Men are not scary, because they are all the same in essence; men are also scary, because they can talk sweetly and are too good at pretending. Women should remember not to regard men as gods. Men are also human beings. Just like you, they have emotions, ups and downs, fragility, and pain. A man must have three hearts - sense of responsibility, love, and ambition. Without the above three points, even if he looks like Pan An and is as strong as Superman, he cannot be called a man. Seven "don'ts" 1. Don't want a man who has an Oedipus complex. This kind of man has not been weaned, and food is his first priority. Of course he will love his mother far above you. 2. Don’t want a man with a virginity complex, even if you are a virgin. After staying with this kind of man for a long time, you will naturally find that he has many demands in life. 3. Don’t want a man with low self-esteem. This kind of man has a hurt mentality, is hysterical, and is difficult to maintain. 4. Men with physical defects cannot be wanted either. Same reason as above. 5. Men who grow up with domestic violence are not good either. One day, I will punch you hard. 6. You can’t want an alcoholic man without any reason. 7. Don’t ask for a man who is addicted to gambling, without any reason. Four "don't expect" 1. Don't expect, he will pamper you and protect you, and he will always wipe your ass for the stupid things you do. The pressure of survival is enough, if he likes it, unless he abuses himself. 2. Don’t expect him to protect you. If it could, then you wouldn't be possible. The reason why human beings continue to this day is thanks to men's "leaving seeds everywhere", which is a biological instinct. 3. Don’t expect him to look at beautiful women. Just like you love flowers, beautiful women are also flowers. It is reasonable to appreciate, admire and even pick them. 4. Don’t expect him to change for you. It’s better to expect a sow to climb a tree. Five "Believe" 1. Believe that 9 out of 10 men around you are secretly lusting after you, and 8 are interested in your body. 2. Believe that being with a man is very dangerous. There are four places you should not go to alone - his home, his office, his car, and the house he owns. 3. Believe that if being with him is more painful than happy, then you should break up completely. If you think he is not suitable for you, just tell him to get lost. 4. Believe that once he holds your hand, the next step is to kiss you, and the next step is to go to bed with you. 5. Believe that there is no best man in this world, only a man who is more suitable for you. Sixteen "Farewells" 1. Don't read Qiong Yao's books. Those beautiful loves are all utopias. Be realistic and cherish the people in front of you. 2. Don’t think that all men like women who are weak and crybaby. Only Jia Baoyu in the Grand View Garden loves Lin Daiyu. 3. Don't tell him not to pick wild flowers on the roadside - when he is on a business trip, give him condoms and tell him not to bring diseases home. 4. Don’t confront someone head-on. When he feels depressed or angry, remember that gentleness can overcome toughness. Don't force him to stay away from you. 5. Don’t tell him about your sexual history. Even if you have slept with a thousand men, insist that there was only one. 6. Don’t think he has hurt you. How could he hurt you without you giving him a chance? 7. Don’t feel that you have committed yourself to him and let him pollute your body. Enjoyment comes from each other, not to mention that when making love, he is the one who works hard and you are the one who enjoys it. 8. Don’t ask him why he left you or why he broke up. When he loves you, no reason is a reason, and the same is true when he doesn't love you. 9. Don’t wait patiently for him to look back, don’t let him trample your self-esteem, raise your head and walk away gloriously. 10. Don’t lose yourself for him. Just do whatever you have to do. He won’t love you even more if you lose yourself. 11. Don’t accommodate him. Long-lasting love does not come from unilateral accommodation, but from mutual understanding and tolerance. 12. Don’t chatter when he is silent. The man at this time must be upset. When he calms down and figures things out, he will definitely come to you on his own. 13. Don’t love him more than yourself. Treat yourself well and treat him well. 14. Don’t fall behind his pace, always improve yourself and be his good partner in life. 15. Don’t give up your friends for him. Give him and yourself some space. That way, once he leaves you, you will have nothing. 16. Don’t think that if you lose him, you will lose everything. If the old is not gone, how can the new come rushing in? One "don't" - don't be interested in a man's money. Women who are self-reliant and self-respecting are the most attractive!

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