Only by tapping into men’s sexual fears can women provide him with effective help, thereby enhancing the relationship between the two parties.  1. Fear of women’s concern about size 

Men’s worries about the size of their genitals are as strong as women’s worries about the size of their breasts.

You have helped him overcome his fear by ignoring the problem—that is, by not talking about it. When making love, you only need to tell him that you feel good, and his sexual confidence will increase and he will appreciate your thoughtfulness. 

2. Afraid of not knowing when women need more stimulation 

“During sex, my wife usually caresses her clitoris with her own hands. Sometimes, I also use I used my hand to caress it, but she pushed my hand away. Isn’t this what she needs for clitoral stimulation? It really makes me confused.” In fact, most men don’t know much about women’s physiological structure. Therefore, you have to give him guidance: as much as possible, not with words but with your hands. Just hold his hand and guide him to make movements that make you feel pleasure. 

3. Fear of not having a strong erection during sex 

Men over the age of 30 usually have this fear. Because men over the age of 30 often have weak erections. "I'm almost 40 years old, and my penis erection is not hard enough. Although I can still have it, my wife doesn't seem very happy." serious. The best solution is to caress his genitals with your hands or let him perform vaginal stimulation. In this way, the erect penis will become harder.

4. Afraid of women faking orgasms

“Not long after we got married, my wife told me that she sometimes fakes orgasms. This makes me very upset. Now, I don’t know when she is Really, it’s fake. I’m afraid that she’s pretending to have an orgasm, because it means she’s hiding dissatisfaction, and I’m not aware of it.” Some women equate pretending to orgasm with saying nice things to others. In fact, the two are different. It’s not that you shouldn’t fake an orgasm. You can say: “I’m sorry, because I’m too tired. In fact, the close contact with you has made me very satisfied.” 

5. Afraid that women won’t let you He watched her masturbate

"Watching my wife take off her clothes makes me extremely excited. Sometimes, during the climax of lovemaking, she caresses herself, and I get even more excited when I see her. I once asked her to masturbate in front of me, but she scolded me for imagining things." Indeed, some women masturbate in front of their partners as part of sex. However, many women believe that masturbation is a private matter rather than an intimate act with their partner. In fact, women do not need to blame their husbands for this. It will be much more beneficial to the relationship between the two parties to express their thoughts clearly.  6. Afraid that she will not get multiple orgasms 

The legend of multiple orgasms not only makes men but also women crazy. In fact, it is enough for two people to share happiness and intimacy from sex. An orgasm, or even no orgasm, is irrelevant. 

If you are satisfied with the current sex, please tell him clearly. This is because many men are obsessed with the idea that it is their responsibility for their partner to have orgasms or multiple orgasms. You should explain to him that everything in the relationship, including sex, is a shared responsibility.  7. Fear of having sex that will not last long 

If a man only has sex for five or six minutes, not only will he be dissatisfied, but he is also afraid that his partner will also be dissatisfied. Both men and women know that it takes a long time for women to get excited, a long time to reach climax, and a certain amount of afterplay time. 

If he can't last that long, then you should increase the time of foreplay and afterplay, or add some new ingredients to sex, and sex will become more interesting. 

8. I am afraid that my partner is unwilling to add new elements to sex.

“I love my wife very much. The only thing that dissatisfies me about her is that she is too conservative in sex and does not want to Add something new. ”

Indeed, the characteristics of sex vary. Some women are open and bold, others are very conservative. In fact, as long as both parties truly love each other, it doesn't matter what sexual orientation they have. But, having said that, as long as women are a little more open-minded and add some new elements to their sexuality, it will be beneficial and harmless to the relationship.

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