Senior sex instructor Michael Castleman M.A. in New York, USA. Many couples who love each other have a messed up sex life. One of the important reasons is that they ignore the important role of massage. Men often think that the beginning of sex is to "attack" those sensitive points on a woman's body, and too many actions will waste time. In fact, a full-body massage that is unhurried, full of fun, gentle and considerate is the best sex scene, and it is irresistible for both men and women.

Massaging the whole body makes women more likely to have orgasms. Research has found that human skin contains two types of touch nerves, one that transmits pain and the other that transmits pleasure. Women's skin is more sensitive to touch. Gentle massage can excite women's pleasure nerves, and the body will release hormones, making people relax and produce feelings of happiness and love, which in turn promote love, sexual arousal, sexual pleasure and orgasm. Massage all over the body from scalp to toes, lasting for 30 minutes, will give women a more enthusiastic erotic response, the vagina will be sufficiently lubricated, and it will be easier to obtain psychological satisfaction and orgasm. Unfortunately, many men ignore this point, which also makes them lose the opportunity to become a sex master.

Gentle massage is irresistible to men. Most men have doubts about the important role of massage because after childhood, they rarely have gentle physical contact. In addition, pornographic information also brings men's attention to their genitals and equates sex with sexual organs. In fact, a woman’s gentle and considerate full-body massage is often hard for men to resist. Massage-based sex can also help men avoid erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation problems. This is because, on the one hand, massage can bring about sexual fantasies and stimulation, allowing the genitals to fully erect; on the other hand, the sexual excitement throughout the body during massage relieves the pressure on the genitals, thereby delaying ejaculation.

Massage is the most advanced sex scene. Forget the so-called "foreplay", let every sexual moment be a "bed play", without sequence or rules. You can take off your clothes while listening to music, hug and kiss each other on the bed, massage each other, touch every inch of each other's skin with your hands, use each other's whole body as a sensual playground, let sex spread all over the body, and enjoy the highest level of sex. feast.

Three steps of sexual massage. Many sex masters in the United States have summarized a set of couples massage methods for your reference. First of all, when massaging, your hands should be soft and warm. Appropriate pinching, kneading, rubbing, and tapping of muscles can mobilize the tactile nerves of the skin. Choosing aromatic essential oils can stimulate sexual desire. Secondly, fluffy hair and sexy lace underwear may make both parties more excited, but be careful not to be completely naked. It is best for men to cover their bodies with blankets and play music at the same time. Finally, there is no need to worry about whether the massage is "right". In a couples massage, quality is more important than technique.