1. Pursue the so-called "new" way of love

Chinese society in the 1990s has entered a high-level, fast-paced, and multi-color period. Lifestyles are changing, and so are love styles. Some young people mistakenly believe that the way to change love in the 1990s was to have sex at every turn. Some young women said: "Conventional love is incomplete. Real love should reflect broadness. Since I love him, I can give him anything." "Love should give the loved one freedom, why wait until marriage. "We're already in the 1990s, and it's boring to be sentimental. I want to be ahead of history," etc. Under the control of the trendy mentality, they quickly moved from first love to passionate love, and from marginal sexual behavior to core sexual behavior. Fascinating hugs, kisses, and caresses arouse strong impulses of sexual physiological instincts, making it difficult for reason to resist. A survey found that 44.67% of women had had multiple sexual relations within six months, 50.33% of them expressed willingness, and 80.33% believed it was a personal matter. According to my country's sexual ethics, the most intimate form of sexual behavior between men and women during love can only be kissing, snuggling, and caressing. Sexual behavior can only occur under the condition that the marriage relationship is protected by law. Random "fashionable" behavior is a sign of a lack of responsibility.

2. Advocate various concepts of sexual freedom

In recent years, with the influx of Western cultural trends and the occasional proliferation of sexual culture in our country, traditional sexual ethics with deep cultural accumulation have been impacted. Some young people blindly admire Western concepts of sexual freedom and have a strong sense of self-consciousness about breaking through the so-called traditional sexual moral concepts. Some young women said: "We are facing the impact of the tide from all directions, and even the most rational women will feel confused -" The moral music box has soothed the contradictory and painful souls and bodies of some young people today, and their sexual concepts have become primitive. Instinct needs are equated. Therefore, some young women think, "Now that they are mature, satisfying their own desires is a physiological need." Some say, "As long as you love happily," others say, "There is nothing to be afraid of when you are pregnant. Sex is not sinful." "A woman is not a complete woman unless she has had an abortion." In the survey, 32.67% of women believed that "chastity is not very important," and 19.7% did not care at all after the abortion, and said, "That's it. "etc. As soon as their ideas change, their behavior changes accordingly. When their love is still at a stage where they don't know how to control the boat of life rationally, they are burned by desire and have sexual intercourse that should not happen prematurely. Some have sex with their boyfriends periodically, and some have a premonition that the two will never get married, but their special relationship remains the same. Distorted sexual concepts make distorted sexual behavior out of control, resulting in "irresponsible consequences."

3. Satisfy the curiosity and exploration of "sex"

In today's cultural environment, sex has gradually torn off the veil of concealment. For some young women, it is no longer that they are "disloyal" and ashamed to talk about sex, but that talking about sexual desire is as easy and normal as talking about appetite. However, due to the fact that many books and periodicals focus on the introduction of sexual organs and sexual life content, there is a lack of education on sexual psychology and sexual ethics. In addition, there are an increase in sexual aesthetic scenes in movies and television, and the phenomenon of hugging and kissing on the road and street is often reflected. As you can see, this cultural atmosphere deepens and actualizes the hazy awareness and curiosity about sex in girlhood. It changes from the original ignorance of male sexual physiology, why the two sexes are full of sweetness when they are alone, and pregnancy. What is going on, etc., have developed to the point where we are no longer satisfied with what is introduced in books and magazines and what we witness on the film and television screens, on the streets, in the entertainment industry, and under the moonlight. Instead, we have to try and explore for ourselves, so that during love, sometimes we take the initiative. Curiously make or refuse sexual requests from men. The survey shows that 64.3% of women had sexual intercourse out of curiosity, only to regret it when they had to abort the pregnancy.

4. Be grateful for your boyfriend’s admiration and love for you

Although they also understand that women's chastity is very important and should never be sacrificed easily, but under the constant agitation of their boyfriends' admiration and love, they cannot hold on to their defense line. Some may have boyfriends who are more attentive to them and have greatly helped them in their study and life, or they may have made great sacrifices because their boyfriends have solved many difficulties for their relatives. I often feel uneasy and feel grateful to repay my gratitude. When a boyfriend makes a sexual request, he is worried that rejection will hurt his heart, so he treats his boyfriend's sexual request as a reward for his deep affection. This type of situation accounted for 18.3% in the survey.