Romantic sex is inseparable from the mood and atmosphere. Slow down and proceed step by step: watch a movie, have a big meal, turn on the music, light candles, pour champagne, dance together... until you and your beloved People are turbulent in bed.

What are some ways to flirt to make sex more enjoyable?

1. Coquettish type

When you want to snuggle up to him, lie down with him with your head on his chest and write provocative words on his body, like "You're so sexy!" or "You drive me crazy!" , and then you also ask him to write sweet words on your back.

2. High sexual desire type

On certain days, you will particularly want to have sex. At this time, you should carefully comb your hair and put on sexy lingerie to show your beauty and sexiness, then ask him to lie down and straddle him, and then use your hands Hold on and lean your body back into an arch shape. He can admire you while twitching his body upwards. Feel his eyes wandering on your body and combine it with passionate lovemaking movements, which will give you an extremely sensational feeling.

3. Shy type

Sometimes you are not very satisfied with your figure, so you don’t dare to take off your clothes in front of him. In fact, this is a good time for you to try wearing clothes for sex: you can wear a short dress and pull your underwear open. Similarly, he Don't take off all your clothes either, that will make him want to be inside you even more, and you don't have to be naked in front of him.

4. Naughty type

Don't wear underwear while you're in the front or back seat while he's driving, then playfully pull his hand up your skirt and give him a sultry smile so he knows what to expect when you get home." The show is about to begin!

5. Crazy type

Have sex in the doggie position in front of the window, unleash your wild side and experience the thrill of exposing your body! This will make you very excited, and the heat you exhale will cling to the windows, but if the neighbors are busy, it is best to do it at night and turn off the lights.

6. Lazy type

Have a pizza dinner in bed. Don't turn on the TV. Just play sexy and provocative music. You sit across from each other like you would in a restaurant. Put the pizza on a plate and bring it to the bed and pour some wine. Don't worry about having sex while eating the pizza. Dirty sheets.

7. Romantic type

The dim light combined with the gentle and comfortable back massage is quite romantic. You can choose massage candles, especially the essential oil candles containing shea butter, which have excellent skin care effects. In addition, massage causes the body to release "oxytocin", known as the "intimacy hormone"

What are some things that are easily overlooked when making love?

1. The time men want most is in the morning and autumn

Male hormone secretion is the best in the early morning every day, which is one and a half times that at noon and 16% higher than in the evening; and every autumn is the time when men secrete the strongest male hormone in the year. So boys want it most in the morning and autumn!

2. The best sexual environment temperature is 27 degrees

Research shows that the best temperature for sex is 27 degrees. Having sex at low temperatures will slow down blood circulation and make your nerves tense. Shivers can also occur in hot weather.

3. Orgasm comes from sleeping

The first factor to ensure high-quality sexual intercourse is sleep. If you sleep less than 6 hours a day, you will easily develop "sexual fatigue."

4. The sooner a man falls asleep after sex, the better his health will be.

A man's cerebral cortex and neuromuscles are in a highly and short-lived state of excitement during orgasm, and then quickly subside as the excitement dissipates. At this time, because the physiological response will be in great need of sleep, the faster a man falls asleep after intimacy, the more energy he has. The better.

5. Women are excited by purple, while men are attracted to red

Men get excited when they see red, and women get scared when they see red. But in a bedroom with a purple atmosphere, a woman's sexual excitement will be 15% higher than usual. Make it easier for women to have rich sexual fantasies.

6. Don’t break up after making love

Love psychologists say that if lovers separate during the day, they will feel that they have a future to look forward to, but if they say goodbye at night, especially after sex, it will create a feeling of "permanent separation." Therefore, even if it is a temporary separation, do not propose it in bed.

7. Men are more eager to have sex when they are unhappy

When men are unhappy, their desire for sex is 20% higher than usual. If your boyfriend is experiencing a low mood, you might as well give him a different and passionate surprise, which may make him feel better!

8. Extended foreplay or massage can prevent mind wandering in bed

73% of women have had the experience of "zoning out" during sex. Extending the foreplay time, or giving each other a soothing massage before making love can avoid this situation!

When making love, be careful to avoid these methods:

1. Hold back ejaculation

In clinical practice, we encounter many patients who ejaculate too quickly, their lovers are not satisfied, and they cannot reach orgasm. Especially when it comes to women who take a long time to reach orgasm during sexual intercourse, male patients are even more stressed. This lack of sexual synchrony causes many men headaches and even frustration. Therefore, some people treat sex life as a heavy task and cannot realize the happiness that a harmonious sex life brings to both husband and wife.

2. Congestion of sexual organs

After having sex for the first time, the excitability of a male's penis decreases. If the penis is required to erect again immediately, it can easily induce autonomic nervous system dysfunction, cause prostate congestion, and relax and expand the glandular ducts, endangering the health of the prostate. Excessive sperm loss may also reduce the function of the anterior lobe of the pituitary gland, increase the burden on the testicles, and accelerate male aging. Continuing to have sex for the second time will also make the female pelvic cavity congested for a long time, which may even take 4-6 hours to subside. Over time, lower abdominal distension, pain, and even dysmenorrhea are likely to occur.

3. Unexpected pregnancy

Men who are in love, don’t forget to take safety measures while enjoying perfect sex. Semen contains a large amount of protein, including dozens of specific antigens. Antigenic substances in male semen react with female reproductive tract secretions to produce corresponding anti-semen antibodies. Antigens combine with antibodies to induce semen allergy. If the woman is allergic, having sex without safety measures will often induce a series of allergic reactions, such as sudden chest tightness, vaginal burning, pain and itching, etc.

4. Change patterns

Women's sexual desire is slow and weak, and sexual excitement appears later. Therefore, if there is a lack of foreplay in sexual life, it is generally difficult for the man to move the woman, and it may also lead to insufficient secretion of accessory gonad fluid and no lubrication. Rough and hasty movements can easily arouse the woman's disgust or cause pain. Generally, sexual foreplay lasts about 15 minutes.

5. Stimulate sexual excitement

If you want to enjoy a perfect sex life, you must also master the correct posture. Adopting the correct posture can not only increase sex appeal, but also stimulate orgasm for both parties. Some can also achieve the purpose of eugenics and disease prevention and treatment.