How do couples solve their physical needs when they are separated in two places? For long-distance couples, the biggest obstacle is not only the emotional emptiness, but also the physical needs of being separated for a long time. So how do couples solve their physical needs when they are separated in two places?

1. Sexual masturbation:

Because once a couple separates, it is equivalent to a period of sexual unemployment for both parties, just like adolescent men and women. Although they have sexual impulses, there is no way to resolve them, so they can selectively masturbate. Everyone must have a understanding of sexual masturbation. Correctly understood, it is indeed very convenient and safe, and has little impact on the relationship between the two parties. During the interval, when they cannot meet each other, using sexual masturbation can actually solve the problem of sexual life to a large extent. Another That is to say, if the separation time of this couple is not very long, for example, it is about a month or half a month, and the two people can get together once, in this case, the method of saving in small amounts can also be used, and the sex can be divided into The energy released is lower.

Generally speaking, after the sexual energy is properly accumulated, when he has sex again, the intensity of sexual pleasure or sexual satisfaction may be better than usual, which may bring some more unforgettable sexual experiences to both parties. Just like the effect of a short break is better than a newlywed, if the separation time is not long, you can also adopt this method. When they can't get together, the two people can communicate more, which will give them psychological comfort. When they are together, they can spend more time together. Live some, of course, you have to pay attention. Some couples have sex too frequently and repeat it. Does it matter if they have sex occasionally? If it is too frequent and they have sex too many times a day, it may have adverse effects.

2. Sex tools:

For example, some people cannot accept sexual masturbation. They can also use sex tools to solve the problem of the sex life of separated couples. Of course, we say that sex tools have a problem. First of all, others may not accept it. Sexual tools may be a relatively new thing. Although they may be very old, for modern people, not many people accept them after all, so they must first be able to accept them mentally.

Sex tools can sometimes bring a particularly strong sexual stimulation to the human body, allowing men and women to obtain a particularly strong sexual pleasure. Therefore, some people will become dependent and even lose interest in sex life. We say that sex life has three functions: One is fertility, the other is pleasure, and the other is communication between husband and wife. Sexual tools can only solve one of them at most. This pleasure function does not have the other two functions. The initial special stimulation may attract You are not interested in sex life, but after time, you will naturally return to sex life. Don’t worry too much about this. Of course, using sex tools is the same as sexual masturbation. It should be moderate. Don’t think this thing is good, just use it every day. , several times a day, this is not right, everything has a problem of degree.

3. Phone sex:

If the couple is living apart, perhaps one of them is on a business trip, or the two are living apart, they may be craving sex and caressing. Sometimes, an empty hotel room can make people very lonely and lonely, and that powerful sexual desire will come to mind. If you don't want to masturbate to relieve your sexual urges, why not call your partner and have phone sex?

First, you tell your partner how much you miss him or her and how much you wish he or she was by your side. Then ask your partner to soothe themselves. Close your eyes and imagine that you are soothing him; and as you soothe yourself, imagine that he is touching you. Talk to each other and take turns responding to each other, occasionally describing how you feel or telling your partner what you are imagining he is doing for you or what you are doing for him.

Finally, imagine making love to each other in this way, maybe with a little lubrication. You can masturbate together and reach orgasm. While this approach isn't quite as good as perfect sex, it's not far off. Remember, don’t do it on a timer or with a pluggable phone, as they will interfere with your phone sex, which is, after all, the most private moment between you.

4. Video sex:

For those lovers and couples who live in two places, they must be troubled by sexual outlets. Therefore, although there is still a lot of debate about "video sex" and people's acceptance still needs a process, its emergence It has important practical significance. Since it can make people enjoy sexual climax, it should be reasonable. "Video sex" can also be used as a supplement to sex for singles, providing them with a safe and economical way to satisfy their sexual desires. Couples living in two places can also use this to enhance their relationship and to a certain extent reduce the breakdown of marriages caused by prostitution or extramarital affairs.

But we need to see clearly that while technology satisfies human desires, it can also cause harm to humans. This is a double-edged sword. It is inevitable that there will be various temptations other than partners on the other side of the camera. We should at least know how to avoid them. "Pricking" yourself and your partner requires a strong willpower to resist temptation. The Internet is a good thing, but not everything on the Internet is suitable for us. Once the so-called "trendy" and "cutting-edge" things deviate from the scope of morality, it is not a kind of progress and cannot be blindly