When adult virgins have sexual intercourse for the first time on their wedding night, they will experience varying degrees of pain, which is usually very mild. If the pain is very significant and you cannot bear to continue sexual intercourse, it is an abnormal phenomenon, mostly caused by the following reasons.

1. Severe pain caused by too thick hymen and narrow hymen hole.

The normal hymen is made up of two folded layers of mucous membrane, which is easily broken by external forces and does not hinder normal sexual intercourse. Some congenital factors and chronic inflammation that does not heal for a long time after birth. Causes the hymen tissue to proliferate and become thicker. The valves adhere to each other and shrink, and the hymen hole is narrowed. Rough sexual intercourse by a man will inevitably cause unbearable pain or bleeding. If sexual intercourse is not easy to succeed on the wedding night, avoid resorting to violence to avoid serious injury. It is necessary to consult a gynecological or urological expert for diagnosis and treatment as soon as possible to diagnose those with thickened hymen. A "cross" incision or total hymenectomy can be performed in an outpatient clinic to cure it permanently.

2. Pain caused by inflammation of the hymen and vagina.

The female vagina is adjacent to the anus, where there are often many pathogenic bacteria. It is easily contaminated, causing inflammation and increased pain sensitivity. Significant pain can occur as soon as the penis is touched, so sexual intercourse is refused, and it can lead to sexual psychology. disorders and sexual phobia. In this case, the groom should stop asking for sexual intercourse, accompany his beloved wife to the hospital to find out the cause of the inflammation, and then start sexual life after complete recovery.

3. The vagina is not adapted to the severe pain caused by penis stimulation.

The diameter and length of the man's penis exceed the extent and depth of the woman's vagina that can be painlessly expanded, which is one of the reasons for severe pain during sexual intercourse on the wedding night. The size of the penis and vagina is parallel to the individual's height and physical development. The man is tall. Physically strong. The length and diameter of the penis after erection are large, and the vagina of a thin partner can hardly tolerate the stimulation of insertion, expansion and stretching, causing severe pain, and can cause painful spasm and protective contraction of the vaginal wall muscle, making the vaginal cavity narrower and more painful. It becomes shallow, so that the first sexual intercourse fails. In mild cases, it may cause sexual phobia, while in severe cases, it may cause severe vaginal laceration and massive bleeding, requiring emergency hospitalization. Therefore, it is reasonable for girls to ask for a man who is taller than themselves when choosing a mate, but the disparity should not be too great. Otherwise, it will be difficult to adapt to each other's sexual life after marriage.

4. Severe pain caused by disharmony between husband and wife.

When the bride is not sexually excited, there is very little vaginal secretion. Without lubrication, the sexual organs rub against each other with great resistance, causing vaginal dryness and pain. The groom should first talk about the fun of being in love. Kiss and caress the sensitive parts of the woman's sexual organs more often, and wait until she has strong desire and vaginal secretions increase significantly before having sex to avoid pain.

5. Fear causes sexual intercourse pain.

Some girls who have sex before marriage have a lot of worries about having sex for the first time, such as fear of being peeped, worry about pregnancy, etc., and excessive mental stress, which causes vaginal wall muscle contraction and vaginal opening narrowing; if the man has violent intercourse, it will definitely cause severe pain. and vaginal damage. The best way to prevent it is to avoid premarital sex.

6. Vaginal diaphragm pain during sexual intercourse.

This kind of vaginal lesions can be caused by congenital factors or chronic vaginal inflammation and adhesions. There are two types of vaginal septum: transverse septum and vertical septum, both of which make the vaginal cavity shallower and narrower, causing sexual intercourse pain. The symptoms of vaginal septum are: Although sexual intercourse can be barely successful, the man feels that the penetration of the penis is too shallow and lacks pleasure; the woman feels significant vaginal tension pain and top pain. If you have the above symptoms and a history of post-marital infertility (more than two years), you should think of the possibility of a vaginal septum. After examination and diagnosis by a gynecologist, total septal resection can be performed to permanently cure the disease.