After experiencing an ups and downs of sex, both men and women feel very tired and just want to lie in bed and have a good sleep. But the psychology between men and women is different. Doing a few things right after sex can make the other person feel safe and comfortable, and can also make the relationship between husband and wife closer.

What are the 5 do’s and 5 don’ts to remember after sex?

1. Maintain physical contact

After sex, both men and women can hug each other, caress or stroke the hair gently, which can make women feel tender and let women know that you have been paying attention to his feelings.

2. Say more sweet words

After sex, you might as well lie in each other's arms, talk about private things and how you feel after sex, and what you hope the other person will do next time. This can increase their trust and intimacy, and at the same time make them more comfortable. Marriages are happier.

3. Take a mandarin duck bath

After sex, both men and women can take a mandarin duck bath and massage or soap each other's bodies. This can not only clean each other's bodies, but also reduce the fatigue caused by sex.

4. Learn to praise each other

Every man hopes that women will affirm his sexual performance, and prefers to hear women praise his sexual skills. As long as you tell the other person that you are very satisfied with the sex you just had, the good effects it will bring are unexpected.

5. Drink water together

After sex, you can listen to relaxing and upbeat music, then drink a cup of warm water and eat snacks to replenish your physical strength and energy.

6. Don’t play with your phone or watch TV right away

If a man plays with his mobile phone or watches TV immediately after sex, this will make women feel that the man’s attention is on other things and does not care about them at all, and they are often frustrated because of this. No matter how important things are, you must put your wife's feelings first and don't be in a hurry to keep in touch with the outside world.

7. Don’t fall asleep

Most men are physically tired after sex and are used to falling asleep. Because the body can release a large amount of oxytocin during orgasm, and oxytocin can cause the body to feel tired. If you go to bed immediately after sex, it will inevitably increase your wife's dissatisfaction. When orgasm is about to come, you can take deep breaths and exhales first. This can not only enhance the pleasure of orgasm, but also keep you awake after sex and reduce fatigue.

8. Don’t let your sexual partner leave immediately

It is very impolite and rude to let the other person leave immediately after sex. You need to maintain physical contact and gently remind the other person even if you have something important to do.

9. Stop telling dirty jokes

During a crazy sex life, people may be excited and say explicit words. You can't say dirty jokes after sex. Leave it to the next time you have sex.

10. Don’t make declarations of love

If you make a more exaggerated declaration of love after having sex, it will definitely feel fake and not sincere at all, so try to avoid it. Make sure you can only declare your love when you are clear-headed and have clear thoughts. You must not say it when you are overwhelmed by the pleasure of sex.

Warm reminder

After having sex, keep in mind the above 5 dos and 5 don’ts. At the same time, pay attention to local cleaning after sex and wash the reproductive area carefully. Women need to urinate promptly after sex to flush out semen and secretions stuck in the urethra to avoid urinary tract infection. At the same time, you should not take cold showers or drink cold drinks after sex, otherwise it will cause a cold or cause gastrointestinal diseases. At the same time, you should pay more attention to rest and avoid menstrual period for women.