Sex is a wonderful enjoyment, but with the acceleration of the pace of modern life, career pressure and excessive entertainment, many men feel physically and mentally exhausted. Many men begin to feel that they have no "sexual interest" at a young age. ". For some men, "sexual blessing" has even become a "sexual burden".

How “sexually” happy are office men?

With social development, increasing competitive pressure, and changes in lifestyle, andrological diseases in my country have been increasing at an annual rate of 3% in recent years, and the situation is very serious. Compared with women, men's health awareness is relatively weak. Unhealthy modern lifestyles such as excessive smoking and drinking, staying up late at night, sitting for long periods of time at work, and driving for long periods of time have also become invisible killers of men's health, leaving their health in crisis.

In recent years, the incidence of male diseases among white-collar men such as managers, civil servants, teachers, literary workers, and computer programmers has increased significantly. Relevant surveys show that about 70% of male "office workers" are troubled by andrological diseases, among which patients with prostate disease, sexual dysfunction, reproductive tract infection and male infertility are particularly prominent. These diseases are gradually widening the distance between them and "sexual well-off", making "sexual" happiness gradually farther and farther away.

High mental stress is the main reason

High mental pressure is the main reason why urban men have low sexual well-being. The causes of low sexual desire are psychological, such as stress at work and study, high financial pressure, strained social relationships, etc.; poor marital status, disharmony between husband and wife, and difficulty in generating sexual desire; some diseases, such as congenital microbiome; Testicles, cryptorchidism, testicular atrophy, hyperthyroidism or hypothyroidism, or liver, kidney, heart, or lung failure can all cause low sexual desire. In addition, drugs can also reduce sexual desire, such as reserpine, propranolol, methyldopa, hydrochlorothiazide, and estrogen; long-term alcohol abuse and drug abuse can also reduce sexual desire.

The woman’s behavior affects the man’s “sexual interest”

In sexual relationships, men dominate. Women can passively bear it, but if the man has no "sexual interest", the woman will not be able to enjoy "sexual happiness". So don’t think that a man’s sexual happiness is only a man’s business. In many cases, the woman's behavior will directly affect the man's "sense of sexual well-being":

1. The woman does not cooperate. Rejection of a man's sexual demands after marriage is often caused by emotional discord between the couple, the woman's poor mood, physical discomfort, or emotional transfer after the birth of the child. Over time, it can lead to decreased sexual desire, impotence, premature ejaculation and other dysfunctions in men.

2. The woman doesn’t understand. Men may occasionally experience erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation when they are tired, irritable, physically weak after illness, or use certain drugs that affect sexual function. If the woman not only cannot understand this, but complains or even insults her, it will eventually make it difficult to recover her sexual function.

3. The woman loses her charm. After marriage, many women no longer pay attention to personal behavior and cultivation, become vulgar and selfish, and no longer pay attention to maintaining their body or even dressing up. Over time, women's unique personality and physical charm will be lost, and men will easily lose their "sexual interest" in women.

Experts take a pulse on health

Doctors point out that unhealthy lifestyles such as long-term sedentary life, staying up late, and excessive drinking will destroy the body's immune system, reduce immune function, and be invaded by harmful microorganisms. , the prostate is very likely to bear the brunt of becoming a "victim"; and the prostate is an important accessory sex gland in men. Once a disease occurs, it will endanger the health of the entire male reproductive system and lead to seminal vesiculitis, orchitis, cystitis, sexual dysfunction and infertility. Diseases such as infertility syndrome, and even develop into chronic nephritis and uremia, not only affect the overall sexual quality of men, but also bring huge pain to the body and increase the burden on the family.

To grasp a man's "sexual happiness" is actually mainly dependent on yourself. The following four tricks can effectively improve a man's "sexual happiness":

1. Relax and adjust your nervousness in a timely manner, and ease and eliminate anxiety. Do something you like, such as listening to music, participating in group activities, and reading useful books;

2. Actively participate in physical exercise;

3. Avoid bad living habits, avoid Unhealthy eating habits, reduce socializing, avoid alcoholism, and control diet;

4. Rule out diseases. If necessary, go to the hospital to rule out urinary system diseases, such as chronic prostatitis, epididymitis, urethritis, or other diseases such as Endocrine diseases, various systemic chronic diseases.