived at the Guangdong Provincial Family Planning Commission, he thought this job was just a springboard. However, unexpectedly, this management lasted for more than 20 years. Not only that, as director of the Family Planning Commission, he also went back to the source and studied sexual issues. In 2009, in the "Brother Feng Talks About Sex" series, he transformed into a comic character wearing a red maple leaf T-shirt, shuttled between the pages of the book, giving readers sexual knowledge and sounding the alarm. Recently, he published another series of books called "Brother Feng's Character", which discusses the inextricable relationship between sex and politics, military, economy, literature, etc. The "world's leading" sexual culture festival he founded has been in its prime since birth; he called for the construction of a quilt project, and shouted in the media that "a man who is full will not know he is hungry" for migrant workers; he gave meaning to his work - - "Nothing is trivial between the legs"... He has repeatedly occupied the pages of newspapers, with bold style and full of personality. Some newspapers even published a headline like this: "The deputy secretary-general of the provincial government published a book teaching people how to have sex."

But Brother Feng was still a little uncomfortable in front of the photographer's lens. He always felt that his blue plaid shirt was too fancy, so he put on a solid-color jacket, which made him sweat all over. It was not until the photography was completed that the vivid expressions were restored. He stood at the door and shook hands with the photographer to say goodbye, joking like Brother Feng: "Are you relieved to leave Shanshan alone? I study sex." After saying this, he laughed.

However, soon, the reporter who was "left alone" debated with Brother Feng on whether college students can have sex. "You are against college students' sexual behavior. Are you too outdated?"

"It's not that I am outdated. They are not prepared in all aspects in college. If they are pregnant, they have to have an abortion. , This is harmful to women,” Director Zhang said seriously.

"What about safe sex?"

"If it happens, I will give them a condom. I hope they will not get pregnant unexpectedly or contract STDs or AIDS. But I still hope Tell them: Give the right to the first night to the 'him' or 'she' you marry. This is more responsible. Some people have been in a relationship for several years, and then suddenly got divorced, saying that the relationship is not harmonious. "Did you fall in love? In fact, since the girl didn't become popular after getting married, he thought she had had a relationship with someone else," Director Zhang answered seriously.

"Is this complex correct?"

"This has always been the concept in the past, including now that some Western countries also require a return to marriage and do not encourage incest. As the president of the sexology association, I cannot Do you think it’s okay for me to encourage you to indulge yourself? Director Zhang asked happily. "Although he opposes premarital sex, Zhang Feng was the first person to propose sex education for teenagers. He pulled out "Talking to Teenagers about Sex" which he wrote in the 1990s from his bookshelf. He also recalled the experience of giving sex education to his son: "The day after my son had a nocturnal emission, I told him that he has grown up, and he immediately blushed. I told him that this is a good thing and is normal for people. Physiological reaction shows that you are a man, but you have to be responsible for yourself. I told him how to deal with such things now, how to get along with your female classmates, never do anything, and make it clear to him. It makes sense. "The result of education is naturally very successful. "He has never done anything deviant since he got married, at least I haven't noticed it."

When people debated whether to sell it on campus. When buying condoms, Zhang Feng was confused, what was the argument about? "You said that if you don't wear a condom, what should be done and what should happen won't happen? It will still happen. Then give her a condom so that she doesn't have to have an abortion. This is the real care for women's physical health. The United States is The education is better. Parents tell their children not to have sex. If you want to have sex, you must use condoms. But how many parents in our country tell their children to use condoms? ”

Not only teenagers, Zhang Feng also worries about the sexual affairs of the elderly. "Women stop menstruating around the age of 50, and then their secretions during sex become less and less. When men are in their 70s and 80s and in good health, they still have sexual demands, but women often refuse at this time. The reason for their refusal is the secretions. If it’s too painful during intercourse, he will often refuse. If you refuse, he will make demands. Your simple refusal will push your husband into the arms of others, or even into the market. "Finally, he gave. The solution is to use lubricating oil.

He talks about this sexual knowledge with great enthusiasm, from giving private advice to writing books to attending party school classes. He felt that he could do a certain job and become an expert. He repeatedly told the story about how he had anal sex for a year but was unable to get pregnant because his hymen was too thick. This phenomenon of "sex blindness" impacted him, prompting him to study sexology and bought a sex book from Hong Kong to study on his own. .

At first, his work was not understood by his family. A widely circulated story is that when he published his first popular book on sex science, his wife hid the manuscript and refused to let him write "this kind of thing". After several months of persuasion, my wife finally took out the manuscript.

In the years that followed, most of the relatives around him were persuaded by him, but there were still some relatives who did not support his family planning practice. He had an aunt who was over 90 years old, and she was still trying to persuade him not to do family planning until her death. It was something that would offend people...

But Zhang Feng was tenacious and committed to his family planning career. Believe in it.

One day in the late 1980s, Zhang Feng went to the countryside to eastern Guangdong. An old man in his eighties with a white beard walked into the family planning office. As soon as he saw Zhang Feng, he knelt down and kowtowed. Zhang Feng, who was in his thirties, could only kneel down and kowtow to the other party. After a while, Zhang Feng realized that the old man's daughter-in-law was already in her forties and had given birth to girls several times. She just got pregnant again and thought it was a son. The old man really wanted his daughter-in-law to give birth to a child, so he came to the family planning office to plead for his daughter-in-law. .

"After kowtowing, my mind completely changed. I thought at that time, how could China survive like this? Population control is very necessary." In the countryside, he saw the rising tide of construction. People are enthusiastic. He found family planning to be a challenging job, and he loved challenges.

As for work, Zhang Feng emphasized his selflessness and truth-seeking. "How to deploy family planning work at the township level, I went to see it myself. If you look at the materials and documents above, and there are so many people accompanying you when you go to the countryside, they will accompany you to see the points all over the country. If you are advanced, I will definitely show you the good ones. What can you see? I never ask your county party secretary or city party secretary to accompany me, and I never say hello when I go to the countryside to inspect work. I think this is the only way to get a feel for the truth. If there is something worthy of recognition, I will promote your good practices and experiences to the whole province. But if I find any problems with you, I will definitely raise them with you. If you don’t see me, then I will live in the city. They will take you out every three days or five. I am quite stubborn and thick-skinned. Don’t forget that I love to laugh and I am really merciless when it comes to scolding people.”

His hard work has also won him recognition. What makes him most happy is that he won two awards, "One is the National Advanced Worker of Science Popularization, and the other is the Chinese Population Award." At the reception, Guangdong Huang Huahua, the former governor of the province, praised him as "a weirdo, a wizard, and a rare talent in Guangdong." Such praise moved him very much.

Another interesting anecdote related to provincial governors is that during the Chinese New Year and holidays, Zhang Feng sent condoms as gifts to the provincial governors on behalf of the Family Planning Commission. He believes that this is not news or a show. "Leaders are also human beings, and they also have needs. Condoms not only prevent pregnancy, but can also improve the quality of life of couples. I told the leaders too. Those leaders are all in their 50s and 60s, and they are married and have little interest in sex. I have developed a kind of aesthetic fatigue, but now wearing condoms is different. Some are fluorescent, some are pitted, spiral, and barbed. With different condoms, the wife and husband have different reactions. ..."

On the afternoon when I was interviewing Zhang Feng, people kept asking him to sign autographs, and calls kept coming in. It is very common for reporters to interview Director Zhang among his colleagues. They are busy and busy. Zhang Feng's point of view is: "Officials should also have personality, be sharp and angular, and dare to stick to their own opinions. If officials become 'official' and are smooth in everything, what's the point?"

Pouring Kung Fu tea to reporters, Zhang Feng said with a smile.

Next page: Reporter talks with Zhang Feng

Talk with Zhang Feng

People Weekly: Writing the stories of power and beauty in "Sex and Politics", What is your biggest feeling?

Zhang Feng: In fact, I am editing and commenting at the same time. It is a process of education, inspiration, and cultivation for myself. See how you can do better, and don't relax or be vigilant in this regard.

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