A matrilineal clan society, with group marriages and mixed living, and a high degree of "sexual freedom." Women experience fertility worship and femininity worship. After entering a patriarchal society, the concept of chastity, as a spiritual product of patriarchal absolute dominance and dominance over women, marks the failure of women with world-historical significance. From chastity worship to virginity complex, women's social status has further declined, and eventually they have become accessories of the male-dominated society.

Hymen worship originated from property-based marriages in human agricultural societies. It is one of the important signs that parents regard their daughters as items to be sold, and husbands regard their wives as property. In this kind of sale and possession that objectifies women, the integrity of the hymen is like a label indicating that the object or property has not been used. Therefore, in the agricultural society period of all nations, everyone, including women themselves, regarded whether a woman's hymen was intact or not as the only sign of whether the woman was chaste and whether she had had sexual relations with others. Therefore, concepts and terms such as "virgin" and "virgin membrane" appear.

Contemporary international feminists firmly oppose hymen worship, believing that it is to devalue and deny all social values ​​and all life ideals of all women, and only attaches women’s personality to that small piece of physiological structure. They believe that hymen worship is a yoke or even a noose placed around women's necks by traditional society.

Two views on the virginity complex

virgin? In fact, she is "the only woman I have ever fucked"

The word "virgin" in "virgin complex" is actually a lie. If someone really loves "virgins", then his love will be limited to the night when he gets the "virgin". He should kiss her butt and leave early the next morning, because she is no longer a "virgin". Therefore, it is obvious that they are not in love with "virgins", they are in love with "women who have only been fucked by me".

But of course those with virginity complexes dare not say this, because in this way, their possessiveness towards women will be instantly obvious, and they will blatantly regard women as "sexual commodities" for men to price and purchase. So, they came up with all kinds of high-sounding reasons, and various versions of the virgin love conclusion gradually appeared. Let's analyze them one by one.

What is the difference between a virgin and a non-virgin?

The man's genitals must be a sacred instrument with boundless power. The moment it enters the virgin's body, a magical white light fills the room, and the virgin transforms into another species - the evil non-virgin. .

The popular science about the hymen has been talked about every day and night, and you will be bored if I talk about it again... In short, it is a cliché: physiologically, even doctors cannot confirm whether a mature woman is a virgin or not.

What about psychologically? Some people claim that their virginity complex stems from "like women who are innocent and shy in bed", and even jokingly or viciously express their inability to accept women who are "sexually experienced" and "have long lost their sense of shame". ——I just want to say, if it is true as you said, virgins are destined to be shy, and "mature women" are destined to be bold, then don't you have to change to a new shy virgin every once in a while?

"Non-virgins are more likely to have sexually transmitted diseases and a history of abortion." This argument may sound more reliable, but if you think about it for a moment, you will find that its magical concept of secret exchange is no different from certain positions based on the physical differences between men and women. The reason for not recruiting female employees is that men are statistically stronger than women, but this does not mean that every man is stronger than every woman. If a position involves high physical exertion, the applicant should be recruited As an important test item, using gender as a threshold is not only succumbing to gender stereotypes, but also a lazy approach. In the same way, if you are concerned about sexually transmitted diseases and infertility, you should ask the other person to "have no sexually transmitted diseases and be fertile" instead of asking about the other person's sexual life history. What's more, as long as there are no post-operative complications such as inflammation that may lead to infertility, and if any are cured in time, abortion will not cause infertility. It is an extremely irresponsible approach to highly link abortion with infertility.

As for those who believe in inheritance from their fathers, and those who claim that "a woman will remember the man who took her first night away for the rest of her life", I have been refuting the rumors on the Internet for so many years that I think there is no need for me to elaborate here.

Netizens advise customer service on virginity complex

You can think about it from another angle. Both men and women are fair. In fact, she is no longer a virgin. This problem is also very painful in her heart. No matter how she turns out to be a virgin, she will be tortured by you. She loves you, and of course she wants to give you the best of herself, but there are some things that cannot be regretted. Since it has happened, she will naturally regret it. If you love her, I hope you will not impose it on her again. Psychological pressure is good. In fact, in love, as long as she is loyal when she is with you, she will be a good woman. When she is with you, she will not betray you or cater to your ideas. In the future, such a woman will also know how to reflect on her own mistakes. She must be a good woman. A gentle and virtuous girl. Precisely if you are a virgin, they do not know how to cherish your love, do not know how to honor their parents, and are very willful and have a bad temper. I have met some virgins who feel that they will suffer. No matter whether you are a virgin or not, you will Reason is good to them, and their willfulness is truly without hesitation, because women who don't understand and suffer from pain rarely mature.