Sex life plays an important role in daily life, but after investigation, it was found that many young couples have sex no more than three times a month. What exactly causes couples to refuse sex.

Why do you refuse sex?

1. Female sexual dysfunction

Women's lack of desire and interest in sex, psychological fear and anxiety about sexual behavior, sexual arousal disorders, difficulty in reaching orgasm, persistent or recurring pain during sex, etc., can all cause sexual dysfunction in women.

2. Male sexual dysfunction

Male sexual dysfunction includes premature ejaculation, ejaculation disorder and erectile dysfunction. Premature ejaculation refers to premature ejaculation within a few minutes of penis insertion. Erectile dysfunction refers to the persistent inability of the penis to achieve and maintain erection hardness and the inability to obtain satisfactory sexual intercourse.

3. Psychological and emotional factors

Some people's refusal to have sex is related to childhood trauma or psychological shadows, such as previous sexual assaults and unpleasant sexual experiences.

4. Social factors

Because of the constraints of traditional thinking, most people tend to avoid when it comes to sex-related topics. It is because of this psychology that when you have sexual worries or confusions, they will always be buried in your heart. Many women will not tell their sexual partners about the unpleasantness of their sexual life, which makes the situation even worse.

What to do if sexual desire decreases?

1. External medicine

Use medications as directed by your doctor. Common prostaglandin E1 agonists are prostaglandin E1 agonists, which can increase local blood circulation, relax smooth muscles, and promote congestion and moistening of the external genitalia. In addition, antidepressants can also be used to increase dopamine production and increase excitement.

2. Central nervous system drugs

Central nervous system drugs can stimulate nerve center transmitter receptors, increase the excitability of the cerebral cortex and hypothalamus, and promote the smooth completion of sexual life. Drugs such as dopamine agonists are especially suitable for women. In addition, estrogen, progesterone and male hormone can also be used to increase the degree of sexual excitement of the genitals.

3. Choose a regular hospital for treatment

If it is due to the shadow and painful memories caused by sexual trauma or assault, you need to seek help from a psychologist. Actively treat related issues such as hypersexuality, frigidity, and sex addiction. If you are diagnosed with a sexually transmitted disease, you need to actively cooperate with a doctor for treatment.

Warm reminder

Find out the root cause in time and then treat it accordingly. Whether you are a man or a woman, you must adjust your mentality, learn to reduce stress, and face the disease correctly. Learn more about sex, don't listen to so-called rumors, don't panic when encountering an episode in your life, don't be too upset, so as not to affect family harmony. Provide balanced nutrition for the body, avoid picky eaters and partial eclipses, quit bad habits of smoking and drinking, and reduce sedentary time. More exercise can promote the secretion of male hormones and estrogen, produce endorphins in the body, improve bad moods, and promote sexual excitement.