When men and women are in love, they always try their best to disguise themselves, create a good image and good demeanor, and use all their advantages to get the other person’s likes. They also try their best to love each other by any means. To cover up your shortcomings and shortcomings.

And after this kind of fake and unreal interaction, once the two people receive the legal "paper" and become husband and wife, when they begin to perform their duties and obligations as husband and wife, the real-life conflicts will arise. Laiaoshao began to "play music" non-stop, slowly evolving from a ballad at the beginning to a "symphony" and finally to "rock music". During the collision, each other's true faces and all their shortcomings were revealed little by little. This in-depth understanding of the other person's personality, hobbies, strengths and weaknesses is like the first snow in winter. It has come too late. By the time it is truly discovered that the other person is not an ideal spouse in terms of sex and personality, it is already done.

Women are the biggest winners of "trial marriage"

Now this issue seems to have resonated with everyone. The word "entrusted to non-human beings" can be used to describe those people who enter the 'sieged city' and are dissatisfied with their marriages. Trial marriage can help avoid this reason. The pain caused by blindness before marriage reduces the divorce rate, so many young people who plan to get married are not sure what to do. In order to avoid the pain that this "fake" marriage may cause, they choose "trial marriage" and live a "conjugal life" in advance. ", "run-in" in advance to test whether the other person is your best "partner" from sexual and all aspects. "Trial marriage" will also determine whether to get married again. This behavior reflects the progress of society and the harmony of human nature.

Some people say that "trial marriage" is actually just a new way for men to play with women. In fact, this is not the case. If you think about it carefully, trial marriages, hidden marriages, flash marriages... these have become symbols of the individual liberation of young people in modern society. For thousands of years, although the status of men and women has gone through many ups and downs, when it comes to marriage, family, and especially sex, men have always been the strong ones and women have always been the weak ones. In ancient times, men could have three wives and four concubines. Men can divorce their married couples at will, while women can only resign themselves to fate, marry a chicken and follow the chicken, marry a dog and follow the dog. It seems that they have no right to choose when it comes to love, family and sex. In today's society, men and women are equal, and sexual concepts have also undergone earth-shaking changes. The problems between men and women that were once "like a mess that was always cut and sorted out" have now been resolved in the popular "trial marriage" A new explanation is given, that is, "trial marriage", which also means that in today's society, women can also choose men at will. In "trial marriage", women will become the biggest beneficiaries.

Some people say that society has entered the "cohabitation era". On the basis of establishing a relationship, men and women can directly determine whether the relationship can last long and whether the marriage can be maintained through sex. In fact, the "cohabitation era" is just a synonym for sexual freedom, but "trial marriage", which is more socially moral than "cohabitation", has the same sexual issues as "cohabitation", and also has sexual freedom and sexual choice. This 'sexual matching' 's theory is reasonable. Trial marriage can avoid personality incompatibility. "As the saying goes: Marriage is like shoes, only your feet know whether they are comfortable or not. In marriage, sex is also a very important safety factor. A harmonious sex life and a harmonious marriage are coordinated with each other, just like the two ends of the scale. They need It is a balance between the two, that is, both must be harmonious, otherwise the marriage will face crisis. In "trial marriage", women really have the same right to choose as men, whether in sex or other aspects. Women are the biggest beneficiaries. Of course, this problem does not mean that men do not benefit from trial marriage and are the victims. I think this is actually a win-win behavior, but compared with the past and the old concept, Women may be the biggest winner and the biggest beneficiary in this behavior. After all, the history is different, and the conditions are different! Furthermore, of course, most men and women in trial marriage are in the physiological maturity stage. Although sex is a natural attribute of human beings, Trial marriage should not be carried out blindly. Trial marriage must be based on the relationship between the man and the woman and the intention to get married. If both parties have no sense of responsibility for trial marriage, it is no different from "cohabitation" or "multi-night stand". It will also lead to sexual indulgence and overflowing, which violates human social attributes.

Trial marriage is feasible in theory, but in reality, trial marriage must not only break through old ideological restrictions, And be very careful, whether you are a man or a woman, because you should expect different results before the trial marriage, and you have to make different choices for different results. These different choices may bring you happiness, or maybe It will bring you greater sorrow, so some people say, don’t bet on your own happiness easily! Some experts once said: "Trial marriage must first have a healthy mentality. The correct approach is to establish a sexual life based on emotion. If a man and a woman have a deep relationship and a clear understanding of the relationship between the sexes, a trial marriage may not be a bad idea. If it is just to satisfy sexual needs without feelings, the outcome of the trial marriage is self-evident. ”

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