The relationship between husband and wife is not as stable as family relationships. The quality of the relationship depends entirely on your own management. The original seven-year itch has long since turned into a three-year itch and a three-month itch. In fact, people are inherently animals that love the new and hate the old. If you want a happy marriage, you must have fresh content every day to recharge your love. Women must learn to tease their husbands.

Women can learn these things to firmly hold their husband’s heart

1. Frequently frighten or surprise him

For example, for birthdays, it is too ordinary to send flowers and buy cakes. Cooking delicious food makes you smell of oil smoke. You'd better dress yourself up. But there are many beauties and he has seen them too much. Don't dress up to be beautiful. You dress up like a twenty-five-year-old. Look like that, put many little braids on your hair, put one cheek red and one cheek black, tell him this is the custom in your hometown, the person you love the most should dress up as a 250 on his birthday. After scaring him, dress up like a lady and go to a more romantic place for dinner with him...

2. Pretend to be in pain from time to time

He shouted in a very disgusting tone: "Husband, this hurts me so much, please rub it for me, here, here, no, here..." "Oh, not here, you want to rub me to death? You Why are you so perverted? Do you want to be a gangster?"

3. Improve “cultural” accomplishment

For example, I often read ancient poems: "It's noon on the day of weeding, and the sweat drops from the weeds." I get into my husband's arms and ask: "Are you the weeder? Who is the noon? Look at you who are tired every day, sweat drops from the weeds." Go to the soil...hahahahaha...

4. Often give your husband some puzzles

"What does one minus one equal? ​​You fool, you don't know! It equals two. Just touch it. I have it. If you subtract your son, doesn't it equal two?

"Husband, if there is a big earthquake and you happen to be trapped in the elevator with a beautiful woman, what will you do?'"

5. Give your husband full freedom

I often teach my husband how to tease a female colleague: Take a coin and say, "I'll teach you a trick to tease a female colleague." Then hold the coin between your fingers and say, "I'll ask you a question, and you can answer it after you take out the coin." The first question: "How old are you this year?" Your husband took out the coin from your fingers and answered. The same goes for the second question. Last question: What was the first thing your husband said to you on your wedding night? Then use the strength of both hands to squeeze it tightly to prevent him from taking out the coin. He will say: "You are holding it too tight and I can't pull it out." "Hahaha... I succeeded! I asked my husband: "Have you learned it? ”

6. When your husband is in a bad mood and gets angry with you, he pretends to be aggrieved

Pretending to be aggrieved, he told him a story: "The bull was on a business trip and was worried that the cow would be alone at home, so he sent it to his friend the elephant. When the bull came back to take the cow back, he said in surprise, 'Hey, the cow is big. Yeah!" Then, he tapped his forehead and said, "That's you!"

7. Learn some dance

I watched my husband watching a breast enhancement commercial on TV, so I stepped forward and performed a striptease for him. The posture was more provocative than the one on TV...

8. Learn how stupid you were the first time

If you don't tell your husband about your first time, and your husband mentions it, you will burst into tears: "It will always be the first time for me and you. If you are like this, I have to find a noodle to hang myself, woo woo woo..." and then Playing tricks in his arms.

The wife needs to understand why her husband avoids sex

1. Their wives’ attraction to them diminishes.

"Some people, during the process of having sex with their lover, fantasize that they are having sex with another person. In the past 12 months, have you had this situation?" As a result, those Among husbands who said they had such sexual fantasies and had masturbated before, 29% still masturbated, while only 9% of husbands who had no sexual fantasies did so. Looking further, among husbands who still masturbate, only 25% of those who have no sexual fantasies masturbate frequently (more than once a month); but among husbands who have sexual fantasies, the number of those who still masturbate frequently is as high as 48% %.

2. Lack of orgasm.

Compared with husbands who had orgasms every time, the proportion of husbands who had no orgasm at all during sexual intercourse increased by 22 percentage points; the proportion of husbands who masturbated frequently increased by 26 percentage points. In other words, the husband avoids conjugal intimacy and continues to masturbate at a high frequency because he cannot achieve orgasm from his wife.

3. Sex life lasts too long.

After controlling for the influence of other factors, among husbands who continue to masturbate, if they believe that sex with their wives lasts too long, 56% will masturbate several times a month; 25% will masturbate several times a month; Masturbation several times a week, totaling 81%. In contrast, only 26% of husbands who believe that sex life is too short masturbate more than once a month, and the remaining 74% only masturbate a few times a year.

It may be "bizarre" that men actually feel that sex lasts too long. But this just shows that those husbands who masturbate frequently are indeed avoiding sex with their wives. This may be because the wife's request for time during sex is really too long; but it is equally possible that it is precisely because the husband already wants to escape that he feels the time is too long.

4. Some "fear" about his wife's "sexual ability".

This is shown by the fact that if one correctly knows what a woman's orgasm is like, the proportion of husbands who continue to masturbate increases by 8 percentage points. If the wife knows sexual skills well, the husband's high frequency of masturbation will increase by 16 percentage points. In particular, the proportion of husbands who feel that their wives are much more "attractive" than themselves will continue to masturbate will increase by 30 percentage points. This shows that no matter whether the wife actually has an orgasm, or whether she is really "sex-skilled" or "charming," if the husband thinks so, it will cause some kind of psychological pressure on himself, which will prompt him to He used masturbation to escape the sexual life of the couple.

5. Men’s own wrong sexual concepts.

Husbands who believe in the old myth that "exerting sex is harmful to the body" will have a 10 percentage point decrease in the proportion of those who continue to masturbate; those who masturbate frequently will have a 7 percentage point decrease. Additionally, husbands who believed women should not enjoy sex equally were 26 percentage points more likely to continue masturbating.