After being married for a long time, your lover will become a relative. Especially women, they all think that after marrying the other person, they will put all their thoughts on this family. Ordinarily, there is nothing wrong with this idea. For traditional Chinese women, it is even more flattering. As the saying goes, if you marry a chicken, follow the chicken, if you marry a dog, follow the dog. When a woman marries this man, she loses her original belongings. All that is left of him is one identity, that is, someone's wife. But it would be better if you meet a loving and righteous man who knows how to cherish everything a woman has given. Unfortunately, these men are now ruthless and unrighteous. They don't want their virtuous wives at home, but they want to put so many thoughts on those outside. On the enchanting woman.

An emotional story I saw last night is such an example. When a woman marries a man, she devotes her whole life to taking care of the housework for him. She gave birth to a son soon after getting married. She had to help her husband take care of a small business that was just starting to grow, and at the same time she had to take care of her son who was just learning to walk. She had no time to think about her own problems, so the once beautiful woman turned into a sloppy woman. However, after the man's business improved a little, he became disgusted with the yellow-faced woman in his family. So he met a young and beautiful woman in a business meeting. He stayed at his mistress's house, leaving the woman weeping every night until dawn.

Such stories are not uncommon. Such things often happen around us. Women always wonder why the man who comes as a relative is so heartless? Could it be that Can couples who have been together for many years not be able to resist the temptation of passion? But it happens that women regard men as relatives, causing men to lose the original wonderful feeling between husband and wife. Just think about how many people can do it when marriage becomes a left-hand hand holding a right hand. How about sticking to such a dull life? Maybe a woman doesn’t know it, because housework and children take up too much of her time, but men are different. They pursue fresh feelings and visual stimulation.

Men are naturally visual animals. Looking at the women on TV, even if they are on the show, they still have disheveled hair and a very haggard look. Men are in their prime, the age when they are most attractive. Because the man was obsessed with his mistress's young body, he went home and asked the woman for a divorce. The woman did not want her underage children to suffer the breakdown of the family and refused to agree, so the man moved out with his young mistress and lived together for half a year. During the days when I lived with my mistress, I realized that she was lazy, greedy and greedy. Only then did I remember how good my wife was, how wise and capable my wife was, and the mistress gradually got tired of the man after spending all his money. So after the two broke up, the man returned to his home and begged the woman to forgive him.

A woman still has feelings for a man. Apart from her children, this man is her first man, but when she thinks of the harm the man has caused to her, her heart is always bleeding, so Although the man has returned to this home, he can never go back to the past. Although the woman still does the same thing, her heart is not as good as before. The woman has become sensitive and suspicious, and will often inquire about his whereabouts, and will often make secret inquiries. His cell phone. The man really wanted to return to this family, but he couldn't bear the woman's nagging and suspicion, so the two of them walked into the emotional consultation station together and asked relevant experts to help them resolve their knots. Under the mediation of relevant experts, the two of them cleared up their past feud and expressed their willingness to stay together in the future on the show. It can be considered a good ending.

However, such a story leaves us with not just a simple separation and reunification, but also with the various problems faced by marriage. For us who are also in marriage, how can we avoid such a situation? How should we deal with this situation? I think the last thing this woman should do is to treat this man as a relative and lose her self. You must know that men are all cheap. The better you treat him, the less he will know how to cherish it. The same woman will be treated very differently after marriage if she works hard to get you back in love and if a woman comes to your door automatically. , the former will always be more favored by men than the latter. In fact, it's not just men. This is human nature. Things that are too easy to get are often not cherished.

So when women love each other, they should not forget to love themselves. Marriage is not a safe, and men are not long-term meal tickets. We often think that after marrying each other and having an intimate relationship, we will no longer love each other. There is a sense of mystery. And often in front of outsiders, they never forget to retain their elegance and calmness. This is why in the eyes of men, other people's wives are always beautiful, because their own women always use a pair of unsharp wood. The wife is shown in front of him, while other people's wives will always do a makeover before going out, so naturally there will be a different charm in them. Therefore, women should learn to leave a little space and distance between themselves and the men they are close to, instead of treating him as one of their own and showing everything about themselves in front of him without any cover-up. They should learn to dress themselves up so that they can look good in front of their husbands. Being able to keep things fresh all the time will help you stay on top of your marriage.

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