Love between the sexes is an innate ability, but whether love lasts depends on many factors. Sex is a pleasant and enjoyable thing, but this does not mean that you can do whatever you want and there are no taboos. There are some things that it is best not to do during sex, otherwise it will destroy harmony, affect feelings, and even cause sexual frigidity.

1. Don’t compare your lover with others. When two people are affectionate, never make comparisons, such as "You have a very good figure, only a little worse than a certain movie star", "Among the people I know, you are the best"...even if you are sincerely complimenting the other person , if it is of a comparative nature, it can easily cause misunderstandings, making the other person feel that you are thinking of someone else during sex, which will make you feel awkward.

2. Don’t just focus on sexual intercourse and ignore emotional communication. Sex is inseparable from life and requires a good emotional foundation. If two people do not have any emotional communication and only want to obtain pleasure through sexual stimulation, not only will it be difficult to achieve climax, but they will also doubt each other's purpose and become increasingly repelled by sex.

3. Don’t be superstitious about pornographic movies. Learning sexual skills or theories from pornography is inherently wrong. Most of the pornographic movies and TV dramas use exaggerated and deductive methods, which can only be used as a spice for sexual life. If they are imitated blindly, it is likely to be counterproductive, reduce sexual desire, and cause sexual frigidity in women.

4. Never do two things at once. Even though you are having a romantic relationship with the other person, you still have to look at your phone, watch TV, and even think about working from time to time. When the other person is affectionate, such behavior is easily discovered, which can discourage the other person and even lead to quarrels.

5. Don’t act reluctantly or even force the other party. Some couples reluctantly have sex when one partner is in a bad mood. Not only do they lose the harmony of their sexual life, but they also cause resentment to the partner who is in a bad mood. If this happens repeatedly, it will lead to sexual frigidity in the woman or impotence in the man.

Eight black sex moments that you must guard against

A wonderful sex life makes people look forward to it, but if the timing is not good, it may be counterproductive and even endanger your health. For example, when both parties or one party are in a bad physical or emotional state, it may affect the quality of sexual life. What needs special attention is that there are eight black sex times, which must be avoided as much as possible.

One is after drinking. Drinking alcohol, especially drinking a large amount of hard alcohol, can cause the man's penis to become weak or cause premature ejaculation, hindering a harmonious sexual life, and getting pregnant after drinking can endanger the fetus. A survey found that drunken sex is also one of the important causes of sudden death.

The second is the menstrual period. At this time, the cervix is ​​open and it is very easy to get infected during sexual intercourse, leading to inflammation of the uterus or appendages. Studies have also found that during menstrual intercourse, women's menstrual secretions enter the male urethra, which can cause urethral irritation in men. Therefore, avoiding sexual intercourse during menstruation can effectively reduce the chance of reproductive organ infection.

The third is illness. When you are sick, the body's resistance is low and sexual sensitivity is reduced, which affects the quality of sexual life. Especially when you are suffering from infectious diseases, you should not have sex, otherwise you will not only suffer from it, but also pass it on to your loved ones.

The fourth is when you are tired. Sexual life requires a certain amount of physical strength and energy. When you are mentally or physically exhausted, sexual intercourse often fails to reach a climax and cannot achieve satisfactory results for both parties. Especially having sex immediately after exertion will damage your health.

Fifth, when you are in an unhappy mood. Some couples reluctantly have sex when one partner is in a bad mood. Not only do they lose the harmony of their sexual life, but they also make the partner who is in a bad mood resentful. If it happens repeatedly, it will lead to sexual frigidity in the woman or impotence in the man.

Sixth, when you are too full or hungry. Because the gastrointestinal tract is full and congested due to full meals, the blood supply to the brain and other organs of the body is relatively insufficient, so it is not suitable to have sex just after eating; when people are hungry, their physical strength decreases and they are not energetic. Sexual life is often difficult to achieve satisfactory results.

Seventh is postpartum. If you have sexual intercourse too early after delivery, it is easy to cause poor uterine involution and uterine bleeding. A survey shows that nearly 40% of women have sex for the first time after giving birth too hastily, which casts a shadow on their future sex life. Generally speaking, sexual life can be gradually resumed after 6-8 weeks postpartum.

Eight is before dawn. If neither party gets adequate rest, it will cause the body's balance to become imbalanced and reduce resistance; both parties will also suffer from excessive fatigue, which will affect work and study efficiency.