If you have never had sex before, you will inevitably be confused when you have sex for the first time. You don’t know what to do, and you often mess up your first sex life. If you want to make your first sexual life smoother, you must make preparations in advance, including physical preparation and psychological preparation. Doing it after you are ready will leave you with good memories of your first sexual life.

What should you pay attention to when having sex for the first time?

1. Have sex at the right age

Don’t have sex too early for the first time, and don’t have sex at an early age. The reproductive system has not yet matured, and rash sexual life will not only increase the incidence of some diseases, but also affect women's gynecological health. Moreover, at an early age and without a clear understanding of sexual aspects, it is easy to have an unexpected pregnancy, which will cause a huge blow both physically and psychologically.

2. Understand relevant knowledge

Before you have sex for the first time, you need to understand relevant sexual knowledge. You need to know how sexual life starts, what the process is like, and how to end it. Especially how to do foreplay, whether the foreplay goes smoothly or not is particularly critical. You can't just ask questions and don't know anything. Going into battle without knowing anything is more likely to cause some unexpected situations, which may even make it impossible to start your sex life smoothly.

3. Contraception is necessary

It is a misunderstanding that women will not get pregnant for the first time they have sex. Women become fertile after menstruation. They must take contraceptive measures when they have sex for the first time. Otherwise, if they get pregnant unintentionally, they will have to have an abortion, and the woman will be injured. When choosing contraception, you should choose some reliable contraceptive methods. In vitro ejaculation and safe period contraception are not reliable. It is best to choose condoms, which have a high success rate and will not affect women's health. Emergency contraceptive pills can only be used as a remedial measure in emergencies and cannot be used frequently for contraception.

4. Choose the right space

When you have sex for the first time, you will inevitably be nervous and feel unsafe. At this time, you must choose a suitable environment. Don't always worry about being discovered, and don't be affected by the external environment and make yourself have a bad experience. Choose a comfortable, romantic and emotional environment to create a beautiful memory for yourself. In addition to creating a good environment, the entire atmosphere must also be created well, to appease the woman's psychology, not to make her too nervous, and to learn to encourage and support. Some men will ejaculate too quickly when they have sex for the first time. Women should not complain.

5. Pay attention to women’s bleeding problems

If a woman has sex for the first time, she will experience the process of hymen rupture. At this time, the bleeding situation should be closely observed. Generally speaking, the amount of bleeding is very small. If the amount of bleeding is large and painful, seek medical treatment in time. It needs to be emphasized here that not every woman will have her hymen ruptured for the first time during sexual intercourse, because the hymen may be ruptured prematurely by external force, so it cannot be judged whether a woman is a virgin based on this. Not fair to women.

There are many things to pay attention to when having sex for the first time. Don’t be too reckless. If you want to leave good memories, you must make relevant preparations. In particular, safety measures must be taken to avoid leaving a shadow on the first sexual life.