The secret of girls having premarital sex
Someone conducted a survey on unmarried girls who became pregnant and underwent artificial abortion and found that those who have premarital sex mainly have the following typical psychology:
Psychology of passionate love: The two have gone from first love to passionate love, and their relationship is like a glue, with the feeling that "one day without seeing each other is like three autumns apart".
Love reaches a fever pitch, and once the vows are made, sex will follow. Although this kind of girl feels shy about having an abortion, she does not feel empty or depressed. She even thinks that this is a selfless dedication to her boyfriend.
Pandering psychology: These girls believe that their boyfriends have better conditions than themselves in all aspects. When their boyfriends make sexual demands, for fear of losing them, they silently agree and cater to them.
Possessive psychology: This kind of girl thinks that her boyfriend is good, and at the same time, other girls are competitive with her. In order not to lose in the competition, she has sex, creating a fait accompli and achieving the purpose of possession. Kissing scenes, sexual descriptions in novels, and sexy photos and portraits in illustrated magazines should enhance their immunity, cultivate a correct aesthetic consciousness, and help them extract the essence and discard the dross. Girls should cherish, respect, love, and strengthen themselves when in contact with the opposite sex, firmly build up psychological defense, eliminate distracting thoughts, and devote themselves to learning energetically.
Once premarital sex and unmarried pregnancy occur, parents, schools, and units must use correct education and help methods. They must not discriminate, ridicule, ridicule, or scold them. They should avoid increasing their mental trauma; they must respect them. Personality, from the perspective of love, help and sympathy, persuade them to learn lessons. Medical staff must establish good medical ethics and have a compassionate attitude of treating illnesses and saving people and being kind to others. Only when the entire society is mobilized can we reduce and eliminate the abnormal phenomena of premarital sex and unmarried pregnancy, enable teenagers to successfully pass through the dangerous period of adolescence, and enable them to develop and grow healthily physically and mentally.