When a woman falls in love with a man, she wants to give him everything. For some abnormal phenomena in men, you will naturally find excuses to excuse him. By the time you really discover the problem, it is already too late! If a man has these conditions, it is a precursor to a change of heart!

What are the signs of a man changing his mind?

1. Ignore you

It is said that marriage is the life of two people, and they need to work together to live a good life. When you don't love someone, you don't even bother to say anything, just say "hmm" and ignore everything.

If I continue talking, I will only get an embarrassing reply like "Are you annoyed? You are nagging all day long."

2. Lost sense of responsibility

As the saying goes: "A nest of gold and silver is not as good as your own nest." Home is not only a shelter from the wind and rain, but also a small world where the spirit dwells.

If you are tired from work all day but don't want to go home and face your family, it means that there is already a conflict in the relationship between the two parties.

3. Like to pick "thorns"

After two people have been together for a long time, they will gradually understand the "minefields" that the other party has that cannot be touched.

Two people who truly love each other, no matter what happens, will not easily uncover each other's scars or step on each other's pain points.

4. Unwilling to spend time

Venus once said this: If a man feels sorry for you when you squeeze into the bus, complains that you don’t eat on time, tells you to be safe when you go home from work on rainy days, and sends funny text messages to comfort you when you are sick, please ignore him! Go be with someone who can drive you, stay with you when you're sick, take you to meals, and pick you up from get off work.

5. Unwilling to be intimate

Some people say: "A good marriage is the result of sleeping." Although it seems unreliable, it actually has a lot of connotation.

When a woman falls in love with a man, what she wants in her heart is to marry him, have children, and live with him for the rest of her life. When a man loves a woman, his first thought is to sleep with her! I want to sink into the warm quilt with her, hug, kiss, smell the fragrance of her hair, and feel her breath.

What should a man do if he changes his mind?

1. Improve self-worth. Women must also have their own life circle in married life. Women who hang around men all day long are sad and destined to be abandoned. If you want to win a man's heart back, you have to make changes. Women must increase their attractiveness. When you exude charm from deep inside, are you still afraid that your husband will change his mind? Stop worrying about your daily trivial matters and try to enrich your life. In your free time, exercise, go to the gym, make new friends, drink tea, go shopping, constantly enrich your circle of friends, and improve your self-worth. Only when a woman exudes charm from the inside out will she be attractive enough, and her husband who has changed his mind will look back at you.

2. Hang a man’s stomach. People often say, "If you want to capture a man's heart, you must first capture his stomach." After a man has been working hard all day, what he wants most when he comes home from get off work is a hot meal and a group of family members waiting for him, instead of seeing a young lady sitting on the sofa grinding her nails with her fingers crossed. Blissful of spring water. Such a woman has simply failed to fulfill her duties as a wife, let alone redeem her.

3. To become a gentle woman mentally, what you need is to truly transform yourself into a gentle woman from the bottom of your heart. Women should not blindly pay a lot by themselves, thinking that the other person will be grateful and love you more. Many of your actions will appear to him to be constraints and a form of strength, and there is no room for freedom. A woman should be a gentle little woman at the right time, know how to play dumb, and make him feel like a powerful man in front of you.

4. Don’t get angry with him anymore, don’t say any harsh words, don’t try to abuse yourself or the other person; don’t say anything like “I know you don’t love me”, “I knew you changed your mind/fancy other girls”, “I Is it really that annoying to you?” “You won’t be sad even if I die.” Don't say anything that you think will make the other person unhappy, or that will relieve your own anger or downplay your grievances.

5. Even if you know that the other person is lying to you, don't point it out, don't use your talents to expose the other person, just understand in your heart. He went to have dinner with a female colleague and you accidentally discovered him, but he told you that he was working overtime that day. Just pretend you don't know. If he tests you, just smile and don't tell him that you know about it unless you have already made up your mind. Determined to have no contact with him forever.

6. Even if the other party accuses you out of nothing, accept it completely without making excuses. If he starts to dislike you for "not being a teacher/civil servant", "my parents don't like you", "too short", "not a virgin", "not beautiful", don't retaliate. Just tell him gently: Why don't I imagine what you said, but the reality is this, and I accept myself as I am now.

When a man leaves you, his heart is no longer on you. Instead of begging the other person to come back to you, it is better to work hard to improve your self-worth to attract the other person again and use your charm to win back your husband's heart.