Sex life is an important part of a couple's life. A harmonious sex life is not only a couple's physical needs, but also conducive to promoting the relationship between the couple, family harmony and happiness, and social stability.

Reasons for disharmony between husband and wife:

1. Psychological disorders

When they first become husband and wife, most of the "disharmonious situations" that occur in the sexual life of men and women are due to their respective lack of psychological preparation and confusion, and the problem is more serious for the woman. Many women do not understand "sex" well enough, are overly idealistic or do not understand it at all, or some women have had sexual experiences and failed sexual experiences. This will affect the sexual life of the couple, thus leading to psychological problems when actually having sex. obstacle.

2. Tense life pressure

The main reason for this phenomenon is work pressure. The accelerated pace of social life and fierce competition have made professional women feel immense pressure in work and life. Therefore, busyness and tension make them ignore the important life of a couple.

Disharmonious sex life of couples is a big hazard

1. Sexual dysfunction

Disharmony in sexual life will not only affect the pleasure of sexual life between men and women, but also affect the intimate relationship between husband and wife. And in severe cases, it can cause sexual dysfunction in one or both spouses, and even cause a crisis in marital life. Long-term disharmonious sex life will also bring harm to men, making them prone to impotence, premature ejaculation and chronic prostate diseases. It will also bring psychological damage to them, damaging their self-esteem, self-confidence and trust in their lovers.

2. Causes men to suffer from pharyngitis

Sexual disharmony and men’s pharyngitis are a seemingly unrelated problem. A previous Israeli survey showed that within five years, a common cause was found among men suffering from pharyngitis. The quality of their marriages is very poor, and their wives have no tenderness for them at all. A happy and satisfying sex life brings people more than just spiritual enjoyment.

3. Induce breast lobular hyperplasia and breast cancer

If the sex life is not harmonious, such as the orgasm is not well aroused, the congestion of the breasts will subside slowly, and breast swelling and pain and chest discomfort may occur. In fact, this is caused by breast congestion, which is also one of the causes of breast hyperplasia. Frequent congestion will inevitably lead to structural disorder of the breast.

If there is a long-term lack of sexual life, the breasts as sexual organs cannot be stimulated by sexual excitement for a long time, and the structure and function of the breasts cannot be well "exercised". This can also prevent the physiological hyperplasia and involution of the breasts from proceeding smoothly, thereby increasing breast hyperplasia. incidence of disease.

In addition to breast hyperplasia, disharmonious sexual life is also prone to breast swelling and pain, which can induce breast cancer. Some data show that among breast cancer patients, the proportion of elderly, unmarried, low sexual function, and widowed women is significantly higher than that of other groups. This suggests that women who have no normal sexual life and are sexually frigid are at a greatly increased risk of breast cancer.

4. Female frigidity

There are many reasons for female sexual frigidity. Overwork and illness can affect people's sexual desire. In addition, there are also mental and psychological factors, such as receiving wrong sex education at a young age, and various insecurities and fears left over from certain sexual experiences.

A more important reason is that both husband and wife do not understand the sexual physiological and psychological characteristics of men and women. In particular, husbands do not understand the differences in sexual responses between men and women and tend to ignore warmth, so that their wives cannot experience pleasure and climax during sex, and naturally feel boring and uninterested in sex.

5. Suffering from neurosis

Sex helps reduce stress in life and work, relieves tension, and makes people happier, more fulfilled, and more confident. If their sexual life is not satisfied, women will either become upset and angry, and they will use trivial matters as an excuse to start quarrels and vent their dissatisfaction; or they will be depressed, frowning, self-pitying, and resentful of their sexual partners. Many women even suffer from neurosis as a result.

6. Cause insomnia

When a person is in a period of strong sexual desire and cannot get physical release for a long time, the nervous system will be in a highly excited state, and insomnia will ensue.

This is even more prominent in women. This is because there is a big gap in the moment between men and women's sexual desire, orgasm and sexual desire subsidence. Men's sexual desire can be stimulated quickly, and they can reach orgasm quickly during the entire sexual intercourse. After orgasm, sexual desire can quickly subside. Therefore, men can fall asleep quickly as soon as they reach orgasm.

What should I do if my husband and wife are not harmonious?

1. Cultivate more feelings in daily life

Married life is a life enjoyed by two people together, enjoying the happiness and love in the world of two people. If the married life is regarded as a task, the meaning of this life will be lost. Therefore, couples should actively cultivate their relationship in daily life, communicate more between husband and wife in life, and establish a harmonious emotional life.

2. Make married life more regular

Due to the lack of effective communication and family life, many couples suffer from emotional breakdown and even divorce. In order to make up for the lack of emotion, the couple can reach a tacit understanding and achieve a more regular couple life, so that both It can meet the requirements of both parties, strengthen the intimacy between husband and wife, and improve the quality of life.

3. Husband and wife should be considerate and understanding of each other

Regarding the quality of a couple's life, both husband and wife must make sacrifices and efforts. Don't blame one person for the pressure of the couple's life. The couple's life must be integrated into everyone's heart. Both parties must understand and support each other, so that the relationship can be fulfilled. Gain life and enhance mutual trust and love between husband and wife.