Research has found that when one of the parties achieves something, whether they praise it in a timely manner or show indifference that it has nothing to do with them will directly determine the direction of the relationship between the couple. Art Allen, a social psychologist at Stony Brook University in the United States, said: "When something good happens to your lover, it is an excellent opportunity to enhance the relationship between husband and wife. Even if there is some crisis between you, Seize the opportunity to praise him and share your joy. Unless, of course, you have no intention of repairing your rift." Researchers have found that some men will do this when their girlfriends are depressed or suffer a major blow. Opt out, and when the woman succeeds, come back to gleefully share her excitement. Don't think that such a man is snobbish. In fact, this approach will make women feel satisfied. Similarly, when a man is frustrated, a woman does not need to blindly help him heal the wound. You must know that doing so will sometimes hurt his self-esteem. It's better to leave him a certain amount of space, and when he gets results, come back and encourage him. In most couples, the ratio of good news to bad news is at least 4:1. Shari Kabo, a psychologist at the University of California, believes that by magnifying the gifts of life, we will have more joy. Of course, if he makes it clear that he needs your support when he's in trouble, don't hesitate to help him. But you must know that what women need when complaining is not constructive opinions, but to listen carefully and feel what they feel, repeating words such as "so pitiful" and "so miserable". At the same time, researchers also remind that when there is a conflict between couples, no matter how heated the argument is, do not use sarcastic language, otherwise your relationship will definitely become stiff in the future.

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