The marriage age of men in the Chinese palace is generally no more than 18 years old, and most of them are between 13 and 17 years old. Almost all emperors, young emperors, and princes have visited women before they officially got married, and they have skilled skills. sexual experience, and some have even given birth to children.

The foolish emperor of the Western Jin Dynasty, Sima Zhong, Emperor Hui of Jin, got married at the age of 13 when he was the prince. Before Sima Zhong got married, his father, Emperor Wu of Jin, Sima Yan, sent Xie Jiu, a talented harem man, to the East Palace to teach the prince personally and let the prince Knows about men's and women's houses. Xie Jiu was pregnant when she left the prince's east palace. Xie Jiu later gave birth to a son in another palace. A few years later, Prince Sima Zhong saw a child in his parents' palace. Emperor Wu of Jin told him that this was his son. He was very surprised. Similarly, Emperor Wencheng of the Northern Wei Dynasty Tuoba Jun got married at the age of 17, but when he was 13 he had just entered puberty and was blessed with a palace maid, and he became a father at the age of 14.

The palace of the Qing Dynasty clearly stipulated that before the emperor's wedding, eight older and good-looking maids from the palace would be selected for the emperor to attend. These eight palace maids all have status, and from then on they become women with status in the palace. They receive a monthly salary and no longer work like other ordinary palace ladies. Therefore, this mission has always been looked forward to by the palace maids, hoping to escape from the sea of ​​suffering and reach the sky in one step. The titles of these eight palace ladies are usually based on the four professional titles of female officials in the palace, namely, master of ceremonies, door secretary, dormitory secretary, and account secretary. The purpose of this regulation in the palace of the Qing Dynasty was to enable the emperor to gain some experience in sexual intercourse between men and women before marriage, so that he would not be embarrassed and panicked when living with the queen, and could take his time. Which women did the emperor have sex with before marriage? This has not been stipulated in the Chinese courts of past dynasties, and it cannot be stipulated. It all depends on the emperor's personal whim. For the young emperor, sexual issues made him nervous, and he was still in a state of enlightenment without taboos. In this state, it is easy to be provoked or impulsive, and it is also easy to have sexual relations with the women around you. The prince lives in the East Palace. After the crowning ceremony, the prince was regarded as an adult. Without the emperor's edict, the prince was not allowed to enter and leave the harem at will to prevent getting involved with the harem concubines. The prince had no scruples in the East Palace and could do whatever he wanted. He could molest any of the maids at will and have sex with any of them.

In terms of possibility, who was the young emperor or prince's first sexual experience with a woman? Will this woman become a queen or a concubine? This is really difficult to answer accurately. Anyone can become the emperor's first woman, and she usually has a corresponding title after being lucky. But generally speaking, the first woman who is most likely to become the young emperor or prince is the maid next to them, and sometimes it is their wet nurse. The maids and wet nurses are both maids in the palace and have no status. If a palace maid is favored and favored, she will gain status, thereby changing her humble and low status. The wet nurse can enter and leave the palace freely. Even if she is lucky, her status as a wet nurse will never change and cannot be changed. People could not accept that the wet nurse who had nursed the emperor into adulthood could become the emperor's concubine, let alone the empress who was the queen of the world.

Psychologically speaking, the egocentric emperor has only shallow feelings for his first woman, which will not last long and will not be attached to her. This woman made the emperor shy and reminded him of his nervousness and timidity during his first sexual life. The emperor would never be at ease in front of her. The emperor would naturally avoid her in favor of other beauties.

Ming Shenzong Zhu Yijun was the third son of Ming Muzong. Zhu Yijun was established as prince when he was 5 years old, and became emperor when he was 10 years old. When he was 17 years old, Zhu Yijun passed by Cining Palace and saw the queen of the palace. He was so excited that he couldn't control himself, so Zhu Yijun visited her. From then on, Mrs. Wang became pregnant. Of course, such an important event was recorded by the eunuch accompanying her, and the diary could also be checked. However, after being impulsive, Zhu Yijun did not like Mrs. Wang, and no longer visited her, nor did he care about her. . This matter was learned by the Empress Dowager Cisheng. The Empress Dowager, who was eager to have her grandson, took care of Wang. Wang gave birth to a son successfully in the palace. Once, the Queen Mother excitedly told Shenzong about the incident, but Shenzong reacted indifferently and pretended not to hear. Due to Shenzong's indifference, the Wang family had no hope of canonizing concubines, and the son born to the Wang family was also innocently ignored.

But in history, there are exceptions for the emperor and his first woman, such as Ming Xianzong Zhu Jianshen and the palace maid Wanshi. Wan entered the palace and became a maid when she was four years old. Wan initially served in the palace of Yingzong's mother, Queen Mother Sun. Yingzong was the father of Xianzong Zhu Jianshen. After Wan entered adolescence, she became more and more delicate and beautiful. In addition, she was smart, good at observing people's words, and served the Queen Mother with considerate care. Therefore, she was favored by the Queen Mother and became the Queen Mother's confidant and constant companion. Xianzong Zhu Jianshen was the eldest son of Yingzong, born in the twelfth year of Zhengtong. Two years later, Yingzong was captured in Tumubao, and the Queen Mother ordered Zhu Jianshen to be crowned prince. Emperor Daizong Zhu Qiyu came to the throne. In the third year of Jingtai's reign, Zhu Jianshen was deposed as King Yi. After Yingzong was restored to the throne, he was established as the crown prince. This year, Zhu Jianshen was 18 years old.

Eight years later, Yingzong died, and Zhu Jianshen became emperor and became Xianzong of the Ming Dynasty. As early as when Xianzong was the prince, the Queen Mother sent her confidant Wan Shi to serve the prince. The eldest prince of the Wan family is 18 years old. The prince grew up day by day under the care of the palace maid Wan, who was about the same age as his wet nurse, and gradually grew into a handsome young man. The extremely clever Li Wan didn't know when, where or how to seduce the young prince. The two had sexual relations, and the prince couldn't extricate himself from this. The prince was attached to Wanshi and could not live without Wanshi. Wanshi became the sustenance of his life. In addition to emotional and sexual needs, young Zhu Jianshen also has docility and awe for Wan. Zhu Jianshen ascended the throne at the age of 18, and Wan was already 36 years old. Zhu Jianshen, who is in his prime of youth, still dotes on Wan, a middle-aged woman. He gave her the title and became a noble concubine. Concubine Wan Gui was so arrogant that she roamed the palace. She bossed around the harem and used cruel methods to cause other pregnant women to abort. Everyone in the palace was afraid of her. After Wan Guifei reached old age, Xianzong still loved her unfailingly. When Concubine Wan Gui was 58 years old, she beat a palace maid angrily. Because of her obesity, she shut up and never woke up. After hearing the news, Xianzong was heartbroken and sighed: Concubine Wan Gui is gone, how long can I live? Within a few months, Xianzong died with Concubine Wan Gui in depression and sorrow at the age of 40.

Both were emperors of the Ming Dynasty, why did the Wang family and Wan family have such different fates? The two are of similar appearance, and the status of the palace maid is also the same. It can be logically speculated that it may be due to the emperor's feelings in sexual life, whether it is happiness, fear or pain. Wang is completely passive. She has nothing to do. It goes without saying that she is scared and nervous, not to mention that she can make Shenzong relax. Wan's case was different. She had watched Xianzong grow up and knew everything about him. Wan's family was 18 years old, equivalent to his mother. Wan's maturity, charm, calmness and long-term cultivated attachment and affection will naturally make Xianzong feel relaxed, comfortable and happy in his sexual experience. Therefore, the Wang family and her son were ignored, while the Wan family had no heirs but still favored the harem and was named a noble concubine.

The Wan family was just equivalent to Xianzong's wet nurse, but there were also historical incidents of real wet nurses having sexual relations with the nursing emperor. This was Emperor Xizong Tianqi of the Ming Dynasty and his wet nurse Hakka. According to historical data, the wet nurse Hakka had a sexual relationship with Emperor Tianqi. The Hakka family was famous for being promiscuous in the palace of the Ming Dynasty. How could she let the young emperor go? Her relationship with Emperor Tianqi is different from the relationship between a wet nurse and an adopted son. From the following historical records and analysis, we can see that the relationship between the Hakka family and Emperor Tianqi is unusual. From the encounter, we can conclude that the Hakka family was the first to seduce the weak Emperor Tianqi. Until Emperor Tianqi died at the age of 23, the two had an ambiguous relationship.

First of all, Hakka nursed Emperor Tianqi and raised him day by day. Generally speaking, after the emperor grows up in the palace, the wet nurse's responsibilities have been fulfilled, and the emperor no longer needs to spend time with the wet nurse day and night, but the Hakka family is different. According to history, he entered the Nuan Pavilion of Qianqing Palace in Emperor Tianqi's palace every morning to serve Emperor Tianqi, and did not return to his own palace, Xian'an Palace, until after midnight. If it is said that the wet nurse takes care of the emperor, it is not necessary and it is superfluous. The emperor has grown up and has many servants in the palace, so why does he need a wet nurse? If it is said that the Hakka family is out of love, like a mother, she has to watch over the young emperor every day and guard him to feel at ease, then this contradicts the next fact - the Hakka family later had an affair with Wei Zhongxian, and one day , she and Wei Zhongxian were drinking happily in Taiye Pond, their love was as tender as water. Not far away, Emperor Tianqi, who was climbing a tree to catch an island, suddenly fell, his clothes were torn, and his face was bleeding. However, Hakka remained indifferent and continued to chat and joke with her lover Wei Zhongxian. At this time, whether Hakka is a wet nurse or claims to be a loving mother, she is derelict in her duties, and it is obvious that Hakka is neither.

Secondly, Hakka's beauty and enchantment never regarded herself as a wet nurse or a loving mother in front of Emperor Tianqi, but a lively woman who longed to be favored. It is said in history that even when she was in her forties, Hakka's complexion was still that of a twenty-eight-year-old beauty. , and she is fashionably dressed, and her beauty and clothing are extremely inconsistent with her age and status. But the beauty and coquettishness of the Hakka family were so astonishing that even the young palace maids and concubines could not match her, and all of them were just dumbfounded. It is said that in order to maintain her beauty and stay youthful forever, Hakka always combed her hair with the saliva of young palace maids to keep her hair black and shiny. The cloud-like hair undoubtedly adds charm and makes the woman more charming and passionate. Such a woman shows off her charm in front of the emperor and serves him day and night. She is no longer a wet nurse.

Thirdly, as the wet nurse of Emperor Tianqi, the Hakka family was so jealous that they killed several concubines who had been favored by Emperor Tianqi. The most pitiable among them was Concubine Zhang Yu, who became pregnant after Emperor Tianqi's visit. When she was about to give birth, Hakka ordered Concubine Zhang Yu to be cut off from all food and drink, and no one was sent to deliver the baby. As a result, on a stormy night, Concubine Chang Yu was so hungry and thirsty that she dragged her heavy body and crawled under the eaves to collect rainwater to quench her thirst. Finally, she cried and died of hunger and cold. In addition to Concubine Zhang Yu, there were three princes and two princesses, all of whom unfortunately died due to the abuse of the Hakka family. As for how many palace maids who had been blessed by the emperor or who had just become pregnant were mutilated by the Hakka family, I'm afraid it's not a small number. How is this different from the concubines fighting for favor and killing each other in the harems of past dynasties? If Hakka was just the emperor's wet nurse, she could take advantage of the emperor's glory to dominate the countryside and make her family prosperous, but there was no need to disrupt the harem and hate the emperor's concubines and beauties.

Finally, the Hakka family has a close relationship with the Wei Dynasty and Wei Zhongxian. Keshi is a woman with strong sexual desire. Wei Chao and Wei Zhongxian were the two leaders of the eunuchs. They may not have done enough cleansing before entering the palace, so they could still deal with it in bed for a while. After the Hakka family found out, they first had an affair with the eunuch leader Wei Chao. Later, the Hakka family learned that Wei Zhongxian had strong blood and stronger sexual function than the Wei Dynasty, so the Hakka family turned to Wei Zhongxian without hesitation. This transfer of feelings of the Hakka family was not carried out quietly, but blatantly, causing uproar in the palace. How could the eunuch of the Hakka family be indifferent to the young emperor who cared for her so much? Moreover, it is said in history that the Hakka people often cooked sub-whips called dragon eggs and offered them to Emperor Tianqi to replenish his yang energy. The purpose of nourishing it should of course be to benefit oneself. How could it be to let Emperor Tianqi control more concubines and beauties? Have more children? Take it away and kill it again? None of this makes sense. Only when Emperor Tianqi and the Hakka family have a sexual relationship can all this be explained clearly. Despite this, the Hakka family was not as lucky as Concubine Wan Guifei, who gained a title and entered the ranks of the emperor's official concubines.