A man’s “undue desire” for his wife

Men appear strong, but they also have a fragile heart. In terms of closeness, what "unreasonable thoughts" does a man have about his wife?

One of the "irrelevant thoughts": The more a woman loves, the braver a man will be

A man does not object to fulfilling his obligations to his family and women, if he can clearly know that he How much his wife loves him, and how intoxicated his wife is in the happiness of being with him, he will sacrifice everything for his family and his wife without hesitation.

On the contrary, if a man is not sure about the feelings of his family and women or even has unnecessary worries, he will behave like a scoundrel. When it comes to matters related to family and their women, men like to hear answers like Mrs. Eisenhower's: "The greatest career life can bring to a woman is to be a wife."

"Unreasonable thinking "Second: Have a broad mind and truly understand men's shortcomings and faults

Men value their families and women far more than women imagine. They are always accustomed to treating their families and women as a safe haven and comfort zone. So they hope that this place can fully accommodate their successes and failures, and welcome them back with open arms at any time.

"Improper Thoughts" No. 3: Women must be hygienic and love cleanliness

Although they themselves are lazy and dirty, they cannot tolerate a woman who does not wash her face or feet or faces A woman who is indifferent to a chaotic home. Because they think that their family and their women are their true faces.

"Improper Thoughts" No. 4: Men need the status of the head of the family

Women always like to argue with men on the issue of being the head of the family, just like a family It seems that the Lord can really control anything. In fact, what men want is just a status. How can they take the initiative to take on the responsibility of buying vegetables and washing dishes if they are so lazy? It's like in a country with a constitutional monarchy, the prime minister decides everything, but the dignity and majesty of the king cannot be ignored.

"Irrelevant thoughts" No. 5: Men are afraid of loneliness

Psychologically speaking, men are animals that are very afraid of loneliness and loneliness. The reason why single men go out for a drink every night or go to sleep at a friend's house is not because they like drinking or are very close to their friends. The real reason is that they are afraid of being alone

So married men have every reason to believe that they should no longer feel alone and lonely. So when men lose track of their women or they come home late or even not at all, they become as frightened as a naked nun in a busy city.

Improper thinking” No. 6: Don’t expect a man’s family to be the same on the outside

Women often complain that men are different at home and outside, so why is he always so polite to outsiders? He is polite but treats me like a tyrant? Why can't he be nice to me? In fact, women don't have to worry about this.

Because politeness is only a social necessity, and being too polite is harmful to the family. When a man behaves very politely to a woman, it can only mean that he has lost his love for her or done something wrong to her.

"Improper Thoughts" No. 7: Women should not confront men when they are angry

The pressure and suffering that men endure in society are beyond the experience of women. This bad mood is likely to be brought home by them, so men often take it home for no reason. When they pick on women or get angry at them, they are not really dissatisfied with women, but they are just venting their frustration. At this time, men need women's understanding and acceptance the most, and they need to pay a considerable price of tit-for-tat. The quarrels will undoubtedly add fuel to the fire for men.

"Irregular thoughts" No. 8: Men are also jealous

Men are no less jealous than women, and they often fight with each other with their lives. Far more men die under the swords of duels between love rivals than women who are jealous and tear themselves apart. If a woman really loves her man, she should try to understand the man's mentality mixed with self-esteem and vanity, and treat the man's suspicion and speculation carefully. Taking the initiative to explain the reasons and process of interacting with other men is not only a true understanding and concern for one's own man, but also a way for women to supervise their own words and deeds.

Nine of the "Improper Thoughts": Don't talk about the right and wrong at home.

Don't make family scandals public. The right and wrong at home are inherently unclear matters. If gossip from the outside is added to the mix, a man's self-esteem will completely collapse. At that time, even if a man wants to reconcile, he will be unable to get off. If a woman really wants to solve a problem, her only option is to discuss it slowly behind closed doors. Because a man’s housekeeping principle is: no outsiders are allowed to interfere in internal affairs.

"Improper Thoughts" No. 10: Don't compare your husband and family with others

In the eyes of men, it is right for women to compare their men and family with others. A serious betrayal of his own man and family. It is impossible for them to understand a woman's original intentions and wishes in good faith, and they will only subjectively think that the woman is picking on them to express their dissatisfaction. They will also ruthlessly think, if you are not satisfied, why don't you leave immediately?