It is certainly good to be satisfied with your first and first sexual life after marriage. But there are also those who are not very satisfied with their life, because newlyweds often lack knowledge about sex. They have just come into contact and are easily nervous, shy and fearful. It is normal for them to have a poor sex life. However, it’s best to enjoy your wedding night. Specifically, please pay attention to the following points:

1. Pay attention to external genital hygiene

On your wedding night, you and your husband should wash your vulva with warm water and mild soap. Newlyweds are busy and tired due to wedding shopping and entertaining relatives and friends. Men's smegma and women's vaginal secretions increase. If not cleaned, it is very unhygienic and will affect the sexual desire and health of both men and women.

2. Take good contraceptive measures

If a man and a woman do not want to have a baby right away and do not take birth control pills, both the couple will have concerns, and the woman will be more afraid of getting pregnant, so she will not be able to concentrate highly and her sex life will be affected. If the woman takes birth control pills in time, or the man wears a condom, both parties will have no worries, concentrate, and achieve satisfactory results in their sexual life.

3. Close cooperation and considerate of each other

When starting sexual life, both parties will feel shy, especially the woman, who has a complicated psychological state and is a little nervous. You need to ask your husband to move gently, and if it doesn't work once, try a few more times. The woman must also take the initiative to cooperate, overcome tension and fear, take the initiative to relax mentally, and be sexually aroused quickly. The vaginal secretions are abundant and have good lubrication effect, which can reduce the pain during sexual intercourse and relieve the pain caused by the abrasion of the hymen.

4. Prevent inflammation of the damaged hymen

After the hymen is ruptured, if there is some slight pain and a small amount of bleeding, you should wipe it with sterilized gauze or cotton wool. It is best to wait 2-3 days before having sexual intercourse to prevent wound inflammation. If your hymen is ruptured, bleeding a lot, and the pain is unbearable, you should seek medical attention.

5. Treat premature ejaculation correctly

For the first time during sexual intercourse, the man may ejaculate prematurely due to lack of sexual knowledge or excessive excitement, resulting in sexual intercourse failure. You should forgive this situation. This is not premature ejaculation. With the growth of sexual knowledge and accumulation of sexual experience after marriage, both parties will cooperate tacitly and will soon return to normal.