Newlyweds may lack sexual experience. If they do not make some preparations during the wedding, it may affect the quality of the couple's life on the first night of the wedding. Therefore, newlyweds should know more about some things, which will contribute to the happiness of the bridal chamber.

So, what preparations should newlyweds make for the bridal chamber?

First, clean the external genitalia before engaging in marital life

Before the wedding, couples should clean their vulva with warm water. Due to overwork, newlyweds will cause smegma in men to multiply, and vaginal secretions in women will also increase. If they do not clean their vulva before getting married, it will affect to sexual desire and reproductive health for both men and women.

Second, take good contraceptive measures

If newlyweds do not want children yet and do not take contraceptive pills, this will make both couples worried. If they are not focused, it will affect the quality of the couple's sexual life. Therefore, the woman should take birth control pills as early as possible, or use the method of the man wearing a condom, so that both parties can focus on their sexual life without worries and achieve satisfactory results.

Third, couples should cooperate and be considerate to each other

At the beginning of sexual life, both parties will be shy, especially the woman's psychological state will be more complicated, and it is inevitable that she will be nervous. Therefore, the husband should be gentler in his movements. If it doesn't work once, he can try a few more times. The woman should take the initiative to cooperate and relax her mind, so that sexual excitement can be aroused and vaginal secretions will increase, which can make the lubrication effect better and reduce the pain during sexual intercourse. If the hymen is ruptured, wipe it with gauze or cotton wool for disinfection, and then resume sexual intercourse every 2-3 days to avoid wound inflammation. If there is a lot of bleeding after the hymen ruptures, it is best to seek medical treatment in time.

Fourth, treat premature ejaculation correctly

For the first time during sexual intercourse, the man may ejaculate prematurely due to lack of sexual knowledge or excessive excitement, resulting in sexual intercourse failure. Women should forgive this, because this is not premature ejaculation. With the growth of sexual knowledge and accumulation of sexual experience after marriage, both parties will quickly return to normal after they have a tacit understanding and cooperation. In addition, if newlywed sexual intercourse is unsuccessful and the groom suffers from temporary impotence or premature ejaculation, the bride should not blame or laugh at the groom's sexual function, but should be gentle and considerate to comfort the groom, help the groom eliminate his negative psychology, and encourage him to try again until he succeeds.

In short, the first night of marriage is not very likely to achieve ideal and satisfactory results. Some couples may also suffer from sexual frigidity, leading to disharmony in their married life in the future. If both husband and wife can understand each other, communicate more, lower their expectations, and improve their married life while constantly accumulating experience, this will help to make their married life happy in the future.