Can a gentleman with a decent demeanor be well-educated towards his wife at home? If he is not graceful and selfish when having sex with his wife, and cannot achieve the "harmonious sex" advocated by Durex, then he must be a hypocrite and a hypocrite. How to be truly cultivated in and out of bed?

Don’t be self-centered

Some men do not know how to be considerate of their wives during sex. As long as the nature is serious, they have to be intimate with each other regardless of whether the wife is willing or not, and even forcefully ask for it when her period comes. If a man does not know how to be considerate of his wife, respect his wife's wishes, and care about her feelings, he will naturally make his wife bored and disgusted over time.

In daily life, a person who is polite, knows how to respect and care for others always gives people a good impression, and is more likely to win the love and closeness of others. His interpersonal relationships and social interactions will naturally be more harmonious. . In private life, a person with grace can also add points to the harmony and sweetness between husband and wife.

Respect your wife’s feelings

The first thing a cultivated man must do is respect his wife and listen to her ideas. Only when two people think alike can they achieve true sexual harmony. Other more "small sections" also need to be practiced slowly in daily life.

One thing that can reflect self-cultivation is to keep it clean. Many couples in Western countries will carefully rinse their entire bodies before having sex. The degree of harshness of disinfection is simply amazing. Although you don’t have to follow the rules, you can’t let your partner smell bad breath; you can’t kiss your partner right after eating garlic.

Civilized behavior is also a must for sexual cultivation. Many men know how to behave like a gentleman in life. For example, he will take off her coat diligently for her, he will carefully spread the tablecloth for her, he will considerately open the door for her, and he will even be considerate when she suddenly has something to do. buy her sanitary napkins. But when it comes to bed, he may be anything but gentlemanly. He only cares about his own feelings and does not consider yours at all. He doesn't know how to caress, flirt, or speak softly. This is something women cannot tolerate.