It is not easy for husband and wife to stay together, but as time goes by, love, desire and passion will gradually become dull, and the relationship between husband and wife will go to two extremes, one is a happy family, and the other is on the road to divorce. In fact, in the relationship between the sexes, whether the husband and wife live a happy life can be reflected by three things in bed.

What three things in bed will tell you whether your married life is happy?

1. Don’t use the same quilt

When husband and wife do not share the same quilt, their relationship begins to drift apart. Almost all newlyweds are inseparable and hold hands no matter where they go. However, as time goes by, this relationship will gradually fade and become accustomed to it. Especially after having children, all the thoughts will be devoted to the children, resulting in couples Feelings fade.

2. Not sleeping on the same end

Three years before marriage, both men and women can remember important dates such as wedding anniversaries. However, as the pressure of life and work increases, they gradually stop paying attention to these, do not sleep on the same side, and the relationship between husband and wife declines. Or become increasingly rusty.

3. No more sharing the same bed

When a couple no longer sleeps in the same bed, it means that the relationship has become completely rigid, and may even turn into living in separate places, and eventually embark on the road to divorce.

How to maintain a long and happy marriage?

1. Be more tolerant and less blaming

No one is perfect, and no one is perfect. After getting married, some bad habits are bound to be revealed. But you can't blame and complain about each other, and you can't magnify each other's mistakes infinitely. This will not only hurt feelings but also lower the happiness index. Husbands and wives should be more tolerant. The more tolerance they have, the stronger the relationship between husband and wife will be. You can't just hold on to your shortcomings. Since you have chosen the other party, you should accept his imperfections and then gradually integrate and communicate.

2. Appreciate more, dislike less

A happy marriage is indispensable for the other party's praise. Don't be stingy with your own praise. Discover the shining points of the other party, encourage his attempts, learn to praise and affirm the other party. Maybe a word of affirmation or a smile will make the other party intoxicated.

3. Communicate more

A happy marriage is full of joy and laughter. The biggest fear between couples is the lack of communication. If they do not express their inner thoughts, the other party will not be able to understand them. Only by communicating more can couples get closer to each other, and by sharing their inner thoughts more can they understand each other better. This is also an effective way to resolve conflicts.

4. Pay more

The most subtle thing in interpersonal relationships is the lack of response to efforts. Over time, resentment and estrangement will arise, and the same is true between husband and wife. Men and women are equal in marriage and cannot blindly take without giving. This will break the balance and even lead to divorce. In a happy married life, the rewards are equal to the sacrifices. The more you give, the more true love you can get.

5. Spend more time with me

People often say that marriage needs to go through the 7-year itch. Two people stay together and accompany each other carefully. For example, one party can be patiently enlightened when he is in a bad mood, and one needs to be patiently taken care of when one party is sick. Accompanying each other with true love and trust every day will make your marriage happier.

Warm reminder

There are many ways for couples to express their feelings, mainly through trivial things in the family. A happy marriage requires two people to work together and work hard. They should communicate more and not just criticize and care about each other. As long as both men and women make continuous efforts in marriage, they can make a dull marriage long-lasting and stable.