Many men have this experience. On the wedding night, due to the lack of understanding between the couple, ejaculation will be faster during the first sexual intercourse. After living together for a period of time, the ejaculation will be slower. There are also some separated couples who have not had sex for a long time and suddenly meet each other. Their ejaculation is faster than normal and they get better after living together for a while. So, why do men ejaculate prematurely on their wedding night? What should I do if premature ejaculation disturbs me on my wedding night?

Why do men ejaculate prematurely on their wedding night?

1. Sexual excitement is high on the wedding night and is about to break out

After newlyweds go through the stage of passionate love and intimacy, their sexual excitement is very high. After marriage, the activity of most areas of the cerebral cortex is also concentrated on the sexual organs. The penis will become erect with the slightest sexual stimulation. If it comes into contact with the female vagina, , often on the verge of breaking out, causing premature ejaculation.

2. On the wedding night, semen accumulates in large amounts and overflows when full

Before the first sexual intercourse after marriage, a large amount of semen has accumulated in the husband's reproductive organs, which produces sexual stimulation with a sense of fullness. This stimulation is also a major factor in stimulating sexual desire. He continues to have nocturnal emissions when he has not had sex, and when he touches the vagina It is easier to ejaculate.

3. Lack of sexual life experience and excessive mental stress

During the newlywed period, the husband is full of longing and hope for sexual life. He yearns for the joy of sexual life, but is also worried that his wife will not cooperate well and does not know how to live a more harmonious life. Living sexual life in this extremely complex psychological state will inevitably lead to mental stress. Nervousness, reckless movements, coupled with excessive fatigue of the nervous system in the newlywed stage, make it difficult for other systems to adapt, often resulting in temporary errors and premature ejaculation.

4. It’s because sexual function has not yet developed normally

This does not refer to sexual function problems, but refers to the turning point when sexual function meets the form of sexual life. In the initial stage, it may not be fully adapted. Before all aspects of neurological and endocrine activities are straightened out, problems will occur in the initial stage. The phenomenon of premature ejaculation will return to normal after gradually adapting and getting used to it.

On the wedding night, most men will be quite excited. Due to excessive excitement, ejaculation will occur involuntarily before the penis touches the wife's vagina or shortly after insertion. The following will introduce the countermeasures.

What should I do if premature ejaculation disturbs me on my wedding night? 5 tips to get you out of misery

1. Eliminate psychological factors

We must treat "sexual desire" correctly. We must not regard it as something shameful and disgust and fear it. We must have a full understanding of sexual knowledge and the impact of mental factors on sexual function. We must not be frustrated or worried because of one or two failed sexual intercourses. lack of confidence.

According to andrology experts: For male friends with premature ejaculation, both husband and wife should increase emotional communication, eliminate disharmonious factors, and cooperate tacitly. The woman should care, caress, and encourage her husband, try to avoid showing dissatisfaction, and avoid causing mental pressure to her husband; during sexual intercourse, You need to concentrate your thoughts; especially when you reach the peak of sexual pleasure and are about to ejaculate, you need to concentrate your thoughts.

2. Dietary maintenance is mainly reflected in the following two aspects

(1) Eat more aphrodisiac foods, mutton, sparrows, walnuts, bullwhips, sheep kidneys, etc.; animal offal contains a large amount of sex hormones and adrenocortical hormones, which can enhance sperm motility and increase sexual desire, and are also aphrodisiacs.

In addition, zinc-containing foods such as oysters, beef, chicken liver, eggs, peanuts, pork, chicken, etc., and arginine-containing foods such as yams, ginkgo, frozen tofu, eels, sea cucumbers, cuttlefish, octopus, etc., are all helpful in improving sexual function.

(2) There is no need to avoid food taboos. For example, eating loofah will cause impotence. There is no scientific basis for this. To prevent impotence and premature ejaculation, there is no need to taboo food. This avoids being defensive and increasing psychological burden. It also avoids nutritional deficiencies and physical weakness.

3. Avoid sexual intercourse and masturbation

The investigation found that long-term excessive sexual intercourse, immersion in "desire" pleasures, and frequent masturbation can lead to mental fatigue and are important causes of impotence and premature ejaculation, and are definitely taboos.

Men's experts pointed out that: Separating beds between husband and wife, stopping sexual life for a period of time, avoiding various types of sexual stimulation, and allowing the central nervous system and sexual organs to fully rest are indeed effective measures to prevent and treat impotence and premature ejaculation.

4. Quit smoking and drinking

Everyone knows that tobacco and alcohol are very harmful to the body. Long-term smoking will hinder the flow of blood to the periphery of the body, affect the blood circulation of the penis, and affect the generation of sexual responses. Foreign researchers pointed out that the factors leading to impotence due to poor blood circulation include smoking, *25120*, high cholesterol and high blood pressure, with smoking being the most important. Alcohol is a gonadotoxin. Drinking too much or being addicted to alcohol can cause gonadotoxicity. In men, testosterone in the blood is reduced, and 70-80% of them suffer from impotence or infertility.

5. Seek medical treatment as soon as possible and standardize treatment

Andrology experts point out: Premature ejaculation is the same as all other diseases. Early detection and early treatment is the best way to solve the disease. Except for congenital diseases that are difficult to treat, most patients can return to a healthy life after professional and systematic treatment.