From the moment a woman steps into marriage, she hopes to stay with her significant other until the end of her life. Every woman longs for a perfect and successful marriage, but a successful marriage is not something you wait for, nor is it given by a man. It is managed by the woman's own hands and wisdom. Here are some experiences for reference only.

1. Grasp the economic lifeline:

Most men are not good at financial management, so the burden of financial management naturally falls on women’s shoulders. Grasping the economic lifeline can not only effectively eliminate unnecessary Economic waste can also prevent men from cheating to a certain extent. It is difficult for men to pick up girls outside without money. Even though many young girls keep saying that they like the maturity and humor of married men, if these married men are Take away all the money you have, and your maturity and humor will become nothing but flowers in the mirror and moon in the water, which is meaningless. But there is a question of degree here. After all, a man needs to socialize outside, and he should be given some pocket money if he is moderate. Don't make him too shabby, otherwise he will still think of many ways.

2. Give men some space:

This is a commonplace topic. Although almost every article about how women manage marriage will mention this, many women still do it. No, I don't understand the meaning of this sentence at all. I often hear women say: I gave all my heart and soul to my husband, why did he betray me? When Mouse hears this, his whole body and mind feels particularly scary. If a woman throws all her body and mind into a man, this man will actually be very depressed despite being happy. A woman’s excessive love will make this man feel Out of breath. Many men will encounter this situation: when the work unit organizes dinners, they always have to ask for leave from their wives, but some people have to trouble their boss to ask for leave on their behalf because his family is very strict and his wife will never allow him to eat out. This kind of love from women actually becomes a kind of shackles or pressure for men, and the consequences of this are quite terrible. A woman has her own parents, her own sisters, her own classmates, her own friends, and her own colleagues. She can spread her energy to these people instead of focusing all her energy on her husband. This specific method is: give a man some space in an appropriate manner. For example, if he wants to drink with his buddies or attend a work dinner, or go to karaoke with friends, or go to self-driving with friends, let him go and control the space. That’s it.

3. Use nagging with caution:

When women are in love, they like to tell their boyfriends some happy things about themselves. Although they talk a lot at that time, their boyfriends love to hear them. After marriage, the little girl who always talked about happy things disappeared, and was replaced by an old aunt who always talked about troublesome things. After talking about those troublesome things, the woman became mentally relaxed, while the man became depressed and often listened to those troublesome things. , many men are scared to go home. Women should pay attention to this consciously. Men also have psychological needs. When men are unhappy, women should put aside their troubles first and talk about something happy to make their men happy. Only in this way will it be easier for them. Achieve mutual understanding.

4. Let men participate in family life:

Many women always say: For so many years, I have been the only one doing housework and taking care of my parents-in-law. I take care of the children all by myself. Mouse has to admire the kindness and endurance of these women, but have you ever thought that the men cultivated in this way, in addition to male chauvinism, also say that their wives are yellow-faced women

Obviously, those Men who have not participated in family life will not appreciate this. If some women meet men who are very conscious, of course it is best. If not, then women need to take the initiative to leave some housework to men, and don't listen to those social excuses. Women are not nannies or slaves. In family life, men and women have equal rights to participate. There is no question of who takes care of whom, who serves whom, and who serves whom. Of course, some men may say: If a man puts all his energy into these things, then who will make money and who will handle the company's major affairs. The mouse tells you that men who socialize and work overtime every night, other than using official duties as an excuse to spend the day and night outside, are those who don’t know what to do all day long.

No big deal is more important than eating. If you don’t believe it, you can try it. The company can not operate for ten days. You can try it without eating for ten days. With a stable family, a man will have more energy to do good things outside. Don't be afraid that doing some housework in moderation will affect your man's energy. A man who is truly a hero outside will be as willing to obey his wife's orders as a kitten when he comes home.

5. Don’t ignore your husband because of your children:

Some people say that children are the third party in marriage, so many people choose DINK. After having children, many women give all their energy and all their love to their children due to physical and psychological changes. The eldest boy in the family and the father of the child can only share some love from his wife after the child is asleep. . There is nothing wrong with women taking care of children, but don’t forget that your man also has a share in this child, he also needs to give his love, and your man, you also need to give love, don’t favor one over the other, let The man felt left out. This can easily make him fall in love with someone else. Remember, when you have kids, don’t ignore the big boy in the family.

6. Speak frankly about your needs:

After marriage, many women say that their men are becoming less and less attentive to them. Before marriage, he knew how to give to her without saying anything. Create some surprises, but after marriage, you find that he is less and less romantic. In fact, the truth is very simple. If a man is not a family member to you before marriage, he will naturally try his best to please you, and you also need to use some methods to test him.

After marriage, he and you become a family, and love turns into family affection and habits. If you do it again like before, some men will feel nauseous. Another more important reason is that marriage After that, men put more energy into work and making money. They hope to give their women the happiness they think by making more money. So in this case, if a woman uses hints and insinuations, these methods sometimes don't work that well. At this time, women need to speak frankly about their needs. If you don’t speak out, your man will think you are very happy. When you speak out frankly, most men will be willing to do it. After all, they love themselves. Women's, it's just that they are misaligned with women in their understanding of happiness.

The happiness that women need is careful care based on material foundation. Married men believe that as long as they provide women with a generous material life, they will be happy. This is a misunderstanding. It’s not that the man has changed his mind, nor that he doesn’t love his woman anymore. I would like to advise those women who cheat because of this to look back in time. The extramarital affair man who talks sweetly to you is just trying to please you, which is fundamentally different from being nice to you. I am really good to you. If you want your husband, tell your husband if you want a birthday gift, tell your husband if you want to go shopping, and communicate with your husband if you want to have sex. If you really do this, you will find that your relationship will change a lot, and your life will become passionate and fulfilling.

7. Take on the heavy responsibility of creating romance:

Men will quickly return to their true nature after marriage, and the emotional intelligence that they have exerted for a long time in love becomes zero at this time, and A woman's emotional needs do increase as the time the two people spend together increases, which creates an imbalance. In fact, men also need romance, but most of the time they don’t know how to create it, or they have no time to think about it due to work pressure. At this time, if the woman can take the initiative to take on the important task of creating romance, the marriage will shine brightly.

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