A stable relationship between husband and wife is indispensable for the existence of a harmonious sex life. In order to enhance the relationship between husband and wife, it is actually necessary to master some basic sexual skills. What tips can both parties get from this?

Causes of disharmonious sexual life after marriage

1. Excessive fatigue or physical weakness.

At this time, men often have no desire for sex and just want to take a quick rest or recuperate.

2. The relationship between husband and wife is not good or the sexual life is not harmonious.

This situation will cause aversion to sexual life and lead to loss of sexual desire. This requires adjustment and improvement.

3. Have incorrect views on sexual life.

Some people believe that abstinence can maintain physical health; some believe that sterilization surgery will inevitably affect sexual function; some people always feel muscle soreness after having sex, thinking that it is caused by excessive sexual life. These thoughts will cause people to have fear and disgust towards sexual life, and their sexual desire will gradually weaken. In fact, as long as sex is not excessive, it is not only harmless to the body, but also beneficial to physical and mental health. As for male sterilization surgery, as long as the surgery is successful, it will not affect your sex life and everything will be business as usual.

4. I am afraid that the woman will get pregnant, so I have some scruples about sexual intercourse.

There are many contraceptive methods at present, and they are all effective when used properly. If you are worried, you can consult your doctor. It is completely unnecessary to be afraid of the woman getting pregnant after taking scientific contraceptive measures.

5. Suffering from diseases, weak constitution and pain.

In this case, men's sexual desire is not strong. Only when the disease is cured and the body recovers can sexual desire be restored.

If you want the sexual life between husband and wife to achieve the ideal state of harmony, you need to make more efforts in the following aspects:

How can married life be harmonious?

Mastering some sex tips can make your married life more harmonious

First, desire or sexual impulse is shared by both parties, rather than one party being passionate and the other party being indifferent and disapproving of it. Therefore, in order to achieve a harmonious sexual life between husband and wife, the first thing is that both parties have requirements, which is an indispensable condition;

Second, after the sexual intercourse begins, you must concentrate and do not think about irrelevant things. Only such a sexual life can achieve satisfactory results for both parties.

Third, happy emotions should be infected with each other. During sexual life, couples should infect each other with the excitement, excitement, pleasure, etc. during sexual activities, and should not reluctantly accept or reject, be embarrassed or complain to each other;

Fourth, couples express or hint to each other before sex;

Fifth, the end of sexual intercourse should be about taking care of each other and waiting for each other. Men, in particular, should pay more attention to this point. According to gender characteristics, the man ends his sexual excitement soon after ejaculation, while the woman lags behind and takes a long time to calm down. Therefore, the man should wait for the woman after obtaining sexual satisfaction. Express your love by touching, hugging and kissing. Make the woman satisfied. Never cause yourself a time of need. Just have sex. When one is satisfied, one falls asleep soundly. Over time, the woman will feel indifferent or even bored with sex life.