In many couples' lives, sex is dominated by men, and women are in a "dominated" position. In fact, women may know more about sex than men imagine, especially married women, who have many sexual thoughts but are too shy to speak out. To this end, the British "Guardian" surveyed thousands of women and summarized the few things women most want to tell men about sex.

Women don’t like men to fight a “protracted war.” Most men believe that the longer it takes, the better they can show their sexual ability. In fact, when women enjoy sexual pleasure, they pay more attention to the details of consideration and care. If a man fights for an hour and has no new tricks, the woman lying underneath may already be tired of it. Physiologically speaking, the vagina has a limited ability to continuously lubricate, and if sex lasts too long, it will "slowly lose the fun." Psychologically speaking, women prefer that men be gentle for a while after the end, rather than falling asleep from exhaustion.

Women know that some sex positions come from porn. Men like to apply the methods in pornographic movies to actual sex, thinking that they can get greater pleasure. In fact, most of the scenes in pornographic movies are "appealing but useless". Sex is a whole-body experience, and fancy movements cannot increase pleasure. The woman wants to tell him: Honey, let’s imitate less and be more affectionate.

She knows how to bring herself to orgasm. If a man's "hard work" doesn't work for a long time, he might as well ask her. Many women who have a history of sexual life are familiar with their bodies and know where they are more sensitive and where they need stimulation.

Not every time a woman has sex she has to reach orgasm. Men always care whether a woman reaches orgasm or not. In fact, it is very normal for women to not feel orgasm during substantial love. Whether women can achieve orgasm has little to do with the duration of sex or penis size, but mainly with the way they achieve orgasm. Caress her more and stimulate the clitoris and you will be surprised.

Women sometimes moan to encourage men. Many women will increase the volume of their moans during sex because they know from the bottom of their hearts that men like this feeling of conquest. But men also need to learn to "reciprocate love" and affirm each other.

Women really want to discuss sexual skills with their partners. Obviously, no one sex technique works for all women, so communication between both parties is crucial. But it is a bit difficult for women to make sexual demands. At this time, men's patience and understanding are very necessary. Find the right moment to guide the woman to express her thoughts. Even if she feels her self-esteem is greatly hurt, the man should not overreact. After all, it takes a lot of courage for her to do this. This is also the first step towards a harmonious sex life.