Every man hopes to show his strength during sex, which can improve his self-confidence and self-esteem and make the relationship between men and women more stable and intimate. However, many men are under great pressure in work and life. When they come home from get off work, they are exhausted both physically and mentally. Their sexual desire will also decrease, and they often fail every time they have sex. What is going on?

What makes men keep failing during sex?

1. Bad mood

Emotions can affect a man’s sexual ability, especially men who lack relevant sexual experience. They may ejaculate quickly due to nervousness during sex for the first time, which will increase the psychological burden and cause them to ejaculate every time they have sex. Worrying about sexual performance can lead to a vicious cycle over time, which can lead to premature ejaculation. If sexual performance is reduced due to emotions, adjustments must be made. You may wish to learn more knowledge about sex, communicate more between men and women, and eliminate nervousness and uneasiness in a timely manner.

2. Age

Generally, men have the strongest sexual desire between the ages of 20 and 30. However, after the age of 50, the level of male hormones in the body decreases, and men often feel unable to do what they want, and even need to rely on aphrodisiac drugs to complete their sexual life.

3. Blood vessel problems

Whether sexual ability is normal has a lot to do with penile blood vessels. Pelvic fractures or atherosclerosis can cause damage to penile arteries. Venous occlusion disorders or channel abnormalities can also cause penile vein damage, resulting in decreased erectile function.

4. Related to disease

There are many diseases related to sexual performance decline, such as high blood pressure, cardiovascular and cerebrovascular diseases, diabetes and obesity. Sexual performance can also be affected by endocrine and neurological diseases, liver and kidney insufficiency, and Peyronie's disease. As long as the underlying disease is actively treated, sexual performance will gradually return to normal.

5. Nervous factors

Most men with disc herniation are accompanied by varying degrees of sexual dysfunction because of peripheral nerve problems. In addition, if you have had rectal, pelvic or prostate surgery, pelvic fracture, etc., your pelvic nerves will be damaged and your erectile function will be affected.

6. Related to hormones

Male sexual function is closely related to hormones in the body. A variety of hormones can affect male sexual function, such as cortisol, estradiol, testosterone and prolactin.

7. Related to drugs

Drugs can affect sexual function, especially antidepressants and antipsychotics, blood pressure lowering and endocrine drugs. In addition, some drugs and anti-androgen drugs can also affect sexual performance.

8. Having sex too frequently

Because the decline in sexual performance of some men is related to excessive indulgence, it may also be caused by excessive masturbation. Excessive masturbation can cause impotence or premature ejaculation, thereby reducing sexual performance.

9. Tension between husband and wife

Excessive tension in the relationship between husband and wife can affect sexual function. Men's sexual desires will not be stimulated as they should because their wives are uncooperative or disgusted. There are also some men who are unable to satisfy women's sexual desires or have discord between their spouses, etc., which will affect sexual desire and weaken the erectile function of the penis.

10. High pressure in work and life

Nowadays, the pace of life is relatively fast, and men are facing multiple pressures. Coupled with a lot of smoking, drinking and staying up late, sexual function will inevitably be affected. Therefore, you need to regulate your stress and get rid of bad habits.

Warm reminder

Men should not avoid seeking medical treatment if they find that their sexual ability has declined. They should find out the underlying reasons in time and then provide targeted treatment. At the same time, bad habits must be corrected and drugs must not be abused.