Extramarital affairs, one-night stands, multiple-night stands, and other unfaithful behaviors to their wives have become the "fashion style" of these modern men. Although men are full of tricks, wives who have been on the battlefield for a long time can still catch the "clues" on their men. When a man cheats, he will tell you every trick!

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In the emotional urban drama, the cheating man is most afraid of answering the phone when he returns home. I have seen many scenes like this. When the phone rings, the male protagonist turns on the phone, takes a look at the number, and does not answer the call immediately. Instead, he often uses the excuse "It's really annoying and doesn't let people have a good rest after get off work", and then finds an opportunity to go to the balcony. Or secretly call back in the bathroom. Sometimes they don't call back, but they act upset, unable to sit or stand still, and grind around the room in circles. In the end, they are really at a loss and will beg their wives and say, "No, I have to go to work to have a look. There might be something urgent." After that, without waiting for his wife to answer, he quickly picked up his bag and went out. A man in this situation is 100% cheating. He is not going to work at work or company, but to meet his lover.

Jie is a warm-hearted man with many friends. Even after get off work, he is always called. In the past, when a call came in, he would answer it openly in the living room in front of his wife. Now he has changed and seems to be afraid of someone calling him. When the phone rings, he will look at the number absentmindedly. If it is a relative or friend, he will laugh and talk to the person as usual, with a natural expression. Sometimes, after taking a look at the number, his demeanor immediately changes, and he hurriedly turns off his phone while quietly glancing at his wife, obviously feeling something fishy. His wife may ask him who called him, but he will try to cover it up by saying, "It's a wrong call," or "It's from a colleague, and I don't want to interfere with his affairs," etc. In fact, the call was from his lover, asking him why he hadn't arrived at the hotel yet because they had made an appointment to have dinner together.

Women are very sensitive. In fact, they have already noticed this abnormal behavior of their husbands. In order to protect the family and herself, the wife has also thought a lot and done a lot of things, such as checking mobile phone call records, checking message messages, etc. But cheating husbands are very cunning. The most important thing they do before getting off work is to delete call records and messages with their lovers. Therefore, the wife's attempt to search for clues about her husband's affair through the phone was in vain and she could not get any clues.

Conversation: Hum ha haha

It is normal and necessary for husband and wife to communicate, talk about their concerns and talk about daily life. Only in this way can the couple be intimate, continuously consolidate their relationship, and maintain family harmony. The husband, in particular, is at the core and plays an important role in the communication process between husband and wife. Because some big and difficult things in the family require the husband to think of ways, make decisions, and make decisions. However, once men cheat, they become lazy, no longer care about family affairs, and do not deal with them. When his wife comes to talk to him about something, he will be absent-minded and speak ambiguously.

What once impressed my wife Ling the most was her husband Xin’s decisiveness when buying a house. That was three years ago. At that time, her family only had a deposit of 60,000 yuan. When many people were hesitant about high-priced buildings, Xin took a fancy to a building in the center of the city and decided to buy one without hesitation. He borrowed money from relatives and friends, added his own savings to pay the down payment for the house, and used the remaining balance as a provident fund loan. A year later, the value of his building doubled. For this reason, Ling received a lot of praise from acquaintances, saying that the couple was discerning. But in the past six months, Xin's personality has changed. He no longer cares about family affairs. When Ling talks to him, he just grunts and laughs, not caring at all. Ling once told him that the fund market was booming, and she planned to use her family savings to buy a fund. When she asked him for his opinion, he grunted for a long time without comment. Ling got so angry that she quarreled with him, but failed to buy the fund. If they had bought the fund at that time, the return would have been more than 30% and they could have earned more than 20,000 yuan. Because of Xin's weakness and indecisiveness, his family missed the opportunity to make money. After that, Ling fought with her husband many times, and their relationship became very tense. In fact, Ling was still in the dark about her husband's affairs. Xin was now involved with a young woman in the office next door. The two often had sex at noon, and he was not in the mood to take care of family affairs.

Most cheating men suddenly show indifference to family matters, with an indifferent attitude. The wife was extremely angry with her husband's changes and felt even more baffled. In fact, the husband's heart is no longer at home. He can no longer worry about all matters at home, and of course he will not give any opinions.

Spending money: digging and instigating

Love requires small favors. Even if they have been married for many years, the husband should often buy small gifts for his wife to make her happy and keep the relationship between the couple at a warm level, thereby avoiding boring family life and dissipating the passion between husband and wife. This is the husband's responsibility and obligation. However, if men have an affair, they will become stingy and rarely buy gifts for their wives. Because office men are not big bosses, their monthly salary is basically fixed and they rarely have extra money. He has to save money on his wife so that he can have more money to spend on his lover. The relationship between a man's money and his lover's body is: if he has a lot of money, he can keep a mistress, but if he doesn't have much money, he can find a lover. Office men belong to the latter. They don't have much money, so for their lovers, they are looking for temporary stimulation, playing with a mood, and wanting satisfaction. This depraved mentality of office men is stupid, pathetic, and irritating.

In the past few years, Feng often bought small gifts for his wife. Once, his wife said that she was a little constipated. After get off work, Feng went to the supermarket to choose an exquisite small bottle of honey for his wife, and even joked with her. It is said that "eating honey can cure constipation". When he is on a business trip, he is more concerned about buying gifts for his wife. He often carefully selects small jewelry, pendants, etc. for his wife in local specialty shops, which makes his wife emotional and warm every time. His wife once said angrily that he spent money indiscriminately, but Feng laughed and said that he should spend money on his wife. But in the past year, Feng has never bought any gifts for his wife, not even a bunch of candied haws. His wife also acted coquettishly and asked him what was going on many times. He replied that they were an old couple and were not in the mood to deal with it. Is he really in no mood? No. He still often buys small gifts, but not for his wife, but for his lover. Buy a bottle of perfume for your lover, and your lover will act coquettishly in his arms for a long time. What he wants is the kind of wild flower fragrance that makes your lover soft.

If you have thoughts in your heart, do small things. A cheating man no longer thinks much about his wife. The wife still expects her husband to miss her and give her gifts. Isn’t that wishful thinking and daydreaming? Small gifts and small favors reflect the purity and solidity of the relationship between husband and wife. Without these little things, the love between husband and wife will be compromised, and emotional crisis will lurk. If it is not handled well, sooner or later the couple will fall out of love and the family will fall apart.

Work: in a hurry

It is a virtue for a husband to do housework. Some men like to do housework, such as cooking, washing sheets, mopping the floor, etc. They love and care about their wives, and do not want their wives' weak bodies to bear too much pressure from housework. Their mantra is "My wife also makes money, so I have to do all the housework." But if a man has a lover outside, he will no longer be diligent, and housework will become a burden, or he will be reluctant to help his wife anymore. He would stare blankly at the TV, thinking about his lover. Even when his wife bothered him to do housework, he was always in a panic and made no fuss.

Ping first fell in love with Ma Bin because he was diligent and rushed to do everything in her house. He bought briquettes in the winter and tidied the yard in the summer. The neighbors around him said that Ma Bin was a good uncle. After getting married, Ma Bin was also the main housekeeper. When he went to work in the morning, he would carry the garbage bag downstairs; after dinner, he would carefully mop the floor twice, and the floor would be spotless; during the New Year, Ma Bin was even more thorough in planning and never Find housekeeping and do the cleaning yourself, and every corner of the room will be tidy. But since his child entered junior high school, Ma Bin has changed a lot. He is no longer so patient and careful in doing things. For example, when Ping asked him to visit his parents' house, he would forget eight times out of ten; for example, when Ping told him to wash the sheets in his son's room, he muddleheadedly took out the sheets that had just been changed in his own room and stuffed them into the washing machine. Ping often quarreled with him over these things. It was useless to argue, because Ma Bin's heart was already in chaos. He felt that there was no fun at home, and he was bored to death doing housework all day long. He only pretends to be a lover in his heart, and he wishes he could get tired of being with his lover every day. Home has become a drag and a burden to him. If possible, he really doesn't want this home. This is the performance of cheating men. They have no interest in doing housework. Even if they are forced to do it, they will do it perfunctorily.

The wife should always pay attention to her husband's attitude towards housework. If the husband is too abnormal and lazy, then he is probably in trouble outside. Because habits are developed over many years and are not affected by external factors or inner changes, some daily habits are difficult to change. The husband's sudden change in his habit of working can only prove the fluctuations and changes in his heart. Such fluctuations and changes are fatal and extremely destructive to maintaining family stability.

Behavior: Sneaky

Only when the husband behaves magnanimously can the family prosper. Because the husband’s behavior is aboveboard and aboveboard, which proves that he has thought things through and considered things clearly. This kind of calm behavior will not offend the interests of relatives or affect the relationship between friends. It will also give your family an upper hand in family status or reputation among friends and gain respect. However, if a man has an affair, he becomes very selfish and does not care about external affairs. The relationship between family members and friends is just a matter that can be strong or light, close or far to them. The woman outside became the center of his life. As the folk saying goes, persuading gambling cannot persuade prostitution (in a narrow sense, finding a lover is also prostitution). When a man is addicted to opium, it is like taking opium. He is addicted to it and cannot extricate himself. It is this kind of entanglement in the perverted mind that makes them very concerned about their own behavior, and at the same time suspicious and worried, feeling that there are always eyes around them staring at them. As a result, this kind of man no longer acts openly and openly, but becomes sneaky and cautious.

In the past, Mr. Zhao rarely went out on holidays. He usually stayed at home with his wife or supervised his son's studies. At that time, he felt that home was his safe island and happy place. In order to improve his food, he and his wife would go to the vegetable market early in the morning to buy vegetables. If relatives and friends invite a party, he will tell his wife clearly who will treat him, where he will treat him, what time he will be home, etc. He respects his wife very much and feels that what he does is responsible for his wife and family. But since he hooked up with the woman who worked in wholesale clothing a few months ago, his behavior has changed. He no longer accompanies his wife to the vegetable market, no longer patiently helps his son with his homework, and rarely participates in gatherings with relatives and friends. When he had time, he would avoid acquaintances and go to his mistress in a roundabout way to flirt with her in search of excitement.

Such a man thinks that finding a woman is a kind of comfort and a kind of chic. Because they work hard at home and gain the trust of their wives, the wives will never think of their husbands doing despicable things outside and having extramarital affairs. Wives should be a hundred times vigilant and never be deceived by so-called obedient men. They should keep their eyes open to see clearly and not be careless.

Bed affairs: So-so

The most direct way for a man to show his masculine charm is in bed. It is undeniable that after many years of marriage, both husband and wife's sexual needs have changed. Usually the husband's desire is stronger than that of the wife, and the wife is in a passive accepting position. But no matter how things change, men pursue sexual pleasure, while women need tender care. It can be said that high-quality sex is the most important content and the most effective means to keep the relationship between a couple pure and strong. In the couple’s years of constant exploration and understanding of bed matters,

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