The difference between a one-night stand and a lifelong relationship
The frequent occurrence of one-night stands has brought troubles to men and women in life. No one wants their partners to have such problems, and they want to effectively avoid the occurrence of one-night stands. Regarding the differences and psychological feelings between one-night stands and lifelong relationships, we now Let’s take a closer look together!
Among the men and women who try "one-night stand", some of them are purely out of sexual instinct, and some are out of the psychology of making friends, eager to find love through the fast-food style of "one-night stand". destination. No matter how many definitions of love people have, one thing is common, and that is eternity. Of course, this time is not necessarily the time for two people to get along, but more of a psychological time.
If a man watches a pornographic video, even if he is passionate about women, his way of getting to know women is still very single. In addition to classmates, colleagues, or through introductions by others. Obviously, these methods are very inconvenient because they are all acquaintances. For example, a man's goal is to find a woman to sleep with, have sex with, and then break up with. However, it is obviously unwise to have a "one-night stand" with a woman introduced by an acquaintance. It will produce many sequelae and make it difficult for men to escape. For example, after a one-night stand, a woman has a child; another example is a woman discovering that the diamond ring a man gave her worth thousands of dollars was fake and cost less than ten dollars.
Some people may ask, is there no other way for a man to have a one-night stand with a strange woman after watching the pornographic video? Of course there are. For example, when walking on the street, a man can follow the woman he likes and propose making friends at the appropriate opportunity. This kind of strange visit is actually very dangerous. If the other party is a virtuous woman, then the man has no chance. If the other party is a chaste and fierce woman, then the man is likely to be slapped hard by the other party and given the word "rogue" for free. If the other party is a female police officer wearing plainclothes, then the man is completely screwed.
The ideal situation, of course, is that the woman being stalked is also desperate for a one-night stand. But even so, the woman will definitely act like a lady, coquettishly dragging the man to a restaurant for a big meal, then going to a jewelry store to buy some necklaces, and then going to a shopping mall to buy some sets of fashionable clothes. From this point of view, it is very risky for a man to engage in a "one-night stand" through strange visits on the street. Even if he meets the most ideal woman, he will spend money like water, increasing the cost of having a "one-night stand".
Modern society advocates frugality, simplicity is beauty, and you don’t want to be extravagant about everything, and the part-time job of "one-night stand" is no exception. But fortunately, modern technology has created good opportunities for engaging in "one-night stands" at the lowest cost. In modern society, the channels and methods for men and women to contact each other are changing with each passing day, such as online chatting.
The biggest advantage of online chatting is that men and women can talk about "one-night stands" relatively quickly when they are unfamiliar with each other. Even if there are some sanctimonious opening remarks or necessary falsehood transitions, it is very fast and the cost is very low. It is nothing like farting. The cost is comparable. If the chat quickly leads to a one-night stand, then the next step is to set up a time and place. Of course, if necessary, the two parties can also look at each other's image or discuss the expenses incurred before meeting, so as to avoid being too disappointed in the "one-night stand", or even having disputes over the expenses and fighting, turning the "one-night stand" into a "one-night stand" hurt".
If a strange man and woman find true love through a "one-night stand" and they are indelible in each other's hearts, then even if they are separated after one night, the love will still exist in their hearts forever. But this situation is relatively rare and almost non-existent.
Abide by the rules of conduct that you should abide by is to be responsible for others, and it is also responsible for yourself.