In recent years, teenagers have become addicted to the online world, and the phenomenon of "going to great lengths to meet netizens" has occurred frequently. Not long ago, 15-year-old Shaanxi girl Wang Li (pseudonym) went to Changchun alone to meet netizens. The netizens did not see her, but she was sent to the Changchun City Rescue Management Station by the patrol police.

I have no chance to tell my family that everyone is equal in the online world

Wang Li met Li from Changchun through "QQ" more than a year ago. The two chatted very speculatively. So we agreed to meet in Changchun. On January 9, Wang Li, who had just been on vacation, boarded a train bound for Changchun, but her netizen Li was hiding and her phone was shut down. Wang Li, who had nowhere to go, was discovered by a kind person and called the police. The police sent Wang Li to the Changchun City Rescue Management Station.

“I don’t have a chance to tell my family what’s on my mind, they always speak to me in a commanding tone. In the online world, everyone is equal, I don’t have any burden, and I can get netizens The recognition can even resonate. "This is the reason why the young girl Wang Li left home. Wang Li said that teachers and parents pay more attention to her academic performance and rarely care about her psychological feelings. She goes online because she is eager to communicate with others and express her inner feelings, which she will not tell her family.

It is understood that the Changchun City Rescue Management Station receives five or six defrauded teenagers almost every month. Most of them are junior high school students, aged fifteen or sixteen, both boys and girls. They were all tricked into coming to Changchun through online chatting.

Going online can vent your emotions and also satisfy your sense of honor and achievement

The reporter conducted a survey among 106 Internet users aged 15 to 24 in several Internet cafes. They surfed the Internet for an average of 3 hours a day. above, and often engage in "accommodation" behavior. Among these people, 26 were junior high school students, 21 were high school students, 42 were college students, and 17 were other personnel. The results show that "online games", "chatting and video", and "going to forums or browsing web pages" are the main behaviors of Internet users. When talking about the reasons for surfing the Internet for a long time, 39 people chose "It's empty and boring, I have nothing else to do, just to kill time", and 57 people chose "On the Internet, I can satisfy my sense of honor and achievement, and I can find someone to talk to." ”, 10 people chose “to obtain more information”.

Zheng Xiaohua, director of the Changchun Mental Health Institute, said that parents always speak to their children in a commanding and lecturing tone, which actually causes great harm to their children. On the other hand, as teenagers, they have a rebellious mentality and they have emotions that need to be vented. Because many children have not found the right outlet, they use the Internet to vent to netizens, which relieves their psychological pressure to a certain extent.

Apart from surfing the Internet, there is no entertainment option but nothing to communicate with except learning

Shao Hanming, a researcher at the Jilin Academy of Social Sciences, believes that the reasons why minors are willing to use netizens as the target of their complaints are as follows:

First of all, there is a serious imbalance in the knowledge and understanding of the Internet among Chinese parents and children. In foreign countries, it is often adults who master and understand the Internet more, and then guide minors to get involved in the Internet. In China, parents basically do not have much legitimate say in their children's behavior on the Internet. They rely solely on parental authority to suppress them, which is counterproductive.

Secondly, Internet applications in schools are almost all focused on aspects related to classroom knowledge, and the application of Internet entertainment is basically not touched. Minors use the Internet in an environment that lacks restraint and guidance outside of school. Entertainment can easily lead to behavioral distortions.

The third is that society and families provide too few alternatives to minors. Apart from television, there are almost no other convenient and effective entertainment methods that can compete with the Internet. Because of its incomparable advantages in terms of venue, cost, content, and effects, the Internet has become an important choice for entertainment consumption for most people. However, most parents of middle school students are unwilling to let their children go out alone, so surfing the Internet is a helpless choice.

The fourth and key reason is that there is a lack of thoughtful communication between families, schools and students. Families and schools often pay too much attention to supervising minors’ knowledge learning, but neglect communication in aspects such as emotions, values, and morals. The Internet is the most convenient way to communicate with others.

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