Many women will find a phenomenon, that is, their partners have relatively strong sexual desire, and it seems that they can never be satisfied. In fact, this is a manifestation of hypersexuality, and they need to pay attention to psychological conditioning and treatment, because this is a psychological condition. problem caused.

What should I do if my husband has too much sexual desire?

We have been married for half a year, and my husband has a very strong sexual desire, which is very strong no matter day or night. Now, once a day has become a routine, and 2 to 3 times a day is not surprising. There were even several times when he called me home at noon. Not only do his sexual impulses occur too much, but they are also too fast and too strong. They are often difficult to suppress and cannot be dealt with. He often wants to have sex immediately when he thinks of it, and he has no idea what fatigue is. This made me very disgusted and I often quarreled with him. I'm worried that there will be negative consequences if this continues. What if his body was broken?

Hypersexuality is often caused by psychological problems

Experts believe that this reader’s husband has hypersexuality. If sexual desire is extremely strong, it should be restricted, otherwise it will lead to a decline in sexual ability, which will be difficult to recover.

Analyzing the causes of hypersexuality, most of them are caused by psychological factors. The common ones are as follows:

① Be infatuated and fond of your spouse in every possible way, and be too indulgent; ② There is a strong sexual color in the living environment, and you can be sexually stimulated at any time; ③ You have had many intoxicating sexual experiences with endless aftertaste, so you go too far Obsessed with the experience of sexual pleasure; ④ Very interested in sexual issues, often focusing too much on sexual issues; ⑤ Comparing sexual ability with others to show that one is superior; ⑥ Thinking that frequent sexual life is the most modern and most important thing Romantic lifestyle; ⑦ Fear of losing the other person, strong possessiveness and desire to dominate; ⑧ The thought of "men are superior to women" and always want to "conquer" the woman with a sexual lifestyle; ⑨ Afraid that one's sexual ability is not good, and that one's spouse will not have a good sex life To be satisfied, they continue to express themselves through sexual behavior.

Teach you how to deal with hypersexuality

How to control hypersexuality? You can try the following methods.

1. Restrict sexual thoughts deep in the mind

People with hypersexuality engage in frequent sexual intercourse for the sole purpose of obtaining more sexual pleasure. Therefore, we must first restrict the "source" of sexual thoughts.

The specific method is: force yourself to calm down, read several books that introduce healthy sexual physiology and psychology, and have a rational understanding of sex. Take the initiative to communicate with your spouse and ask for supervision. Whenever sexual thoughts occur, you can silently remind yourself to stay away from such thoughts; if it doesn't work, you can say "no" to yourself loudly and repeatedly and forcibly suppress the sexual thoughts.

2. Restricting sexual overtones in the environment

In daily life and the surrounding environment, any sexual objects and words may become a trigger for sexual desire and must be blocked as much as possible, including movies, books, magazines, pictures, audio, etc. In short, try to reduce all kinds of sexual stimulation in the environment as much as possible. Subjectively, you should consciously avoid conversations involving sexual content with others, and you should also consciously avoid paying attention to the opposite sex, and strive to distract yourself from sexual issues.